Celibataire
2026 is my year
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i’m typing on my phone and it’s really cold in my bed, but stay with me.
DISCLAIMER: this is an anecdotal experience and not an evidence to my claims.
I’ve moved schools around 5 times in between middle and high schools, meaning i have found various kinds of friend groups that i joined, or was at least conscious of throughout those years.
What i have noticed in all these different friend groups is that there is always a silent and invisible competition going on in between members of the friend groups. These include high school bs like academics, sports, status, and high school social hierarchy. These people are terrible influence as they suck up to higher ranked students and genuinely do not give you a single ounce of basic manners and respect to those who they deem as ‘lower’ classes then them. Maybe an example would help:
Imagine a friend group of 3 people: one of them is high iq, htn, 6’2, NT and chill. He’s well off at school, have female friends, and lots of friendly acquaintances in classes and hallways. On the other hand, the other two guys in the friend group are just average iq average ltn-mtn npcs whose names are unknown.
With consciousness, they look up to their 6’2 friend as the natural ‘group leader’ as how the society tends to work.
Subconsciously however, the two npcs have mutually developed an invisible competition in between them, on who would take place 2 and who would take place 3 in the social hierarchy system.
the two dudes would compete in their minds, to desperately try to prove to one another that they deserve to be placed 2nd in the friend group hierarchy and on the school scale as well. One of them decided to make cruel jokes about guy number 3 to number 1, which earns him ‘being cool’ status by a little. He enjoys doing this until the friend group breaks apart because number 3 can’t take it anymore.
I’ve seen this happen so many times in different schools and friend groups, where a guy needed absolute certainty that he fitted in, was superior than others, instantly ditching others and sucking up to the guy with a higher hierarchical status.
(Happened to me the other day when we were waking in groups of 3 and when the best looking guy who is the highest on the hierarchical ladder wandered off, my ltn nerd no life ‘friend’ litterily dashes forward to join him and walk side by side, just abandoning me on the side of the road and forcing me to walk behind. Obviously, none of this was noticed by the friend who wandered off. For a good 10 minutes, i was forced to walk behind the duo like a fucking retard)
It’s lowk kind of sad that humans seek approval from others and degrading people they seem are easier to laugh at, because someone better looking and who won the genetics lottery didn’t accept them as one of them.
I think this applies to females too, as some movies depict it.
DISCLAIMER: this is an anecdotal experience and not an evidence to my claims.
I’ve moved schools around 5 times in between middle and high schools, meaning i have found various kinds of friend groups that i joined, or was at least conscious of throughout those years.
What i have noticed in all these different friend groups is that there is always a silent and invisible competition going on in between members of the friend groups. These include high school bs like academics, sports, status, and high school social hierarchy. These people are terrible influence as they suck up to higher ranked students and genuinely do not give you a single ounce of basic manners and respect to those who they deem as ‘lower’ classes then them. Maybe an example would help:
Imagine a friend group of 3 people: one of them is high iq, htn, 6’2, NT and chill. He’s well off at school, have female friends, and lots of friendly acquaintances in classes and hallways. On the other hand, the other two guys in the friend group are just average iq average ltn-mtn npcs whose names are unknown.
With consciousness, they look up to their 6’2 friend as the natural ‘group leader’ as how the society tends to work.
Subconsciously however, the two npcs have mutually developed an invisible competition in between them, on who would take place 2 and who would take place 3 in the social hierarchy system.
the two dudes would compete in their minds, to desperately try to prove to one another that they deserve to be placed 2nd in the friend group hierarchy and on the school scale as well. One of them decided to make cruel jokes about guy number 3 to number 1, which earns him ‘being cool’ status by a little. He enjoys doing this until the friend group breaks apart because number 3 can’t take it anymore.
I’ve seen this happen so many times in different schools and friend groups, where a guy needed absolute certainty that he fitted in, was superior than others, instantly ditching others and sucking up to the guy with a higher hierarchical status.
(Happened to me the other day when we were waking in groups of 3 and when the best looking guy who is the highest on the hierarchical ladder wandered off, my ltn nerd no life ‘friend’ litterily dashes forward to join him and walk side by side, just abandoning me on the side of the road and forcing me to walk behind. Obviously, none of this was noticed by the friend who wandered off. For a good 10 minutes, i was forced to walk behind the duo like a fucking retard)
It’s lowk kind of sad that humans seek approval from others and degrading people they seem are easier to laugh at, because someone better looking and who won the genetics lottery didn’t accept them as one of them.
I think this applies to females too, as some movies depict it.
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