To get rid off being non NT, or if your high inhib run away from home.

[FiendFiend]

If you lock urself in ur room, avoid parents, looming presence of an abusing figure, or abusive parents.

Run away from home. They will appreciate you more if you come back anwyay, and if you dont, its fine. Plenty of foids run away, they end up completely fine. If you look on the older side this may be more challenging, but either way some stranger may help you.

For once you will be able to feel free, and not restricted. Once you get the first time of running away from home feeling, you will feel free, and will know, if shit gets bad again u can always run away, giving a sense of comfort. Therefore lowering your anxiety in that shitty household you may be.

Your parents may send u off to relatives who treat u better, or they send u to another families home. Doesnt matter. If anything remember if u have a key, and u know when ur parents work, u can always no matter what, return, shower , grab some food, recharge your shit. And then go back out.

If your high inhib u usually think of the worst case scenario, fuck worst case scenarios they never happen thats why your trapped and feel like shit and insane anxiety.

Once u realize doing something as radical as leaving your home doesnt fucking kill you, or you wont get raped on the sidewalk or some fucking bs shit people fearmonger to u about, you will find peace.

If you have helicopter parents who think your a fucking child who cant do shit by himself , you will always stay thinking that way. If you can realize you can live in the literal fucking wild for a couple days and survive. You will realize that you actually arent some weak fag and that u are just been artificially constrained to your home. Our species has literally hunted animals, survived fucking everything. No matter how much soy you have in your bloodstream, you realize a home is nice and is surely a privilege but our kind can survive without it, let alone a few days.

Fuck ignoring your problems, run away from them. Why be in their looming presence. If theres a tiger slowly behind you encroaching running at you u see in the distance, begin running, not sitting there thinking if u stand still maybe he will rethink what it does. You will end up 30 year old NEETs like you see on here, if you dont want that, take this vital step, and stop taking yourself and life too seriously. Its never that serious man. We all die one day either way. So dont live it rotting.

 

[vevcred2_0]

I don't wanna leave tho

 

[Gonthar]

 

[FiendFiend]

never happens to me, if i had actual family gatherings i would not be inkwell 100% or i would not be percieved as one, when occasion arises I am NT as fuck and i dont look subhuman.

I have literally 0 family here, its over. When we call family on phone and my mom shows me, i get complimented saying, wow he looks so grown now, or hes handsome. And if my mom mentions that I have basically been NEETing for like a year and half they are in disbelief.

 

[FiendFiend]

chances are if this shit happens to u, ur not really mentalcel, and u really are just non NT or mentalcel because of looks and negative reinforcement.

 

[Gonthar]

I have literally 0 family here, its over. When we call family on phone and my mom shows me, i get complimented saying, wow he looks so grown now, or hes handsome. And if my mom mentions that I have basically been NEETing for like a year and half they are in disbelief.

 

[Gonthar]

chances are if this shit happens to u, ur not really mentalcel, and u really are just non NT or mentalcel because of looks and negative reinforcement.

Lol, it can happen, pretty much in every group of people, social circle, family, school or college class, work environment, activity club, gathering, etc., there's some guy at the bottom of the social hierarchy that gets treated like crap, is made fun of, mocked, etc...
So...next time you are among other people, look around you and try to determine who is the person with the lowest social capital there - in looks, status, money, etc....If that person is you, then you shouldn't actually be there, there's a high chance you will be treated badly, even if it's your own family.

 

[FiendFiend]

jfl fax btw i dont go off this for how attractive i am, i actually had positive enforcement irl b4 and been rated in dms

 

[Godera]

I think about this often, but i dont wanna lose my job yet

 

[FiendFiend]

Lol, it can happen, pretty much in every group of people, social circle, family, school or college class, work environment, activity club, gathering, etc., there's some guy at the bottom of the social hierarchy that gets treated like crap, is made fun of, mocked, etc...
So...next time you are among other people, look around you and try to determine who is the person with the lowest social capital there - in looks, status, money, etc....If that person is you, then you shouldn't actually be there, there's a high chance you will be treated badly, even if it's your own family.

yes I know this. I've seen sub5 friend groups and shit at school, I wouldnt hang out with them cuz im not trying to destroy my social life and be shamed for hanging out with them, but I would always tell people to chill when they were mocking them and shit cuz its sad. I never say it out loud or join in the bullying its fucking sad as fuck.

Im lucky me not touching grass isnt really from negative reinforcement but cuz of some shitty decisions and a parental things, either way i still do be going out here and there with friends, which Im grateful for. Either way not much friends who want to hang out with you if they have their own groups now in their new schools and shit, so I dont get to do it like everyday. If my situation would be from negative reinforcement i would be discussing roping or permenantly rotting but the thing is I known through little glimpes that all it is , is just different, location and envireonment and I could have a very much different way better life. It isnt because of some bones on my face or my hair or something.

Wasted potential pisses me off. When I lost 500$ on trading trump coin during the inaguration, i wasnt mad cuz i lost 500$ i was mad cuz my shit went up to 3500$ before it was rugpulled. When you have wasted potential your hopes and dreams are destroyed. If I just was a sub5 and treated like shit always I wouldnt give a fuck at all tbh. The thing is when you know you could have a girlfriend, you could do so much shit and experience a good teen life but your tied down because of certain circumstances it pisses u off.

 

[Sean o' Tist]

Good thread.
Thanks for motivation.
I need to do some low inhib shit for once

 

[nuxx7]

this is good advice it actually works, i was high inhib but running away from home and finding places to sleep on my own helped with my high inhib, sadly now i dont have a stable place and women still dont find me attractive for some reason but at least my high inhib is gone

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

Lol, it can happen, pretty much in every group of people, social circle, family, school or college class, work environment, activity club, gathering, etc., there's some guy at the bottom of the social hierarchy that gets treated like crap, is made fun of, mocked, etc...
So...next time you are among other people, look around you and try to determine who is the person with the lowest social capital there - in looks, status, money, etc....If that person is you, then you shouldn't actually be there, there's a high chance you will be treated badly, even if it's your own family.

what about defending yourself of those people that treat you bad?

 

[Gonthar]

what about defending yourself of those people that treat you bad?

If you're the guy at the bottom all the others will gang up against you, you can't win no matter what you do, say nothing when someone makes fun of you and the others will grin and think you're a wimp and a loser, stand up for yourself, tell him you don't tolerate that behavior and the others will be like: "He's just joking, dude! Yikes, you're so sensitive!!!!". Either way, it's you against everyone else...

 

[superpsycho]

what if i just start a fight instead

 

[Sayonara]

Soon will

 

[They_are_all_whores]

Once u realize doing something as radical as leaving your home doesnt fucking kill you, or you wont get raped on the sidewalk or some fucking bs shit people fearmonger to u about, you will find peace.

my parents were telling me to not go outside bec i might get a sunburn and go to the hospital or get fucking robbed by gangsters

 

[FiendFiend]

my parents were telling me to not go outside bec i might get a sunburn and go to the hospital or get fucking robbed by gangsters

yh fucking same. Its rlly gay