The three times girls approached me first (Advice needed)

[raabla]

All as a cashier

1.Some girl asked for my number

Then the fucking stupid whore texted me saying it’s for her guy friend, I left her ass on seen.

2. A girls mom wanted me to date her daughter, but I said she was too young for me (I was 2 years older, at 19 and she was 17 but I was just scared of a relationship ig and said she’s too young for me to reject nicely)

3. Yesterday another girls mom said her daughter asked if I had a gf, I said no I don’t
(Another 2 year difference now I'm 20 and she's 18)


I need advice about what i should do, i never been in any relationships and new experiences like dating scare me but i know i have to get into one eventually to find a wife and get experience. I seen this girl once and already forgot what she looks like but i do remember she was attractive with BIG BOOBS that's all i remember of her looks. She didn't seem ghetto or slutty so that's a plus.

I didn't make any moves i just said i don't have a girlfriend but if her mom asks again I'll tell her to give her daughter my number

 

[raabla]

tagging maturecels for advice @Gengar @SecularIslamist @PrinceLuenLeoncur @MoggerGaston

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[MoggerGaston]

Are you the cashier from target

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

All as a cashier

1.Some girl asked for my number

Then the fucking stupid whore texted me saying it’s for her guy friend, I left her ass on seen.

2. A girls mom wanted me to date her daughter, but I said she was too young for me (I was 2 years older, at 19 and she was 17 but I was just scared of a relationship ig and said she’s too young for me to reject nicely)

3. Yesterday another girls mom said her daughter asked if I had a gf, I said no I don’t
(Another 2 year difference now I'm 20 and she's 18)


I need advice about what i should do, i never been in any relationships and new experiences like dating scare me but i know i have to get into one eventually to find a wife and get experience. I seen this girl once and already forgot what she looks like but i do remember she was attractive with BIG BOOBS that's all i remember of her looks. She didn't seem ghetto or slutty so that's a plus.

I didn't make any moves i just said i don't have a girlfriend but if her mom asks again I'll tell her to give her daughter my number

You must be gl to have parents do this to you. Only cumskins and mullato women do this for their kids.

So I say date one maybe you’ll enjoy it also 2 years isn’t that big just do it. What’s the worst that could happen

I’m bbc and went to the suburbs in the middle of nowhere to clap massive big white girl cheeks and I thought I was gonna end up like the nighas in that film “get out” but I met her family and the whyman was cool. I did clap that girls cheeks 10/10 would do again.

So I say go for it you may get lucky like 18yr old me and get big white ass cheeks to clap or maybe flat chink cheeks as your a cumskin that’s prob your type?

 

[romanstock]

Never once happened to me.

 

[raabla]

You must be gl to have parents do this to you. Only cumskins and mullato women do this for their kids.

So I say date one maybe you’ll enjoy it also 2 years isn’t that big just do it. What’s the worst that could happen

I’m bbc and went to the suburbs in the middle of nowhere to clap massive big white girl cheeks and I thought I was gonna end up like the nighas in that film “get out” but I met her family and the whyman was cool. I did clap that girls cheeks 10/10 would do again.

So I say go for it you may get lucky like 18yr old me and get big white ass cheeks to clap or maybe flat chink cheeks as your a cumskin that’s prob your type?

yeah both times were white women and i'd say its because im NT and their parents encourage them or some shit idk

I'm just nervous about relationships idk what to expect

Thanks for the advice bro

 

[raabla]

Never once happened to me.

ITS cuz im a cashier and their parents get comfortable around me because of how often they see me, and im NT around them

 

[Daddy's Home]

You're young, you should take advantage of every opportunity.

You have to start from somewhere to gain experience in this (how to communicate with them, how to relate to their way of thinking, how to sit next to them, how to hold them, how to touch them, how to kiss them, how to have sex with them, etc.) All this stuff is not learned as a theory at school, here it's 100% practice and experience.

You need to go through these experiences as often as possible with as many different types of girls as possible, so that you are prepared to handle any situation when ''wife material'' comes into your life.

95% of relationships most often end because the guy doesn't know how to manage the relationship from a certain point of view which is important for a girl. Not to mention that the biggest regret in a man's life is when he loses the woman of his dreams because he was too dumb at a particular moment in time.

You can't stay a virgin and inexperienced until the perfect woman for you comes along, and start from there, because you'll most likely lose her, which will be even worse.

So I also give you below these things to do on a first date with her, which I wrote on a replay of another thread, and got like 20 positive reactions. I hope it helps you..

Shower + haircut + perfume + clothes like going to a wedding.

Don't bring flowers on the first date (desperate subhuman behavior, sign that you have no other options except for her).

Fancy restaurant + you should pay for everything (even if she insists to pay some 50-50 or other shit). Any other option is just friend zone / cuckold material behavior.

Don't ask her anything at all about her history, especially dating/sexual history.

Ask her about her hobbies, about her family, school or work related (depending on what stage of life she is in).

Always try to be self ironic and make her laugh, to show her that you are a fun and energetic & lively guy who doesn't take himself too seriously. When you're talking about yourself, you're only talking about things you do that she may find valuable (cooking, driving, liking pets & kids, playing sports, fixing cars, fixing stuff around the house, etc.). Anything that indicates that you know what you want out of life, that you're ambitious, that you want a family in the future, and other shit.

