The responsibility pill

Jason Voorhees

Jason Voorhees

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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
 
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If you aren't dying in the middle of a rainforest with all your limbs cut off and your blood supply running out you have no excuse to not move forward. Life is meant to be lived. Self pity will get you nowhere.
 
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True, but i have struggled mentally after finding the bp. I'm obsessed with looks; it's not good to get blackpilled early.
 
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Goddamn that’s a long text, I’ll switch over to my pc and read it in a bit and will share my thoughts.
 
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Self pity and the BP obsession costed me so much over the past few years. I literally had everything and could've gotten all my surgeries by now considering how much money I was making then. The BP blinded myself from that reality at the time - I escaped wage slaving. Now with recent events it could all fall apart and I'm just getting older day by day watching it tumble down. I don't see a way out this time logically speaking. Probably gonna put an end to my pathetic incel life sometime this year.
 
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
You're 6'1, but I agree with the message chetta (Bhai in Kerala tongue) thanks for the advive
 
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I thought you'd appreciate a good read. I wont tag you from next time
No i appreciate getting tagged.

Just wondered if you had noticed a pattern in my personality/behavior im not aware of
 
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Delayed gratification is hard.
Gratification that is not only delayed, but not assured, is even harder.

My greatest fear is that I get my surgeries and I achieve my goal body with massive tren dose, and in the end it’s still not enough and I’ve wasted tens of thousands of hours on various gymcelling, wageslaving to afford surgery, recovery from surgery, and other minor looksmaxes.

When I could have just been comfy inactive NEET and ended up with exactly the same life.
 
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Didn't read a single molecule Of your retarded thread
 
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based thread ngl while the blackpill remains true, self pity and complacency will just make things worse. unironically you gotta learn to work with what you have and go from there. not everyone can be chad; most can ascend to mtn or htn. so act accordingly.
If you aren't dying in the middle of a rainforest with all your limbs cut off and your blood supply running out you have no excuse to not move forward. Life is meant to be lived. Self pity will get you nowhere.
yeah unless you are a legit genetic failure or completely disabled you can still move forward with life. including dating ngl.
 
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based thread ngl while the blackpill remains true, self pity and complacency will just make things worse. unironically you gotta learn to work with what you have and go from there. not everyone can be chad; most can ascend to mtn or htn. so act accordingly.

yeah unless you are a legit genetic failure or completely disabled you can still move forward with life. including dating ngl.
Imagine calling someone based and not repping them
 
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Just read the summary of the thread Pretty good thread tbh
 
Goddamn that’s a long text, I’ll switch over to my pc and read it in a bit and will share my thoughts.
Just read tldr man
 
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my issue is my mental state brother. I don't have 245+ for a 45 minute therapy session a week and medication messes me up more. I don't know what my problem is. If its my mental issues or my height when it comes to dating.
 
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Jews are predicting any course of action I can take and work around the clock to sabotage me.

How can I escape?
 
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
BUmp
 
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Yeah some users here like @
_MVP_
@_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything
i belong to the same category. anyway, i agree with you. no one's gonna fix your shit but you. i already accepted years ago that i led myself to the place where i am now, and that i am the reason why things haven't changed almost ten years later. i'm one of the guys you were talking about, entering their 30s and their lives still being the same as they were before. there are ways in which i can progress but there's also ways in which i can never move forward no matter how much i want to, how much action i take or how much i accept my reponsibilities. not everyone can be saved and i've learned the hard way.
 
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Completely disagree with your topic btw. Nowhere is there any compassion or sympathy for victims in your story. Which essentially means you blame victims for their rough situation, which is complete retardation.

Not everyone was born into privilege and messed it all up due to retard decision-making. Some of us, like me, have had insane bottom 1% childhoods which led us to the situation we now face. JFL at blaming me for this shit.
 
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Completely disagree with your topic btw. Nowhere is there any compassion or sympathy for victims in your story. Which essentially means you blame victims for their rough situation, which is complete retardation.

Not everyone was born into privilege and messed it all up due to retard decision-making. Some of us, like me, have had insane bottom 1% childhoods which led us to the situation we now face. JFL at blaming me for this shit.
I literally addressed this it is not your fault it is your responsibility. Literally the title. Its not a pull yourself up thr bootstraps bro post
 
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bad take, first in a while from u, all good tho, you will get back up
 
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
Fuck dude... This really hits deep ngl I've been feeling like this for a long time now...


Sike, dnr.
 
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So true, most “incels” in the blackpill community are just normies who’ve lost all hope and refuse to at least do anything. And if you try to help them some of em will say that literally everything is a cope including surgery.
 
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Explain how
I'd have agreed with you, if I didn't have the same problem, I used to be very motivated and looksmaxed hard, gym etc, but falling back in my Ed, and miserable life, it's not as easy as you make it, you don't randomly wake up 1 day, and want to fix your life, sometime, you find comfort in your own problems after having them for years

for some people it's tough to actually get better, sometime, all you want is peace, sometime, being stuck is healthier than going up and down

No, my priority isn't going to 30 as a Chad, my priority is maybe, making it to 30 years old
 
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
I've started working hard again, I'm trying to fix whatever I've done wrong in the past
 
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
Average redpill takes . But yes 100% agree
 
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change.
just take responsibility bro 🥹🥹 responsibility as in keep grinding (wage-cucking) harder bro? and what after that? not even surgeries can ascend you if you're actually ugly, a truecel

Pierre – Little Baby Face


do you realize ropemaxxing is also a form of taking responsibility? isn't that the only solution?
 

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