Too scared to talk to Girls

[xit]

in a non-professional setting

they are terrifying creatures

it is what it is: ldar till i die

 

[Over]

Not gonna risk a rejection either bro

 

[rtssssy]

lol

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Just move on if you get rejected who cares really

 

[xit]

Just move on if you get rejected who cares really

i feel like a sex offender predator if i try to talk with intent to have sex

 

[Deleted member 1400]

How old are u?

 

[xit]

How old are u?

21 why

 

[SikKunt]

 

[Deleted member 1400]

21 why

I was like u (and still a little bit tbh). Rejection is one of the cruelest feelings on earth. I only approached twice in my life (from 15 years old to 24 years old) but now I don't give a fuck anymore man I'm in my mid twenties time is going quickly as fuck. If you don't move and approach you'll regret it the rest of ur life. At least when after being rejected you'll tell yourself after all I've tried and haven't been a coward. Good luck!

 

[Velvet]

 

[Deleted member 206]

not being able to create opportunities is a big death sentence

it only gets better by interacting with them, no amount of emotional support will change your mind about fears. u gotta force yourself into that shit and feel the stress hormones boiling in your body until it gets comfortable.

if u dont do anything about it it will eat u from inside

 

[InjectE]

adorable

 

[xit]

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relatable. i have rejected girls that wanted me because of being scared

 

[Deleted member 2969]

Valium + Xanax bro

 

[xit]

Valium + Xanax bro

what about phenibut

 

[godsmistake]

if i approach and get rejected it will haunt me to the day i die. i never want to feel embarassed again

 

[xit]

if i approach and get rejected it will haunt me to the day i die. i never want to feel embarassed again

same

 

[fukmylyf]

@BrettyBoy's posting style is basically how I talk to girls IRL
(no disrespect bro)

 

[Deleted member 2969]

what about phenibut

Good

 

[xit]

@BrettyBoy's posting style is basically how I talk to hot girls IRL
(no disrespect bro)

what posting style!? all he posts is 'most women are like that.. i hate most women' a few times a day

 

[Velvet]

relatable. i have rejected girls that wanted me because of being scared

Same I was too much of a pussy to escalate

 

[CupOfCoffee]

i feel like a sex offender predator if i try to talk with intent to have sex

Just talk about something that isnt related to that to start off with

 

[xit]

Same I was too much of a pussy to escalate

how 2 escalate without feeling like a predator

 

[DidntRead]

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[xit]

Just talk about something that isnt related to that to start off with

its always in the back of my mind

doing this feels manipulative

 

[Deleted member 2969]

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[Velvet]

how 2 escalate without feeling like a predator

Idk bro

 

[pisslord]

Same

 

[Ritalincel]

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[Deleted member 2969]

 

[Deleted member 2745]

i feel like a sex offender predator if i try to talk with intent to have sex

Why are you a Subhuman?

 

[Deleted member 2933]

Cuz ugly

 

[medialcanthuscel]

Then kill yourself faggot

 

[Deleted member 3328]

xanax and phenibut bro
They helped me massively. I'm lucky I discovered them last year when I was 17 years old. The only negative effect for me is that they can be very addicting

 

[Deleted member 1464]

try men

 

[eduardkoopman]

in a non-professional setting

they are terrifying creatures

it is what it is: ldar till i die

Not gonna risk a rejection either bro

This high inhib, is a problem.
The cause of high inhib is often: passivity due to feeling [....].
One has to learn, to over-rule feeling WITH logic. If something makes logical sense, then one need to push through opposing feelings as much if one can.

Logically speaking. Rejection is a confirmation of not getting any from her.
1. Not chatting up a woman, that one can chat up with little risks. One gets no sex.
2. Chatting up a woman, that one can chat up with little risks. One gets no sex when rejected, AKA equal outcome as number 1.
3. Chatting up a woman, that one can chat up with little risks. One gets sex when accepted.
Imo, logically speaking. This is a proposition where: there is only the option of a WIN/WINNING. And not the option of losing, since nothing is the outcome one starts with.
The only thing one has to learn, is not let the feelings affect one to much. Aka, going mental about rejection. Feelings, are regularly incorrect, logically speaking.

i feel like a sex offender predator if i try to talk with intent to have sex

Offender, is often due to being to pushy and so on. When I chatted up women in the past, I was really laid back (zero pushyness) and didn't do it in settings that it was tobad/unacceptable.
Then, one likely (I didn't at least) will noy have any problems, with being seen or treated as an offender. Always stay friendly, and do zero pushing. Most pua's fuck up in that respect, as well as these rough arab dudes, black gangster dudes, and so on. And most pua's also fuck up, on the pushiness.
I always held the phylospical approach to chatting up: "If Chad wouldn't need to do this, I won't either". So, no pushiness.

The intent to hunt, prey, etc. for sex with women as a man. Has been vilified as unacceptable in the west. Don't internalise that imo. It's how all the dudes that managed to pass on their genes did it.

 

[SikKunt]

Try Phenibut

 

[GenericChad1444]

Try adderall

 

[jjm4765]

Just talk to them like how you would talk to a guy.

 

[xit]

Offender, is often due to being to pushy and so on. When I chatted up women in the past, I was really laid back (zero pushyness) and didn't do it in settings that it was tobad/unacceptable.
Then, one likely (I didn't at least) will noy have any problems, with being seen or treated as an offender. Always stay friendly, and do zero pushing. Most pua's fuck up in that respect, as well as these rough arab dudes, black gangster dudes, and so on. And most pua's also fuck up, on the pushiness.
I always held the phylospical approach to chatting up: "If Chad wouldn't need to do this, I won't either". So, no pushiness.

The intent to hunt, prey, etc. for sex with women as a man. Has been vilified as unacceptable in the west. Don't internalise that imo. It's how all the dudes that managed to pass on their genes did it.

Contradicting paragraphs

Just talk to them like how you would talk to a guy.

This will lead to no pussy

 

[Andromeda88]

 

[xit]

Cuz ugly

i dont think so

 

[Andromeda88]

i dont think so

you have yellow fever u coon

 

[eduardkoopman]

The intent to hunt, prey, etc. for sex with women as a man.

With hunting/preying in this one I mean things like saying "hi" to a random women to see if she is open to talk with you. The word hunting/preying was probably used to strongly. It just means, makeing a first move in a laid back way.

 

[nattycel]

Try being a man

 

[xit]

With hunting/preying in this one I mean things like saying "hi" to a random women to see if she is open to talk with you. The word hunting/preying was probably used to strongly. It just means, makeing a first move in a laid back way.

you still need to escalate at some point

 

[Petsmart]

OP stopped coping and admitted whats actually happening, crazy shit man

 

[InjectE]

try men

 

[eduardkoopman]

you still need to escalate at some point

Yes. But that is plenty time past the first chat up (for a nromie dude). So, of no concern during the time you first try to make contact. Imo, no touching if she didn't agree to go with you somewhere to sit/meet/talk/etc.. Later on, first easy thing to try, if wanna see she is comfortable with your body touching hers, touch her hand. If it repulses her or makes her feel akward or she pulls back etc...., that's a bad sign. It should be delight/joy for her, that this happens ideally. If these above exmaple bad things happen, just end the date or whatever. It's going to be pointless, she's probably more interested in something else (like free stuff or whatever)

 

[SikKunt]

Try Phenibut