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Krakencel
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It’s not validation or positive reinforcement. It’s because you don't want to wreck what you have going for you. The social system gives you what you want, so you want to fly under the radar and not rock the boat. So many times I'm interacting with people I just want them to stay chill and let me fuck their women. Any chumminess I'm putting out is just a reflection of the fact that the social arrangement gives me what I want and screws them. I'm being nice to avoid drawing attention or give resentment. It's about avoiding the evil eye -- more than a reflection of validation. Anyone who is attractive isn't trying to get validation from normies (unless it's part of their job or it can be monetized in some way). We're just trying to placate people who have it worse than us.