Tired of being used by foids over and over again

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Literally my life has been an endless series of periods of slaying hopes, and careermaxxing copes.

In all those periods of hope, I work on getting foids, talking to them. Sometimes I get success and hang out with a few foids, but as soon as it comes to the point of slaying or escalating after a feq dates/hangouts, all foids ghost me or block me. And then I cope by careermaxxing for the next phase of life to overcome those emotions of inferiority.

It's happened with me multiple times. Foids use me, get their validation, and then abandon me. I'm essentially in a betabuxx situation without even access to the pussy. I'm tired of being used and abused by foids time and time again.

 

[Deleted member 17531]

Cope by punching fashion on saks fifth like me
i dont let myself get used tho

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

kill them if they lead you on

 

[444]

go ER

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

go ER

No, it's a careermin

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

What's wrong with me (in any sense whatsoever, whatever pill - black, red, blue) that might be leading to these situations?
Is it preventable?
Is it my height? (All of these foids have neen shorter than me)
Is it my face? (I've got innocent looking face with one or two failos) Maybe that's what makes them think they can use me?
Is it my vibe? (I don't give fuckboy vibes)

 

[Sigmamale]

Try approaching in a club or a bar or use a dating app instead of setting up dates.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Try approaching in a club or a bar or use a dating app instead of setting up dates.

Mannn I tried everything in the last few months... Went clubbing every few days... No success. Tinder also I tried but the match rate was pretty low, mostly trannies and e-whores.

Got bailed on by girls I cold approached IRL and went on date with (either before the first date, or afterwards). I don't understand what goes on in foid brains. How the fuck could I have zero success despite months of effort?

 

[Deleted member 17525]

Mannn I tried everything in the last few months... Went clubbing every few days... No success. Tinder also I tried but the match rate was pretty low, mostly trannies and e-whores.

Got bailed on by girls I cold approached IRL and went on date with (either before the first date, or afterwards). I don't understand what goes on in foid brains. How the fuck could I have zero success despite months of effort?

Sorry to hear that dude. You're not alone, 80% of men are incels and dating has become really hard since instagram and tinder if you aren't a Chad. I think you should just give up on chasing girls since you had already tried everything and it didn't work out. I know it sucks but you can find happiness in other things

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

I think you should just give up on chasing girls

No.

I could have done a few things wrong. Rinse & repeat.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

No.

I could have done a few things wrong. Rinse & repeat.

Your like me, I know I should give up but my ego and list for pissy helps me to cope saying “maybe this time I’ll get lucky rr..right

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Your like me, I know I should give up but my ego and list for pissy helps me to cope saying “maybe this time I’ll get lucky rr..right

Do you think it's a good thing, a positive thing? Or it's cope?

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Do you think it's a good thing, a positive thing?

It’s a good thing it shows there’s hope and we all need hope

But it’s also a sign of being in denial you won’t accpet it’s over for you and makes you bull headed like an idiot but hey what can we do I have a penis I have needs ofc ima try. The more Ls I take from women the more I despise them

 

[thereallegend]

Geomaxxing is always an option

 

[thereallegend]

Sorry to hear that dude. You're not alone, 80% of men are incels and dating has become really hard since instagram and tinder if you aren't a Chad. I think you should just give up on chasing girls since you had already tried everything and it didn't work out. I know it sucks but you can find happiness in other things

Instagram made status way more important and Tinder made looks way more important.

There's definitely an all around inflation happening

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Geomaxxing is always an option

Not much interested in going to SEA.
May possibly go to some other places, but I have no knowledge of what those other places are.

 

[Deleted member 19301]

do u become overattached or put them on a pedestal or act like a cute puppy

 

[thereallegend]

Not much interested in going to SEA.
May possibly go to some other places, but I have no knowledge of what those other places are.

Your signature says 5'7, so consider geomaxxing or drastic heightmaxxing. Take your pick.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

do u become overattached or put them on a pedestal or act like a cute puppy

At some moments maybe, but mostly I may actually be underattached since I don't give much attention to foids. Like I cut off foids even at the slightest sign of flaking or disinterest.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Your signature says 5'7, so consider geomaxxing or drastic heightmaxxing. Take your pick.

Yup, LL is on the cards. I just need to save up for it.

