Seeyenar
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Pure suifuel
I would like to say i'm pretty far from being a genetic dead end but a lot of this hits home.
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yeah you can't learn how to improve social skills by reading about it you just have to force yourself into as many social situations until it becomes natural, if that doesn't work then you were just fucked to begin with.Brutal especially being nt
Reading the threads about “how to be social” is so weird. I feel like it’s impossible to learn social skills for a thread. Like you would have to focus on a certain aspect of conversation (e.g your posture) which would just make you look even more ND. Meanwhile normal people literally don’t even have to think about it
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Pure suifuel
I would like to say i'm pretty far from being a genetic dead end but a lot of this hits home.
being born neurodivergent was a curse, all this couldve been avoided if i was born neurotypicalyeah you can't learn how to improve social skills by reading about it you just have to force yourself into as many social situations until it becomes natural, if that doesn't work then you were just fucked to begin with.
Really? i thought that word was still widely used in spaces like thesehaven't heard suifuel in a while
i mean i personally haven't heard anyone say that in years lolReally? i thought that word was still widely used in spaces like these
i picked it up from my time lurking here
Yeah i've exhibited ND traits for as long as i can remember, this is not something that can be fixed.being born neurodivergent was a curse, all this couldve been avoided if i was born neurotypical
Real, i only ever feel comfortable talking with random people when im under the influence of something. If im completely sober im borderline hopelessYeah i've exhibited ND traits for as long as i can remember, this is not something that can be fixed.
It can be somewhat masked but that will only aid in helping you "appear normal" or confident to others, but you will never feel normal yourself. Feeling like a sheep in wolf's clothing is inevitable for NDcels that manage to ascend their looks.
Yeah my looks are already more than enough to attract women in isolation, but not good enough to make up for my mental state.I mainly looksmax as a way to compensate for my subhuman brain chemistry