This faggot mastered the female gaze (hobbymaxxing)

[Deleted member 14693]

 

[Seth Walsh]

I mastered it

 

[Deleted member 14693]

I mastered it

How?

 

[Deleted member 21182]

he is appealing to shy emo girls

 

[Dr. Bludy]

 

[Deleted member 26859]

that would be cute tbf if ur gf knitted something for you

 

[Seth Walsh]

How?

Not sure tbh but it's very nuanced and apart of behaviour/understanding in daily life. It's not just the looks part of it, ofc you need the looks to be attractive. But I guess there's that emotional femalegaze aspect which is hard to explain.

Just being yourself and not acting insecure (which can be a paradox). Coz if a girl likes you and you're in a group with other guys/girls and you slightly open up about an insecurity or smth, just naturally as the conversation is happening; it'll fly over everyone's head except anyone who's already attracted to you. They'll find what you say endearing and intriguing. It's all about balance I guess, and all about the looks.

I guess a good example of female gaze mastery is showing you understand the inferences behind things that are said through facial expression or idiosyncratic reaction.

Here's an example:

You're in a group of guys and girls and there's 1 girl who's clearly a hoe and the other girls hate her (but can never say it outwardly). You've mastered female gaze if you can somehow communicate that you're aware of this and understand the "frustration" the others feel.

So if she says something like "oh haha I can't walk up this hill as fast as you guys, my knees are too sore" - all the normie guys won't react but the other girls will be like "fuck this fucking bitch" in their heads, but will continue to just be normal and nice to her out of social conditioning.

If you do something as simple as roll your eyes to yourself, showing that you understand that she may have said her "knees hurt" because she's a hoe who sucks lots of dick (which is what other girls may think), then you've shown pretty much every girl in the group that you

1. Think differently than all the normies
2. Understand women's intersocial/friendship dynamics
3. Are very intelligent and understand things from all sides

*All by rolling your eyes for 2 seconds*



^^ I know that example is pretty hard to process just by itself but it's way too hard to explain the nuance.


The jewellery, longer hair, prettyboymaxxing, leanmaxxing, (even the baggy clothes stuff) all play apart but it's to difficult to understand the ins and outs of why they "work". Obviously you need to be good looking for someone to be attracted to you. But I guess if you show "empathy" through random weird jestures, or more importantly, show understanding for all people's hangups and problems, while showing you're intelligent but not arrogant, deluded or vain - then that's a start.



It's really hard to explain female gaze just through a post, sorry but I tried my best.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Not sure tbh but it's very nuanced and apart of behaviour/understanding in daily life. It's not just the looks part of it, ofc you need the looks to be attractive. But I guess there's that emotional femalegaze aspect which is hard to explain.

Just being yourself and not acting insecure (which can be a paradox). Coz if a girl likes you and you're in a group with other guys/girls and you slightly open up about an insecurity or smth, just naturally as the conversation is happening; it'll fly over everyone's head except anyone who's already attracted to you. They'll find what you say endearing and intriguing. It's all about balance I guess, and all about the looks.

I guess a good example of female gaze mastery is showing you understand the inferences behind things that are said through facial expression or idiosyncratic reaction.

Here's an example:

You're in a group of guys and girls and there's 1 girl who's clearly a hoe and the other girls hate her (but can never say it outwardly). You've mastered female gaze if you can somehow communicate that you're aware of this and understand the "frustration" the others feel.

So if she says something like "oh haha I can't walk up this hill as fast as you guys, my knees are too sore" - all the normie guys won't react but the other girls will be like "fuck this fucking bitch" in their heads, but will continue to just be normal and nice to her out of social conditioning.

If you do something as simple as roll your eyes to yourself, showing that you understand that she may have said her "knees hurt" because she's a hoe who sucks lots of dick (which is what other girls may think), then you've shown pretty much every girl in the group that you

1. Think differently than all the normies
2. Understand women's intersocial/friendship dynamics
3. Are very intelligent and understand things from all sides

*All by rolling your eyes for 2 seconds*



^^ I know that example is pretty hard to process just by itself but it's way too hard to explain the nuance.


The jewellery, longer hair, prettyboymaxxing, leanmaxxing, (even the baggy clothes stuff) all play apart but it's to difficult to understand the ins and outs of why they "work". Obviously you need to be good looking for someone to be attracted to you. But I guess if you show "empathy" through random weird jestures, or more importantly, show understanding for all people's hangups and problems, while showing you're intelligent but not arrogant, deluded or vain - then that's a start.



