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Lets talk about the facts.
They are generally 2 genders. Male and female. This is determined by chromosomes and systems after like primary sex hormonal cycling and genes. We know its a fact that hormones change the brain chemistry. In short, men and women think differently and are more likely to have sex specific brain patterns.
In society, we see that men are (likely) to operate in a preposition where they rely on logical processes and reason at the detriment of emotional and social awareness. Likewise, we see that women are likely to operate in a preposition that favors emotional-socio brain processes at the detriment of logical processes and sound reason (objectivity).
Because of this, this is why it can be observed that the majority of AVERAGE men in todays society tend to not be as successful as the majority of AVERAGE women in todays society. This is because success in todays society is MORE dependent on social psychology and support networks than what it used to be before.
The world reveals a lack of understanding of adult male emotional psychology, and psychology in general.
It's not that men suck at this, but that the social impulses to communicate emotionally aren't always a primary to men, to the same degree as it is a women. It's not a problem by itself, but is a problem when in a post-tribal world; social support networks and social psychology is the main factor into survival, and people can become very socially isolated (thus dead ended) if their socio-emotional communicative capabilities drive is not enough to secure sufficient social support networks. A mans drive may instead be directed toward something else, like a hyper fixation on hobby interest, or a character trait uncooperative towards social normalcy; such as divergency.
Let me explain a bit more.
The state of our society has long evolved from religious/feudal order. In times past, men had inherit value and respect due to his nature being more likely to innovate, take risks, lead by force (non covertly), and be more likely to diverge (divergency as in thinking/behaving outside of the norm, often leading to innovation or other solution to problems). This was required in a undeveloped society because in essence, men needed to behave like this so society could properly get off its bootstraps when it comes to sciences, risky infrastructure ideas, and centralization of power and resources. This is why in third world countries, we still see some resemblance of traditional patriarchy.
Now, since we have developed enough as a society where inventions are no longer required, a lot of the traits men generally are naturally proficient in is not as important, which leads to a loss of inherit value socially. For example, in the west, divergency is seen as rebellious, and leading by force seen as aggression. This is a sign that the primary value shift of society has turned to socio economic and social structured psychology patterns. The shift also aligns with integral theory maps of psychological levels, such as maps made by Ken Wilber and Clare W. Graves.
And just like i said before, women "excel" at emotional-socio processes. In essence, being a women comes with having a hormonally feminized brain and emotional configuration that likely involves, relative to males, active desire towards socio-emotional behavior and capabilities. In short, we live in a world where the likley women preposition is prioritized. A world where social support network psychology is key to living a independent and healthy life, especially since the introduction technology's such as the internet. I'm not just speaking out of my hindquarters either.
There is objective data('s) that prove they are overwhelmingly more social support networks for women than men that exist, such as but not limited to; More social programs, affirmative actions, study's that prove more positive reception happens to the female gender (women are wonderful effect), favorable paternity laws, child custody, and also archetypes and social spaces which are not as negatively labeled. They are also statistically more homeless men than women in almost all metrics that exist, yet more women shelters than men shelters.
This is exactly why its appropriate to say we live in a matriarchy and not a patriarchy. Not because women are more capable, or that they are more prolific. Not because the top % of men control everything. But because the society structure we live in favors a women preposition (in short). It is by this definition we live in a matriarchal system. Feminist will gaslight saying we live in a patriarchy because men still control everything essentially. And while it is true that the holders of power and wealth are all disproportionately male, it is also true that the percentage of males who own all of these things are only a very small segment of the population. as well as many other factors determining the discrepancy.
When it comes to your AVERAGE man and AVERAGE woman. Average women have way more advantage in this world than average men. Men are underserviced by mental health resources and programs to help those who have fallen down. The family, community, and religious safety nets of mid to late 20th Century (from old society systems i referred to above) have all but evaporated. Our peers, particularly our female potential mates view any sort of sensitivity or emotional need as weakness to be shun. We are held to traditional roles simply out of conflict of interest. And the world even goes as far to label males spaces where they can gain support networks negatively, like "incel". As such, even the resources that should be available to him (the average man) are often not palatable or usable in todays time without massive consequences and detriments.
