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I just got a reality check. I look better than one of my friendgroup, yet they all have girlfriends and I noticed that somehow even those weird guys get gfs. I just wonder how. Idk if all of this looksmaxxing stuff will really get me in a better state. I already get approched like 20% of the times when I go out partying or sth but I dont find them attractive. Further looksmaxxing would probably drive that number up but not really that significantly. It just leaves me wondering how those guys that are worse off can pull. And no its not that they have significantly better social skills or are low inhib. Its sometimes quite the opposite. I dont say that they are the most pretty ones, at best average but still something. Should I maybe settle for those "worse" ones. Somehow it wouldnt feel real for me and just using them because mostly I dont have an attraction to them from the start. Im not really into slaying and would prefer to just find "the one". But somehow this seems kinda unrealistic. This got me really to think as time is going on.
I probably should approach more tho but somehow i always find myself in the wrong situations to approach (explaining away the cognitive dissonance).

Did you maybe experience something similar? Im also using Dating apps where i get a lot of messages that girls find me attractive, however they are mostly not from my area and I wonder how can I find those that are close, I kinda feel disgusted sometimes by that thought of meeting sb from an app.

I just want sb pure and close to my looksmatch from my area but idk if that is realisitic.

Please only serious answers, this really got me to think.

 

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Alr nvm