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Alright, before I go into detail about what happened, I'll drop some context.
Context: The girl I share history with goes way back as far as 8th grade. I used to troll in her Discord school server and irl; she then developed romantic feelings for me. Fast forward to 9th grade; nothing much happened. We didn't interact up until 10th grade, when she left our city during the middle of 10th grade. Then, like a month later, I see she sent me a friend request on Snapchat, so of course I accept. We talked for a little while, then she confessed, and I told her I don't feel the same at all, and I do remember calling her ugly when she asked me, so of course we stopped talking and blocked each other. Then, fast forward to 2 months later, she adds me again, and I accept it just to tell her to fuck off, but guess what? She continues to flirt with me, and when confronted about it, she denies it all, so I just block her. Over the course of a year she'd try to add me on Snapchat or other socials, and to her avail, I don't bite.
Alright, after that whole whatever, it's been a year or a little over a year. I open TikTok to see a message request from what seemed to be a girl, so I message her, "uh who is this" and she responds back, "I saw you on my suggested and followed you because I thought you were cool". So we talk, and then after a few days we got a little closer and started sharing stories from our high school and personal life β I know I shouldn't have, but she was sharing her stories, so I felt obliged to do the same (I know, pretty retarded of me). Then we shared some more, and of course, me being the idiot I am, I told her some traumatic shit that happened to me when I was pretty young, and she was pretty understanding and offered to talk about it whenever, which I found nice of her to do. But of course it was all an act from her, so its been like 10+ days of chatting back n forth and then she starts talking about her classmates, which I found a little weird she was sharing their names but she had nothing to lose so it was normal until she mentioned The girls name and asked me if i knew any girls with that name, of course I said no and things got weird she'd start saying (my name) and "this isn't you", "its like you reset your character", bullshit like that and I was confused until she mentioned she was the girl who I mentioned in context (Turns out she wasn't her but her friend) So I tried testing her by saying "alright if its really you, add me on snap" etc and she couldn't remember it so I don't know why i continued but of course i wanted to know why go through all this trouble? So I give her my Snap, and we go back and forth, then I predict some shit, and she says, "Yeah, I was right. I'm not her, but I am her friend." So obviously I don't believe her until I'm added into a group chat with her, and for 2 hours I just get humiliated, you know, called ugly, stupid, a manipulator, and a compulsive liar, and of course, their hatred towards me and men.
It was pretty sad considering I had shared traumatic shit like me being sexually assaulted as a kid, anyways that's beside the point. I'm posting this because I want to vent and share my experience and perhaps anyone else who's dealt with the same or a similar experience, can relate. I'm not sure what I should do. Leave it? Or should I pursue revenge sometime in the future? If so, what should I do, you know, considering she's in a different city?
If you have any questions lmk.
Context: The girl I share history with goes way back as far as 8th grade. I used to troll in her Discord school server and irl; she then developed romantic feelings for me. Fast forward to 9th grade; nothing much happened. We didn't interact up until 10th grade, when she left our city during the middle of 10th grade. Then, like a month later, I see she sent me a friend request on Snapchat, so of course I accept. We talked for a little while, then she confessed, and I told her I don't feel the same at all, and I do remember calling her ugly when she asked me, so of course we stopped talking and blocked each other. Then, fast forward to 2 months later, she adds me again, and I accept it just to tell her to fuck off, but guess what? She continues to flirt with me, and when confronted about it, she denies it all, so I just block her. Over the course of a year she'd try to add me on Snapchat or other socials, and to her avail, I don't bite.
Alright, after that whole whatever, it's been a year or a little over a year. I open TikTok to see a message request from what seemed to be a girl, so I message her, "uh who is this" and she responds back, "I saw you on my suggested and followed you because I thought you were cool". So we talk, and then after a few days we got a little closer and started sharing stories from our high school and personal life β I know I shouldn't have, but she was sharing her stories, so I felt obliged to do the same (I know, pretty retarded of me). Then we shared some more, and of course, me being the idiot I am, I told her some traumatic shit that happened to me when I was pretty young, and she was pretty understanding and offered to talk about it whenever, which I found nice of her to do. But of course it was all an act from her, so its been like 10+ days of chatting back n forth and then she starts talking about her classmates, which I found a little weird she was sharing their names but she had nothing to lose so it was normal until she mentioned The girls name and asked me if i knew any girls with that name, of course I said no and things got weird she'd start saying (my name) and "this isn't you", "its like you reset your character", bullshit like that and I was confused until she mentioned she was the girl who I mentioned in context (Turns out she wasn't her but her friend) So I tried testing her by saying "alright if its really you, add me on snap" etc and she couldn't remember it so I don't know why i continued but of course i wanted to know why go through all this trouble? So I give her my Snap, and we go back and forth, then I predict some shit, and she says, "Yeah, I was right. I'm not her, but I am her friend." So obviously I don't believe her until I'm added into a group chat with her, and for 2 hours I just get humiliated, you know, called ugly, stupid, a manipulator, and a compulsive liar, and of course, their hatred towards me and men.
It was pretty sad considering I had shared traumatic shit like me being sexually assaulted as a kid, anyways that's beside the point. I'm posting this because I want to vent and share my experience and perhaps anyone else who's dealt with the same or a similar experience, can relate. I'm not sure what I should do. Leave it? Or should I pursue revenge sometime in the future? If so, what should I do, you know, considering she's in a different city?
If you have any questions lmk.