They are generally 2 genders. Male and female. This is determined by chromosomes and systems after like primary sex hormonal cycling and genes. We know its a fact that hormones change the brain chemistry. In short, men and women think differently and are more likely to have sex specific brain patterns.
In society, we see that men are (likely) to operate in a preposition where they rely on logical processes and reason at the detriment of emotional and social awareness. Likewise, we see that women are likely to operate in a preposition that favors emotional-socio brain processes at the detriment of logical processes and sound reason (objectivity).
Because of this, this is why it can be observed that the majority of AVERAGE men in todays society tend to not be as successful as the majority of AVERAGE women in todays society. This is because success in todays society is MORE dependent on social psychology and support networks than what it used to be before.
The world reveals a lack of understanding of adult male emotional psychology, and psychology in general.
It's not that men suck at this, but that the social impulses to communicate emotionally aren't always a primary to men, to the same degree as it is a women. It's not a problem by itself, but is a problem when in a post-tribal world; social support networks and social psychology is the main factor into survival, and people can become very socially isolated (thus dead ended) if their socio-emotional communicative capabilities drive is not enough to secure sufficient social support networks. A mans drive may instead be directed toward something else, like a hyper fixation on hobby interest, or a character trait uncooperative towards social normalcy; such as divergency.
Let me explain a bit more.
The state of our society has long evolved from religious/feudal order. In times past, men had inherit value and respect due to his nature being more likely to innovate, take risks, lead by force (non covertly), and be more likely to diverge (divergency as in thinking/behaving outside of the norm, often leading to innovation or other solution to problems). This was required in a undeveloped society because in essence, men needed to behave like this so society could properly get off its bootstraps when it comes to sciences, risky infrastructure ideas, and centralization of power and resources. This is why in third world countries, we still see some resemblance of traditional patriarchy.
Now, since we have developed enough as a society where inventions are no longer required, a lot of the traits men generally are naturally proficient in is not as important, which leads to a loss of inherit value socially. For example, in the west, divergency is seen as rebellious, and leading by force seen as aggression. This is a sign that the primary value shift of society has turned to socio economic and social structured psychology patterns. The shift also aligns with integral theory maps of psychological levels, such as maps made by Ken Wilber and Clare W. Graves.
And just like i said before, women "excel" at emotional-socio processes. In essence, being a women comes with having a hormonally feminized brain and emotional configuration that likely involves, relative to males, active desire towards socio-emotional behavior and capabilities. In short, we live in a world where the likley women preposition is prioritized. A world where social support network psychology is key to living a independent and healthy life, especially since the introduction technology's such as the internet. I'm not just speaking out of my hindquarters either.
There is objective data('s) that prove they are overwhelmingly more social support networks for women than men that exist, such as but not limited to; More social programs, affirmative actions, study's that prove more positive reception happens to the female gender (women are wonderful effect), favorable paternity laws, child custody, and also archetypes and social spaces which are not as negatively labeled. They are also statistically more homeless men than women in almost all metrics that exist, yet more women shelters than men shelters.
This is exactly why its appropriate to say we live in a matriarchy and not a patriarchy. Not because women are more capable, or that they are more prolific. Not because the top % of men control everything. But because the society structure we live in favors a women preposition (in short). It is by this definition we live in a matriarchal system. Feminist will gaslight saying we live in a patriarchy because men still control everything essentially. And while it is true that the holders of power and wealth are all disproportionately male, it is also true that the percentage of males who own all of these things are only a very small segment of the population. as well as many other factors determining the discrepancy.
When it comes to your AVERAGE man and AVERAGE woman. Average women have way more advantage in this world than average men. Men are underserviced by mental health resources and programs to help those who have fallen down. The family, community, and religious safety nets of mid to late 20th Century (from old society systems i referred to above) have all but evaporated. Our peers, particularly our female potential mates view any sort of sensitivity or emotional need as weakness to be shun. We are held to traditional roles simply out of conflict of interest. And the world even goes as far to label males spaces where they can gain support networks negatively, like "incel". As such, even the resources that should be available to him (the average man) are often not palatable or usable in todays time without massive consequences and detriments.
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