Unreciprocated Feelings in a Complex Friendship

[toji.]

I would like to get your opinion on a situation I am going through.

I am in my fifth year of college, this year I will graduate, there is a girl I have been talking to since my first year of college, in my first year I was too elusive and besides it was pandemic I didn't talk to anyone, sometime I had some conversations with this girl that didn't really come to anything.

In the second year of university, I entered physically into my uni, this girl had fallen in love with a guy who later became a very good friend of mine, it should be noted that this girl is the number one of our generation and this friend who was her boyfriend was also among the best, in the third year of university, I got closer and closer to this girl and her boyfriend (my friend) at the end of the first semester of the third year they both break up. This girl started making strange offers to me, like inviting me to her house to watch a movie, sometime we went out together and she asked me a lot of sexual questions, etc. The point is that I didn't play her game because she was my friend's ex.

Now in the fourth year (2024) I started to fall in love with this girl and since then our relationship has been a friendship, she fell in love and she is with a guy who earns a lot of money for his age, basically he is from the French elite and she has been with him for almost a year. She came to my house and everything, I went to hers, but what we have is friendship, partly because I was elusive and because she understood. I'm honestly very attached to her, but it's obviously not reciprocated.

It should be made clear that this is more than a sexual urge, it is a feeling of concern, affection, love, which is probably more difficult to resolve. What do you think I should do?

 

[IAmWhite]

I would like to get your opinion on a situation I am going through.

I am in my fifth year of college, this year I will graduate, there is a girl I have been talking to since my first year of college, in my first year I was too elusive and besides it was pandemic I didn't talk to anyone, sometime I had some conversations with this girl that didn't really come to anything.

In the second year of university, I entered physically into my uni, this girl had fallen in love with a guy who later became a very good friend of mine, it should be noted that this girl is the number one of our generation and this friend who was her boyfriend was also among the best, in the third year of university, I got closer and closer to this girl and her boyfriend (my friend) at the end of the first semester of the third year they both break up. This girl started making strange offers to me, like inviting me to her house to watch a movie, sometime we went out together and she asked me a lot of sexual questions, etc. The point is that I didn't play her game because she was my friend's ex.

Now in the fourth year (2024) I started to fall in love with this girl and since then our relationship has been a friendship, she fell in love and she is with a guy who earns a lot of money for his age, basically he is from the French elite and she has been with him for almost a year. She came to my house and everything, I went to hers, but what we have is friendship, partly because I was elusive and because she understood. I'm honestly very attached to her, but it's obviously not reciprocated.

It should be made clear that this is more than a sexual urge, it is a feeling of concern, affection, love, which is probably more difficult to resolve. What do you think I should do?

too late niggher. ur incel brain took too long to understand

 

[blatonslatt]

I would like to get your opinion on a situation I am going through.

I am in my fifth year of college, this year I will graduate, there is a girl I have been talking to since my first year of college, in my first year I was too elusive and besides it was pandemic I didn't talk to anyone, sometime I had some conversations with this girl that didn't really come to anything.

In the second year of university, I entered physically into my uni, this girl had fallen in love with a guy who later became a very good friend of mine, it should be noted that this girl is the number one of our generation and this friend who was her boyfriend was also among the best, in the third year of university, I got closer and closer to this girl and her boyfriend (my friend) at the end of the first semester of the third year they both break up. This girl started making strange offers to me, like inviting me to her house to watch a movie, sometime we went out together and she asked me a lot of sexual questions, etc. The point is that I didn't play her game because she was my friend's ex.

Now in the fourth year (2024) I started to fall in love with this girl and since then our relationship has been a friendship, she fell in love and she is with a guy who earns a lot of money for his age, basically he is from the French elite and she has been with him for almost a year. She came to my house and everything, I went to hers, but what we have is friendship, partly because I was elusive and because she understood. I'm honestly very attached to her, but it's obviously not reciprocated.

It should be made clear that this is more than a sexual urge, it is a feeling of concern, affection, love, which is probably more difficult to resolve. What do you think I should do?

Tell her or don’t tell her since she has a rich bf and just cut contact

 

[toji.]

too late niggher. ur incel brain took too long to understand

I only respected the codes with my friend

 

[IAmWhite]

I only respected the codes with my friend

which they wouldnt do if the situation was reversed

 

[blatonslatt]

Honestly cut contact and when she texts u wondering why, let her know u have feelings for her and that it’s best if you both don’t talk anymore

She’ll be curious and intrigued and chase you to explain more

 

[toji.]

Tell her or don’t tell her since she has a rich bf and just cut contact

I mean, we will gonna lose contact, im going to other country in two years. I will like to tell her in sometime of my life.

 

[toji.]

Honestly cut contact and when she texts u wondering why, let her know u have feelings for her and that it’s best if you both don’t talk anymore

She’ll be curious and intrigued and chase you to explain more

Thats a good idea ngl

 

[normie_joe]

I would like to get your opinion on a situation I am going through.

I am in my fifth year of college, this year I will graduate, there is a girl I have been talking to since my first year of college, in my first year I was too elusive and besides it was pandemic I didn't talk to anyone, sometime I had some conversations with this girl that didn't really come to anything.

In the second year of university, I entered physically into my uni, this girl had fallen in love with a guy who later became a very good friend of mine, it should be noted that this girl is the number one of our generation and this friend who was her boyfriend was also among the best, in the third year of university, I got closer and closer to this girl and her boyfriend (my friend) at the end of the first semester of the third year they both break up. This girl started making strange offers to me, like inviting me to her house to watch a movie, sometime we went out together and she asked me a lot of sexual questions, etc. The point is that I didn't play her game because she was my friend's ex.

Now in the fourth year (2024) I started to fall in love with this girl and since then our relationship has been a friendship, she fell in love and she is with a guy who earns a lot of money for his age, basically he is from the French elite and she has been with him for almost a year. She came to my house and everything, I went to hers, but what we have is friendship, partly because I was elusive and because she understood. I'm honestly very attached to her, but it's obviously not reciprocated.

It should be made clear that this is more than a sexual urge, it is a feeling of concern, affection, love, which is probably more difficult to resolve. What do you think I should do?

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