
disillusioned
Fuchsia
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Here's the part that this hole probably left out of the story: She's gotten fat.I’ve (24F) been dating my boyfriend (35) for a year and we have been officially living together for a little over a month now. I want to preface with the fact that he’s aware of my high sex drive, and that I have never turned him down when he initiates anything. He also knows I don’t mind if he watches porn when I’m at work or sleeping.
When we first started seeing each other we would have sex, at minimum, once a day - most of the time multiple times in one day. At the beginning, he made me aware of his similar, high sex drive. That last few months, I’m lucky if we get freaky once a week.
I’ve noticed recently that anytime I leave to pick up food or run errands he watches porn while I’m gone. (I only know this cause when I come home I sometimes walk into the middle of his “sessions”). In addition, he’s done some solo sessions even when I’m home, either in bathroom, while taking showers, or in the other room (also know this as I’ve walked in on him).
I’ve voiced my annoyance (more than once) on the fact that he waits until I leave or prefers porn over me even when I’m home. His response is either “I’m too lazy” or he just gets upset that I’m upset and doesn’t say anything.
Is this normal? I don’t know if I should be upset at him for choosing porn over me or if this a common issue in relationships.
Sorry, but a guy just doesn't go from fucking their girl everyday to masturbating to porn if nothing happened. What's going on here is that she realized she's 'locked him in' and stopped giving a shit, got fat, stopped trying, etc, and the guy basically lost interest as a result and started watching porn instead.
This just goes to show that being betabucks in a shit relationship is NOT better than being incel, not even under the most ideal circumstances (she's nearly 10 years younger than him). This fucking guy has a woman that WANTS to fuck him and he's still saying no in favor of just goonmaxxing just like the rest of us are doing already.