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ok so minor update. i was at school and i was analyzing her subtly so she didn't notice. i saw a couple times that she was looking at me. i have also tried holding a conversation for a long time and making her laugh. she seems interested when i speak and laughs sometimes at what i say. but I'm not sure if i should ask her because of one thing. she is friendly with many people and maybe like 3-4 boys and she called me bestie:feelswhy: like she does with everyone else: and to clarify we don't hang around with each other after school. so i was thinking of either getting to know her and finding common interests, or just shooting my shot. i found out that women tend to like me after i have becomed a their friend/text buddy. so what do you guys think? she doesnt have people asking her out so thats good i think. the problem here is not embarassing myself. the problem is that i am the most popular boy in our year so if it leaks out i dont know what it ill do to my reputation:feelstrash:. what do you guys think i should do? should i wait it out like 2-3 weeks or just ask her out now?
 
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ok so minor update. i was at school and i was analyzing her subtly so she didn't notice. i saw a couple times that she was looking at me. i have also tried holding a conversation for a long time and making her laugh. she seems interested when i speak and laughs sometimes at what i say. but I'm not sure if i should ask her because of one thing. she is friendly with many people and maybe like 3-4 boys and she called me bestie:feelswhy: like she does with everyone else: and to clarify we don't hang around with each other after school. so i was thinking of either getting to know her and finding common interests, or just shooting my shot. i found out that women tend to like me after i have becomed a their friend/text buddy. so what do you guys think? she doesnt have people asking her out so thats good i think. the problem here is not embarassing myself. the problem is that i am the most popular boy in our year so if it leaks out i dont know what it ill do to my reputation:feelstrash:. what do you guys think i should do? should i wait it out like 2-3 weeks or just ask her out now?
Don't shoot your shot yet then if your not sure atleast 75%
Get closer to her and maybe test tge waters

On a note: girls like guys who are natural and fluid, so act like she's your friend
 
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ok so minor update. i was at school and i was analyzing her subtly so she didn't notice. i saw a couple times that she was looking at me. i have also tried holding a conversation for a long time and making her laugh. she seems interested when i speak and laughs sometimes at what i say. but I'm not sure if i should ask her because of one thing. she is friendly with many people and maybe like 3-4 boys and she called me bestie:feelswhy: like she does with everyone else: and to clarify we don't hang around with each other after school. so i was thinking of either getting to know her and finding common interests, or just shooting my shot. i found out that women tend to like me after i have becomed a their friend/text buddy. so what do you guys think? she doesnt have people asking her out so thats good i think. the problem here is not embarassing myself. the problem is that i am the most popular boy in our year so if it leaks out i dont know what it ill do to my reputation:feelstrash:. what do you guys think i should do? should i wait it out like 2-3 weeks or just ask her out now?
may as well check her body language to see if she's interested in you for actual iois. the ones u look for is. also yeah liek the other guy said be confident that shes interested in u b4 shooting ur shot

if she plays with her hair while talking to u

her feet are pointed TOWARDS you while talking

she laughs at everything including ur shit jokes

theres a few more ill list out later but thats off the top
 
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ok so minor update. i was at school and i was analyzing her subtly so she didn't notice. i saw a couple times that she was looking at me. i have also tried holding a conversation for a long time and making her laugh. she seems interested when i speak and laughs sometimes at what i say. but I'm not sure if i should ask her because of one thing. she is friendly with many people and maybe like 3-4 boys and she called me bestie:feelswhy: like she does with everyone else: and to clarify we don't hang around with each other after school. so i was thinking of either getting to know her and finding common interests, or just shooting my shot. i found out that women tend to like me after i have becomed a their friend/text buddy. so what do you guys think? she doesnt have people asking her out so thats good i think. the problem here is not embarassing myself. the problem is that i am the most popular boy in our year so if it leaks out i dont know what it ill do to my reputation:feelstrash:. what do you guys think i should do? should i wait it out like 2-3 weeks or just ask her out now?
After 5th tag niggas wont get the notification!
 
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Don't shoot your shot yet then if your not sure atleast 75%
Get closer to her and maybe test tge waters

On a note: girls like guys who are natural and fluid, so act like she's your friend
yeah i was thinking the same since i was unsure because i think there may be like a 50/50 chance she likes me or not
 
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may as well check her body language to see if she's interested in you for actual iois. the ones u look for is. also yeah liek the other guy said be condiment that shes interested in u b4 shooting ur shot

if she plays with her hair while talking to u

her feet are pointed TOWARDS you while talking

she laughs at everything including ur shit jokes

theres a few more ill list out later but thats off the top
If she is constantly looking in ur direction and tries to get u engaged in conversation then she’s interested from my experience!
 
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may as well check her body language to see if she's interested in you for actual iois. the ones u look for is. also yeah liek the other guy said be confident that shes interested in u b4 shooting ur shot

if she plays with her hair while talking to u

her feet are pointed TOWARDS you while talking

she laughs at everything including ur shit jokes

theres a few more ill list out later but thats off the top
thanks ive seen her looking a lil bit down sometimes when talking but not to often and sometimes she holds eye contact greatly when i am talking about a subject
 
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If she is constantly looking in ur direction and tries to get u engaged in convers
Don't shoot your shot yet then if your not sure atleast 75%
Get closer to her and maybe test tge waters

On a note: girls like guys who are natural and fluid, so act like she's your friend
may as well check her body language to see if she's interested in you for actual iois. the ones u look for is. also yeah liek the other guy said be confident that shes interested in u b4 shooting ur shot

if she plays with her hair while talking to u

her feet are pointed TOWARDS you while talking

she laughs at everything including ur shit jokes

theres a few more ill list out later but thats off the top

ation then she’s interested from my experience!
ok so how long should i try to be her friend before trying to get her on a date?
 