It's really hard to explain female gaze just through a post, sorry but I tried my best.

So basically mimik gay guys, got it

 

[Seth Walsh]

Not sure tbh but it's very nuanced and apart of behaviour/understanding in daily life. It's not just the looks part of it, ofc you need the looks to be attractive. But I guess there's that emotional femalegaze aspect which is hard to explain.

Just being yourself and not acting insecure (which can be a paradox). Coz if a girl likes you and you're in a group with other guys/girls and you slightly open up about an insecurity or smth, just naturally as the conversation is happening; it'll fly over everyone's head except anyone who's already attracted to you. They'll find what you say endearing and intriguing. It's all about balance I guess, and all about the looks.

I guess a good example of female gaze mastery is showing you understand the inferences behind things that are said through facial expression or idiosyncratic reaction.

Here's an example:

You're in a group of guys and girls and there's 1 girl who's clearly a hoe and the other girls hate her (but can never say it outwardly). You've mastered female gaze if you can somehow communicate that you're aware of this and understand the "frustration" the others feel.

So if she says something like "oh haha I can't walk up this hill as fast as you guys, my knees are too sore" - all the normie guys won't react but the other girls will be like "fuck this fucking bitch" in their heads, but will continue to just be normal and nice to her out of social conditioning.

If you do something as simple as roll your eyes to yourself, showing that you understand that she may have said her "knees hurt" because she's a hoe who sucks lots of dick (which is what other girls may think), then you've shown pretty much every girl in the group that you

1. Think differently than all the normies
2. Understand women's intersocial/friendship dynamics
3. Are very intelligent and understand things from all sides

*All by rolling your eyes for 2 seconds*



^^ I know that example is pretty hard to process just by itself but it's way too hard to explain the nuance.


The jewellery, longer hair, prettyboymaxxing, leanmaxxing, (even the baggy clothes stuff) all play apart but it's to difficult to understand the ins and outs of why they "work". Obviously you need to be good looking for someone to be attracted to you. But I guess if you show "empathy" through random weird jestures, or more importantly, show understanding for all people's hangups and problems, while showing you're intelligent but not arrogant, deluded or vain - then that's a start.



It's really hard to explain female gaze just through a post, sorry but I tried my best.

roll your eyes to yourself

SHOW how you think. I hope that kinda make sense.

All the fashion, styling for female gaze. All those cucks playing instruments just to try and appeal to it - they're just strategizing

I guess it comes down to maturity and understanding (with good looks). Femalegazemaxxing is really heavily based on showing your intelligence and capability without looking like your just acting a certain way to try and get laid.

It's all really subtle - and eventually comes down to justbeyourselfmaxxing + being good looking

And you shouldn't try "be different" than normies if you aren't. If you are, then be yourself. I guess authenticity is really cherished (don't forget the looks).


Looks alone are sometimes really misinterpreted. Like if you are looksmaxxed but from a lower socioeconomic class then you'll always experience some sort of negative reward/prediction error. The social class pill has never been talked about but it's really important. I can explain why but probably not best to do it in a public post.

 

[Seth Walsh]

So basically mimik gay guys, got it

Nah tbh. I don't think I explained it well enough. There's nothing specific to it, it's a very abstract sort of thing.

That's why "femalegazemaxxing" can and will be a grift industry in the future, just like gymmaxxing, redpill stuff, blackpill psl all was in the past. It's because not everyone can make themselves more attractive through following any/all of the above.

Obviously femalegazemaxxing is the most legit but if you're not attractive you'll just end up looking like some soy tryhard punk if you go down that route.

If you're already attractive, girls will think you've healed from trauma and are super understanding, empathetic, intelligent, manly, capable, hot etc.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Nah tbh. I don't think I explained it well enough

No worries. I think you explained it quite well. My comment was just a dumb unfunny joke

The social class pill has never been talked about but it's really important

Can you elab if you want?

 

[dakchuh]

Nah tbh. I don't think I explained it well enough. There's nothing specific to it, it's a very abstract sort of thing.

That's why "femalegazemaxxing" can and will be a grift industry in the future, just like gymmaxxing, redpill stuff, blackpill psl all was in the past. It's because not everyone can make themselves more attractive through following any/all of the above.

