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Every Spectrum has a Purgatory Zone
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Forevergymcelling made a thread a while back from a night out where a decent blonde girl was all over some baldcel in a nightclub which apparently looked like he just met her and pulled her that night
I have seen scenarios like this myself enough times to make me question if there's something going on since clubs are the most hypergamous places you can go
A Baldcel with an attractive girl holding his hand on the street doesn't mean much since he could be beta providing or he is on the left side of the looks purgatory bell curve but in clubs these explanations don't hold up
I believe that looks deterioration causes a man to find a new motivation that cannot be reached when you believe you still have time on your side
If you feel like you have your looks intact with no signs of deterioration, it may bother you when you get rejected because you are being rejected while you feel you should be having your most success due to being in your peak youthfullness, this can affect your ego.
If you decide to not approach for a while, you tell yourself that you can start back approaching at any time because the foids will still be there
However, once you see the first signs of your looks starting to deteriorate, it sets off an alarm bell because you realize if you don't start approaching with conviction asap, your chances of pulling prime foids with each passing year is going to decrease
Also thinking to yourself that your skin was better 4 years ago, kind of makes you feel more grateful for having success now because you realize you've lost something that you took for granted which humbles you
So you go into interactions with foids with less of an ego, and when you have success you may appreciate it more because you've seen both sides of the coin, taking youth for granted then appreciating what you have left.
Are baldcels just super humble and super motivated to approach without caring about rejection because they see everything as bonus territory?
Kris from 1stMan said his motivation skyrocketed when he went bald because he knew he could no longer get away with being broke and bald, he needed to become rich and bald
I have seen scenarios like this myself enough times to make me question if there's something going on since clubs are the most hypergamous places you can go
A Baldcel with an attractive girl holding his hand on the street doesn't mean much since he could be beta providing or he is on the left side of the looks purgatory bell curve but in clubs these explanations don't hold up
I believe that looks deterioration causes a man to find a new motivation that cannot be reached when you believe you still have time on your side
If you feel like you have your looks intact with no signs of deterioration, it may bother you when you get rejected because you are being rejected while you feel you should be having your most success due to being in your peak youthfullness, this can affect your ego.
If you decide to not approach for a while, you tell yourself that you can start back approaching at any time because the foids will still be there
However, once you see the first signs of your looks starting to deteriorate, it sets off an alarm bell because you realize if you don't start approaching with conviction asap, your chances of pulling prime foids with each passing year is going to decrease
Also thinking to yourself that your skin was better 4 years ago, kind of makes you feel more grateful for having success now because you realize you've lost something that you took for granted which humbles you
So you go into interactions with foids with less of an ego, and when you have success you may appreciate it more because you've seen both sides of the coin, taking youth for granted then appreciating what you have left.
Are baldcels just super humble and super motivated to approach without caring about rejection because they see everything as bonus territory?
Kris from 1stMan said his motivation skyrocketed when he went bald because he knew he could no longer get away with being broke and bald, he needed to become rich and bald