Tips on how to socialize in a group setting?

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Alright so I can do ok in a one on one conversation usually but in a group convo I have no clue what to do. In high school I just stayed quiet and only sooke if someone spoke to me (not too often tbh).

So if we were at a restaurant/bar or at someone’s house just chillin having a group conversation what do I do and how do I act?
 
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Get drunk beforehand
 
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Being very interactive with your physical environment.

Don’t worry about the outcome of what you do
 
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do you give a flying fuck about what they're talking about? if not then it's normal you can't socialize with them tbh

it's the same for me but that's because most people talk about stupid bullshit that I couldn't give two shits about, if I'm with the right group or the right topic comes out then it's night and day
 
do you give a flying fuck about what they're talking about? if not then it's normal you can't socialize with them tbh

it's the same for me but that's because most people talk about stupid bullshit that I couldn't give two shits about, if I'm with the right group or the right topic comes out then it's night and day
Usually it was something I didn’t care about. But then again normies never talk about interesting shit so then what am I supposed to do?
 
Usually it was something I didn’t care about. But then again normies never talk about interesting shit so then what am I supposed to do?
then that's just normal I mean why the hell would you force yourself to talk about something you don't care about in a new group setting, what you say should just come naturally

you need to find the right group and screw everyone else tbh

easier said than done I know


also if you look like shit then people tend to leave you out in group settings so consider that too
 
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then that's just normal I mean why the hell would go you force yourself to talk about something you don't care about in a new group setting, what you say should just come naturally

you need to find the right group and screw everyone else tbh

easier said than done I know
Yeah my issue is that the only ppl I can have good convos with are my close friends. But we barely hang out and never go out or do anything with girls since we’re all autistic. So I have to try and integrate with the normies lol
 
Yeah my issue is that the only ppl I can have good convos with are my close friends. But we barely hang out and never go out or do anything with girls since we’re all autistic. So I have to try and integrate with the normies lol
ascend with them tbh
 
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ascend with them tbh
I tried but none of them give a fuck. I hate my life and I actuslly want to become NT and do normal ppl shit. But they’re cool with how things are unfortunately. I have a htn friend who I’m not that close with but I’ll try to hang with him
 
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your asking the wrong people if you wanna know anything about socialising
 
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Give Phenibut, xanax, or kratom a shot if ur into that. If those don’t work SSRIs might
 

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