Obviously femalegazemaxxing is the most legit but if you're not attractive you'll just end up looking like some soy tryhard punk if you go down that route.

If you're already attractive, girls will think you've healed from trauma and are super understanding, empathetic, intelligent, manly, capable, hot etc.

so...just have high EQ while being goodlooking?

 

[theRiderEffect]

Not sure tbh but it's very nuanced and apart of behaviour/understanding in daily life. It's not just the looks part of it, ofc you need the looks to be attractive. But I guess there's that emotional femalegaze aspect which is hard to explain.

Just being yourself and not acting insecure (which can be a paradox). Coz if a girl likes you and you're in a group with other guys/girls and you slightly open up about an insecurity or smth, just naturally as the conversation is happening; it'll fly over everyone's head except anyone who's already attracted to you. They'll find what you say endearing and intriguing. It's all about balance I guess, and all about the looks.

I guess a good example of female gaze mastery is showing you understand the inferences behind things that are said through facial expression or idiosyncratic reaction.

Here's an example:

You're in a group of guys and girls and there's 1 girl who's clearly a hoe and the other girls hate her (but can never say it outwardly). You've mastered female gaze if you can somehow communicate that you're aware of this and understand the "frustration" the others feel.

So if she says something like "oh haha I can't walk up this hill as fast as you guys, my knees are too sore" - all the normie guys won't react but the other girls will be like "fuck this fucking bitch" in their heads, but will continue to just be normal and nice to her out of social conditioning.

If you do something as simple as roll your eyes to yourself, showing that you understand that she may have said her "knees hurt" because she's a hoe who sucks lots of dick (which is what other girls may think), then you've shown pretty much every girl in the group that you

1. Think differently than all the normies
2. Understand women's intersocial/friendship dynamics
3. Are very intelligent and understand things from all sides

*All by rolling your eyes for 2 seconds*



^^ I know that example is pretty hard to process just by itself but it's way too hard to explain the nuance.


The jewellery, longer hair, prettyboymaxxing, leanmaxxing, (even the baggy clothes stuff) all play apart but it's to difficult to understand the ins and outs of why they "work". Obviously you need to be good looking for someone to be attracted to you. But I guess if you show "empathy" through random weird jestures, or more importantly, show understanding for all people's hangups and problems, while showing you're intelligent but not arrogant, deluded or vain - then that's a start.



It's really hard to explain female gaze just through a post, sorry but I tried my best.

i came to the same conclusion a long time ago. it shows you are in control of yourself and the situation with cards up your sleeve. for me i always end up slipping up when my social battery is drained haha

that said, you still need to have a baseline of looks and voice

 

[Seth Walsh]

so...just have high EQ while being goodlooking?

I guess the real blackpill is looks, youthfulness/(also looks), high class socioeconomically, having wealth in your family line, top genetics. Nothing more to be said.

Femalegazemaxxing isn't something anyone can just "execute", it's just how real "Chads" act normally. Because they have all of the aforementioned.

The blackpill has been like 95% covered but there's some stuff related to social class, the myth of "slaying" (muh uk club), and the cope of bashing "betabuxxers" which I could totally blow the lid off but I feel all of that is too controversial to post publicly

 

[theRiderEffect]

I guess the real blackpill is looks, youthfulness/(also looks), high class socioeconomically, having wealth in your family line, top genetics. Nothing more to be said.

Femalegazemaxxing isn't something anyone can just "execute", it's just how real "Chads" act normally. Because they have all of the aforementioned.

The blackpill has been like 95% covered but there's some stuff related to social class, the myth of "slaying" (muh uk club), and the cope of bashing "betabuxxers" which I could totally blow the lid off but I feel all of that is too controversial to post publicly

i think i get what you mean... i ended up fucked up because of low self esteem from having adhd in school and growing up poor. i feel like a much "fouler" and demented person than what i couldve been. sometimes im digusted at myself ngl

 

[Seth Walsh]

i think i get what you mean... i ended up fucked up because of low self esteem from having adhd in school and growing up poor. i feel like a much "fouler" and demented person than what i couldve been. sometimes im digusted at myself ngl

Yeah that happens. You just gotta get out of that state and start being a nicer person. Everything is freudian so your attitude is just a projection of your learnings, and if you feel or think you come across demented or foul, then your probably on a good path to become a more learned person in future, with wisdom that most people your age will never have.

Everyone needs to work with what they've got too. Never compare yourself to someone else