Never talk about things that she might find unvaluable (the fact that you stay to much on the internet / playing video games etc.). Never ask her about how she would like x or y (especially when it comes to relationships/partners) because you have to let her assumed that you already know what she wants, so you're not curious.

Don't insist on holding hands until you've left the restaurant and you've already made a connection at the table such that she'll let you do so (if it's the first date).

No kissing or wanting to have sex after the first date if the connection at the table didn't lead to it (most of the time it doesn't).

After the date is over, ask her if she wants you to escort her home, or order her a taxi / Uber.

Three hours after the date is over, text her that you enjoyed spending time with her today, and ask her if she'd like to get another date in the future.

Good luck!

 

[raabla]

You're young, you should take advantage of every opportunity.

You have to start from somewhere to gain experience in this (how to communicate with them, how to relate to their way of thinking, how to sit next to them, how to hold them, how to touch them, how to kiss them, how to have sex with them, etc.) All this stuff is not learned as a theory at school, here it's 100% practice and experience.

You need to go through these experiences as often as possible with as many different types of girls as possible, so that you are prepared to handle any situation when ''wife material'' comes into your life.

95% of relationships most often end because the guy doesn't know how to manage the relationship from a certain point of view which is important for a girl. Not to mention that the biggest regret in a man's life is when he loses the woman of his dreams because he was too dumb at a particular moment in time.

You can't stay a virgin and inexperienced until the perfect woman for you comes along, and start from there, because you'll most likely lose her, which will be even worse.

So I also give you below these things to do on a first date with her, which I wrote on a replay of another thread, and got like 20 positive reactions. I hope it helps you..

Woah wtf thanks man, better than any reply i expected here tbh, Also i was kind of ignorant and didn't think about half of the stuff you talked about, like losing women because you're unexperienced with them. Thanks for talking the time to post the tips!

 

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[SecularIslamist]

Cannot advise chads who live in a completely different reality. Sorry.

You seem to be high inhib and like to shoot yourself in the foot.... Kinda like me.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I wish I had your looks nigga, ngl.

 

[Gengar]

tagging maturecels for advice @Gengar @SecularIslamist @PrinceLuenLeoncur @MoggerGaston

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Are you muzzie?

 

[Deleted member 101955]

All as a cashier

1.Some girl asked for my number

Then the fucking stupid whore texted me saying it’s for her guy friend, I left her ass on seen.

2. A girls mom wanted me to date her daughter, but I said she was too young for me (I was 2 years older, at 19 and she was 17 but I was just scared of a relationship ig and said she’s too young for me to reject nicely)

3. Yesterday another girls mom said her daughter asked if I had a gf, I said no I don’t
(Another 2 year difference now I'm 20 and she's 18)


I need advice about what i should do, i never been in any relationships and new experiences like dating scare me but i know i have to get into one eventually to find a wife and get experience. I seen this girl once and already forgot what she looks like but i do remember she was attractive with BIG BOOBS that's all i remember of her looks. She didn't seem ghetto or slutty so that's a plus.

I didn't make any moves i just said i don't have a girlfriend but if her mom asks again I'll tell her to give her daughter my number

in what country does this shit happen. I cant imagine it happening in a low trust shit hole like Germany or UK jfl

 

[raabla]

I wish I had your looks nigga, ngl.

I’m MTN

 

[raabla]

Are you muzzie?

Christian but I tagged you and secularislamist and princeleun trying to get religious advice I want to see what traits I should look for

 

[raabla]

in what country does this shit happen. I cant imagine it happening in a low trust shit hole like Germany or UK jfl

US

 

[Deleted member 101955]

US

furakkk, i got a friend in usa, hes shocked i dont get approached like everyday or some shit. Im going next year apperantly every1 is way more social. UK is a miserable low trust society man. So horrible being brought up in a paki area i wanna to rope.

 

[raabla]

furakkk, i got a friend in usa, hes shocked i dont get approached like everyday or some shit. Im going next year apperantly every1 is way more social. UK is a miserable low trust society man. So horrible being brought up in a paki area i wanna to rope.

Yeah very social here

 

[OldRooster]

3. Yesterday another girls mom said her daughter asked if I had a gf, I said no I don’t
(Another 2 year difference now I'm 20 and she's 18)


I need advice about what i should do, i never been in any relationships and new experiences like dating scare me

The girl's mom probably can tell you are inexperienced with girls, and sees this as a feature not a bug, because you are less likely to pump and dump her daughter. Just kind of own it, confess to the mom that you don't have a lot of experience with girls but you would interested in meeting her daughter (hopefully she is not deformed or a land whale).

 

[noonespecial]

DNRD

 

[raabla]

G

The girl's mom probably can tell you are inexperienced with girls, and sees this as a feature not a bug, because you are less likely to pump and dump her daughter. Just kind of own it, confess to the mom that you don't have a lot of experience with girls but you would interested in meeting her daughter (hopefully she is not deformed or a land whale).

Good idea I’ll just be honest