
EnglandBadman
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If the root of your depression and sadness is because of your looks or dating life. I think you should identify and improve the problem to the best of your ability but also realise that not everything in life is about looks and dating/sex.
Coping by finding happiness in other areas of life is not actually so bad if you find self acceptance in what you are. It will prevent you from wasting energy on something that is unfixable and instead divert your energy into something that actually truly makes you happy. You only have one life, so wasting it on worrying about things that cant be changed is just stupid.
We often get obsessed with one topic that we truly believe in/are newly discovering (looksmaxxing), that we overvalue its importance and truth (blackpill). It can seriously screw your mindset by making you biased and incel.
There are so many other things to enjoy in life, it just takes you to realise it.
Coping by finding happiness in other areas of life is not actually so bad if you find self acceptance in what you are. It will prevent you from wasting energy on something that is unfixable and instead divert your energy into something that actually truly makes you happy. You only have one life, so wasting it on worrying about things that cant be changed is just stupid.
We often get obsessed with one topic that we truly believe in/are newly discovering (looksmaxxing), that we overvalue its importance and truth (blackpill). It can seriously screw your mindset by making you biased and incel.
There are so many other things to enjoy in life, it just takes you to realise it.
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