Turning ex gf into fuck buddy

[Deleted member 8016]

An ex gf is having second thoughts about our breakup, she's sending me signals that she wants to get back with me.
I fuck her regularly and try to avoid the subject.
Has anyone been in this situation ?
How did it end up for you ?

 

[RAITEIII]

Chad. I have no advice to give u dn rd but i think it depends on why u broke up. From experience tho better u be the one puttung end that shit before she done again

 

[Deleted member 8576]

i think it depends on why u broke up.

 

[Deleted member 8016]

it depends on why u broke up

No specific reason we've been together for a long time and I couldn't stand all the childish shit tests and all.
The thing is she is in my close friends group, so if she's thinking that because I fuck her we're gonna get back together, I'll look like an asshole who's using her for sex

 

[MusicMaxxingMidget]

I'll look like an asshole who's using her for sex

Low T if you care what people think of you

 

[Deleted member 8016]

Low T if you care what people think of you

Maybe, but tbh I'd rather not waste my close social circle just for one pussy.
Also those friends know a lot of hot girls they can introduce me to.

 

[turkproducer]

you’re lucky. my ex came back but didn’t meet me and nothing was the same after it

do you just not want her anymore

 

[Deleted member 2632]

Waste of time tbh

You have feelings for her and you know it

Once you and your girl break up no contact for life else you will fall right back into the previous addiction

Trust me

 

[bruh3610]

Get her on an emotional leash. Send small signals that you want get back but dont mention it explicitly. Slowly, increase the amount you do this but never mention getting back with her explicitly. As she picks up the hint more and more, suddenly act cold to her. Ghost or leave her on seen for a couple of days, send 1 word replies, act disinterested, but still hookup occasionally. Show signs only of physical attraction(leave immediately after sex, ignore her even if she asks you to stay, only show interest while texting when she mentions sex). Slowly repeat the first step(show growing signs of interest implicitly). Then repeat step 2(Act cold). Keep doing this entire process. It should be a rollercoaster of implicit growing attraction(ffrom you), then distancing(from you)

This is alpha darktriad manipulative badboy behavior,

 

[Copernicus]

Get her on an emotional leash. Send small signals that you want get back but dont mention it explicitly. Slowly, increase the amount you do this but never mention getting back with her explicitly. As she picks up the hint more and more, suddenly act cold to her. Ghost or leave her on seen for a couple of days, send 1 word replies, act disinterested, but still hookup occasionally. Show signs only of physical attraction(leave immediately after sex, ignore her even if she asks you to stay, only show interest while texting when she mentions sex). Slowly repeat the first step(show growing signs of interest implicitly). Then repeat step 2(Act cold). Keep doing this entire process. It should be a rollercoaster of implicit growing attraction(ffrom you), then distancing(from you)

This is alpha darktriad manipulative badboy behavior,

High IQ, rollercoaster of emotions gets her hooked up.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Over for you boyo

 

[Deleted member 8016]

do you just not want her anymore

Don't want to be in a relationship at all, but that's what she wants

Waste of time tbh

You have feelings for her and you know it

Once you and your girl break up no contact for life else you will fall right back into the previous addiction

Trust me

I guess you're right we've been together for several years, she was my one itis before I began to get redpilled.
The thing is we have the exact same group of friends, so when we go out or on a holliday she's there, so long for the no contact.

Get her on an emotional leash. Send small signals that you want get back but dont mention it explicitly. Slowly, increase the amount you do this but never mention getting back with her explicitly. As she picks up the hint more and more, suddenly act cold to her. Ghost or leave her on seen for a couple of days, send 1 word replies, act disinterested, but still hookup occasionally. Show signs only of physical attraction(leave immediately after sex, ignore her even if she asks you to stay, only show interest while texting when she mentions sex). Slowly repeat the first step(show growing signs of interest implicitly). Then repeat step 2(Act cold). Keep doing this entire process. It should be a rollercoaster of implicit growing attraction(ffrom you), then distancing(from you)

This is alpha darktriad manipulative badboy behavior,

Could do it but would be too much trouble for not so much benefits

I guess I'll keep fucking her until she explicitly asks me to get back together, then I'll tell her I don't want to.

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Smash her till you get bored
Then tell her you can’t have sex together anymore because you’ve gotten in a new relationship