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I am now attracted to plump butts. There was a time when I was attracted to flat butts and found plump butts gross.
What changed was the media I was exposed to that glorified plump butts.
Attraction is not only genetics but can be changed by your thoughts, and the media you consume.
Why this is important
Sometimes you can only get so far with looksmaxing, statusmaxing, moneymaxing, and locationmaxing. Or you can get farther, but you want to have a girlfriend now.
But now, only some women are attracted to you and you are not very attracted to them.
How to change the type of girl you're attracted to
Start by watching more movies and TV shows with that type of girl in. You want to become attracted to personalities of that type of woman which will make you attracted to their looks.
So let's say you want to become more attracted to black women.
Start by looking up black female actresses. You find names like Megan Good and Regina Hall. Then you look up movies they're in, which will also have other attractive black women.
By watching these movies you learn to enjoy their culture, way of speaking, everything.
Also look up content creators, such as you tube creators that meet the demographics of the type of woman you want to be attracted too.
Thoughts on Porn
The traditional idea is to only look at porn of the kind of woman you want to be attracted to, but this imho is not as effective as watching movies and TV with those women. Because for men, attraction is also about an underlying respect for the culture, values, thoughts we associate with a woman that looks like that. This is all subconscious.
What changed was the media I was exposed to that glorified plump butts.
Attraction is not only genetics but can be changed by your thoughts, and the media you consume.
Why this is important
Sometimes you can only get so far with looksmaxing, statusmaxing, moneymaxing, and locationmaxing. Or you can get farther, but you want to have a girlfriend now.
But now, only some women are attracted to you and you are not very attracted to them.
How to change the type of girl you're attracted to
Start by watching more movies and TV shows with that type of girl in. You want to become attracted to personalities of that type of woman which will make you attracted to their looks.
So let's say you want to become more attracted to black women.
Start by looking up black female actresses. You find names like Megan Good and Regina Hall. Then you look up movies they're in, which will also have other attractive black women.
By watching these movies you learn to enjoy their culture, way of speaking, everything.
Also look up content creators, such as you tube creators that meet the demographics of the type of woman you want to be attracted too.
Thoughts on Porn
The traditional idea is to only look at porn of the kind of woman you want to be attracted to, but this imho is not as effective as watching movies and TV with those women. Because for men, attraction is also about an underlying respect for the culture, values, thoughts we associate with a woman that looks like that. This is all subconscious.
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