 

[thereallegend]

Yup, LL is on the cards. I just need to save up for it.

mk677 + aromasin
lifts/boots
stretches

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

mk677 + aromasin

Only for openplatecels

 

[aBetterMii]

Just gym max and keep lift frauding
You are failoed by your accent somewhat, girls arent a fan of "italian" accents, but you def arent beyond hope and can def ascend if you dont give up, your base isnt bad, just hard mode

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

girls arent a fan of "italian" accents

Nigga

 

[thereallegend]

Only for openplatecels

That's like saying mewing only "works" in puberty

 

[thereallegend]

Just gym max and keep lift frauding
You are failoed by your accent somewhat, girls arent a fan of "italian" accents, but you def arent beyond hope and can def ascend if you dont give up, your base isnt bad, just hard mode

He's also a manlet

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

That's like saying mewing only "works" in puberty

Oh you're retarded ok nvm

 

[aBetterMii]

Nigga

Inside joke

 

[Blackgymmax]

That's why status is a meme. Once they feel they've perched some self esteem you're worthless

 

[Blackgymmax]

mk677 + aromasin
lifts/boots
stretches

Why are you telling fully grown adults to use mk for height lol. Do you see bodybuilders gaining any height while on 15IUs GH a week/day?

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

My problem is that I do get strong IOIs, and even aporoaches by foids, but it never goes anywhere. Maybe because of one of these:
1. I am not sexually aggressive.
2. I am not instagram statusmaxxed / IRL statusmaxxed.
3. I am cold and calculating towards foids. Like I mostly care about what they can give me, and don't focus on making them feel good.
4. I've got too high standards / somewhat of an ego: I drop foids at the slightest hint of flaking. Maybe I am too used to some foids making it too easy for me

Could any of these be true?

 

[thereallegend]

Why are you telling fully grown adults to use mk for height lol. Do you see bodybuilders gaining any height while on 15IUs GH a week/day?

Aromasin can keep the plates open tho

 

[thereallegend]

My problem is that I do get strong IOIs, and even aporoaches by foids, but it never goes anywhere. Maybe because of one of these:
1. I am not sexually aggressive.
2. I am not instagram statusmaxxed / IRL statusmaxxed.
3. I am cold and calculating towards foids. Like I mostly care about what they can give me, and don't focus on making them feel good.
4. I've got too high standards / somewhat of an ego: I drop foids at the slightest hint of flaking. Maybe I am too used to some foids making it too easy for me

Could any of these be true?

1, 2, and your height seem most plausible.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Literally my life has been an endless series of periods of slaying hopes, and careermaxxing copes.

In all those periods of hope, I work on getting foids, talking to them. Sometimes I get success and hang out with a few foids, but as soon as it comes to the point of slaying or escalating after a feq dates/hangouts, all foids ghost me or block me. And then I cope by careermaxxing for the next phase of life to overcome those emotions of inferiority.

It's happened with me multiple times. Foids use me, get their validation, and then abandon me. I'm essentially in a betabuxx situation without even access to the pussy. I'm tired of being used and abused by foids time and time again.

Get looks or die

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Aromasin can keep the plates open tho

But obviously not reopen? Which means you need to have started taking it in puberty?

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Get looks or die

Ohh I am definitely not gonna die yet. Too many bitches left to fuck.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Ohh I am definitely not gonna die yet. Too many bitches left to fuck.

Ascend. Or cry.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

1, 2, and your height seem most plausible.

Problem 1 I've fixed.
Problem 2 I am already working on fixing.
Problem 3 I am gonna get LL in the future.

 

[Chadethnic101]

What's wrong with me (in any sense whatsoever, whatever pill - black, red, blue) that might be leading to these situations?
Is it preventable?
Is it my height? (All of these foids have neen shorter than me)
Is it my face? (I've got innocent looking face with one or two failos) Maybe that's what makes them think they can use me?
Is it my vibe? (I don't give fuckboy vibes)

PM me pics and I will advise g

 

[thereallegend]

But obviously not reopen? Which means you need to have started taking it in puberty?

If you're under 25, give it a go

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Okay. Small update.

All of these past experiences I mentioned above have legitimately changed my personality.

I get IOIs and smiles from foids still but I can't gather the courage to go up to them and introduce myself. (How can I even do that when even the girls who approach me bail on me afterwards).

So I really get confused about whether I should these foids who give me IOIs?