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[audimax]

DO NOT rot here.

I have been on PSL sites since 2014, almost a decade. I have seen people rotting and spending their lives on these sites with 100k post counts in two years. I have seen posts of people committing suicide because of the blackpill. The Blackpill makes it seem as if looks is the only thing that matters in life and while it is true to some extent, there are other factors. For some people this might seem water, but if you do not take action in your life, even ascending wont do shit for you if you dont build your life.

After having the knowledge of the Blackpill, it is better to get into general self improvement and improve other aspects of your life. Hence why there are things like NTpill or Nichepill or shit like that. Try to live your life and have goals, this will make you much happier in the end than chasing Chad level appearence your whole life and ironically succeeding in your goals and socializing more will probably get you more girls than improving your appearence 0.1 points. I have seen first hand 5'6 average faced guys pulling hot girls just because of game and confidence. Work on your autism fellas

 

[Deleted member 5467]

Truth

 

[Deleted member 19865]

it is better to get into general self improvement and improve other aspects of your life

Also it's not a bad idea to drop out of the dating altogether while you focus on yourself. Whenever I try to get into the dating market, I just wind up making an ass out of myself. Last time I gave dating a chance I got catfished by some homosexual man. Really put things in perspective and made me realize that shit's so fucked in this world right now that stepping away from the dating market is actually a relief.

 

[Deleted member 31155]

what kind of goals are these other goals?

 

[audimax]

Also it's not a bad idea to drop out of the dating altogether while you focus on yourself. Whenever I try to get into the dating market, I just wind up making an ass out of myself. Last time I gave dating a chance I got catfished by some homosexual man. Really put things in perspective and made me realize that shit's so fucked in this world right now that stepping away from the dating market is actually a relief.

This is also true. I you have to put in a lot of effort to get crumbs, it is better to learn sexual discipline and improve in other areas of your life instead. This is something that I need to implement in my life as well, I make bad moves towards women when I didnt fap for a few days

 

[audimax]

what kind of goals are these other goals?

Anything that is fun. If nothing is fun for you, then get off this forum and everything that gives you short term gratification and fries your dopamine receptors. And after that, normal things like climbing will start to be fun for you. Be the best boulderer in your city

 

[Deleted member 30892]

How to stop thinking about hoes & sex :

Get a good gf in a ltr (high difficulty)
Start doing art (low diff)
Do fighting sports (mid diff)
Fuck with men instead (difficulty depends on how zesty you are)

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Anything that is fun. If nothing is fun for you, then get off this forum and everything that gives you short term gratification and fries your dopamine receptors. And after that, normal things like climbing will start to be fun for you. Be the best boulderer in your city

ive tried detoxing soo many times and things still felt like the same. idk im kind of pathologically unmotivated to keep on doing things cuz i dont feel the gratification doing them in the long term.

 

[Deleted member 31155]

How to stop thinking about hoes & sex :

Get a good gf in a ltr (high difficulty)
Start doing art (low diff)
Do fighting sports (mid diff)
Fuck with men instead (difficulty depends on how zesty you are)

ngl fighting sports aint that a bad idea... just get ur nose broken and get a rhino cheaper

 

[audimax]

ive tried detoxing soo many times and things still felt like the same. idk im kind of pathologically unmotivated to keep on doing things cuz i dont feel the gratification doing them in the long term.

Because you didnt do them long enough or you had other substitutes for cheating. For example, right now I am wasting my time here even though I do not smoke anymore, I do not eat fast food anymore und no energy drinks but it is still a substitute for your lizard brain. Just start doing boring shit and set yourself goals for the day and do healthy shit. After that, you can reward youself with some off time with netflix or whatever

 

[audimax]

ive tried detoxing soo many times and things still felt like the same. idk im kind of pathologically unmotivated to keep on doing things cuz i dont feel the gratification doing them in the long term.

Do you watch porn? Most motivation issues stem from that

 

[audimax]

ngl fighting sports aint that a bad idea... just get ur nose broken and get a rhino cheaper

Very good idea and I wanted to do the same. Learn how to fight, get to know new people there

 

[wollet2]

no

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Do you watch porn? Most motivation issues stem from that

no i dont watch porn, gaming or any form of entertainment

 

[audimax]

Pro tip, go to your local dog shelter, borrow a puppy and go for a walk in a place with many girls, there will be girls smiling at you and you can somehow initiate conversation

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Cope

 

[Deleted member 30892]

ngl fighting sports aint that a bad idea... just get ur nose broken and get a rhino cheaper

You'd need to be a pro fighter to even get your nose broken realistically, and atp you'd have enough money to get rhino yeah. If you get your nose broken simply from sparing it's natural selection

 

[Deleted member 31155]

You'd need to be a pro fighter to even get your nose broken realistically, and atp you'd have enough money to get rhino yeah. If you get your nose broken simply from sparing it's natural selection

still not worth the cauliflower ears tho

 

[audimax]

no i dont watch porn, gaming or any form of entertainment

Then just try to do stuff that is good for you, joining a fight club is a good idea. Maybe over time you can social media max, since this is where a lot of couples meet through. Or do other hobbies where new people are involved, go to local facebook groups or instagram groups and look for courses or meet ups

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

My hope is that one day Russia or whatever who invades lithuania (separatist part of Russia) and lithuanian foids will be punished

 

[audimax]

still not worth the cauliflower ears tho

This wont happen if you dont want to fight competitively

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Then just try to do stuff that is good for you, joining a fight club is a good idea. Maybe over time you can social media max, since this is where a lot of couples meet through. Or do other hobbies where new people are involved, go to local facebook groups or instagram groups and look for courses or meet ups

ill see what i can do soon thxz for the advice

 

[Deleted member 30892]

still not worth the cauliflower ears tho

Easy to lose them. Also something people flex. And something you won't get unless you train wrestling extremely regularly and hardcore. You don't need to do wrestling and you're very unlikely to train as hard as pro fighters who get cauliflower ears

 

[wollet2]

just do whatever its over for all of u

 

[idknowmanlol]

How to stop thinking about hoes & sex :

Get a good gf in a ltr (high difficulty)
Start doing art (low diff)
Do fighting sports (mid diff)
Fuck with men instead (difficulty depends on how zesty you are)

I want the first but it’s too hard guess gonna find a way to cope

 

[Deleted member 30892]

I want the first but it’s too hard guess gonna find a way to cope

 

[Shogun]

I have seen first hand 5'6 average faced guys pulling hot girls just because of game and confidence.

This sentence ruined the post