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thanks ive seen her looking a lil bit down sometimes when talking but not to often and sometimes she holds eye contact greatly when i am talking about a subject
That could be a good thing if she’s more shy, means she’s nervous around u
 
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ok so how long should i try to be her friend before trying to get her on a date?
Try getting closer and testing the waters bit by bit but don't get too risky all of a sudden, id say around 3/7 weeks or even less if it goes well
 
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thanks ive seen her looking a lil bit down sometimes when talking but not to often and sometimes she holds eye contact greatly when i am talking about a subject

I knew a girl who had a crush on me i could never get with (story for another time:feelswhat:)

if she is always stealing glances or staring at u while ur not looking (that applies to shy girls though, I assume with ur case she aint that shy) and when u catch her she looks away

she mirrors your body language (if you're leaning, she leans too)

she lightly or playfully touches you like on your shoulder or wtv, just any excuse for physical contact

initiates convos with u and tries to actually keep them going

fidgeting around u which is like the hair thing

if she shows like 3 or more of these I think shes def into u as well:Comfy:
 
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Don't shoot your shot yet then if your not sure atleast 75%
Get closer to her and maybe test tge waters

On a note: girls like guys who are natural and fluid, so act like she's your friend
Yeah don’t ask her out prematurely
 
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Try getting closer and testing the waters bit by bit but don't get too risky all of a sudden, id say around 3/7 weeks or even less if it goes well
what should i do when testing the waters?
 
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what should i do when testing the waters?
Idk try getting touchy and gaining confidence by playfighting, slight touches or when siiting in a bench try getting closer to her slowly, if she doesn't do nothing then you can get even riskier
 
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I knew a girl who had a crush on me i could never get with (story for another time:feelswhat:)

if she is always stealing glances or staring at u while ur not looking (that applies to shy girls though, I assume with ur case she aint that shy) and when u catch her she looks away

she mirrors your body language (if you're leaning, she leans too)

she lightly or playfully touches you like on your shoulder or wtv, just any excuse for physical contact

initiates convos with u and tries to actually keep them going

fidgeting around u with is like the hair thing

if she shows like 3 or more of these I think shes def into u as well:Comfy:
she often times than not initiates conversations like a good morning talk or afternoon. she kinda mirrors my body language. she sits in a weird way with her feet crossed to me and her friend so idk what that means. but she always comes to me when my friend does smt to her
 
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she often times than not initiates conversations like a good morning talk or afternoon. she kinda mirrors my body language. she sits in a weird way with her feet crossed to me and her friend so idk what that means. but she always comes to me when my friend does smt to her
I mean it seems good rn, unsure about whether shes romantically into u but it seems like ur going in thr right direction
 
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Idk try getting touchy and gaining confidence by playfighting, slight touches or when siiting in a bench try getting closer to her slowly, if she doesn't do nothing then you can get even riskier
i will try to like ''bump'' into her and like play fighting. should i try to text her abt a plushie that i have the same as hers? and take it from there?
 
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I mean it seems good rn, unsure about whether shes romantically into u but it seems like ur going in thr right direction
yeah it seems good from what i can tell but i will try to get more risky with her and try getting closer to her subtly so she doesnt notice
 
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gl bhai
 
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Yeah don’t ask her out prematurely
yeah was thinking the same thing because if i ask her out now and rejects she will always now and will not allow me to become her ''friend''
 
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i will try to like ''bump'' into her and like play fighting. should i try to text her abt a plushie that i have the same as hers? and take it from there?
Try it but don't rush to much
If yall werent TOO friends then her getting rushed by you and forcing yourself in her life all of a sudden is off the post by a mile
 
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Try it but don't rush to much
If yall werent TOO friends then her getting rushed by you and forcing yourself in her life all of a sudden is off the post by a mile
no i wont rush it because im shy for women. what should i try to do and after that
 
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Start being more aggressive/dominant towards her and drop unfunny jokes some times to see if she still laughs or nah
 
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no i wont rush it because im shy for women. what should i try to do and after that
If it works go for it and get riskier

If she isn't too interested try other ways or just go for it at that point

Start from common grounds like the plushie you both have

Ps:rep me its rough out here ok?:feelswah:
 
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If it works go for it and get riskier

If she isn't too interested try other ways or just go for it at that point

Start from common grounds like the plushie you both have

Ps:rep me its rough out here ok?:feelswah:
ill rep you bhai ok so should i chat to her or in person because in person is a lil to difficult because she is with her friends
 
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Start being more aggressive/dominant towards her and drop unfunny jokes some times to see if she still laughs or nah
will do in the last weeks of the plan
 
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And btw i got together with another girl that i mentioned on here.
Mirin
The girl I like is most likely interested in me (said i was a strong smash playing smash or pass with her) and kept getting closer and touchier w me but is already in a relationship:feelswhy::feelswah:
(She said not for long tho:feelsokman:)
 
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Mirin
The girl I like is most likely interested in me (said i was a strong smash playing smash or pass with her) and kept getting closer and touchier w me but is already in a relationship:feelswhy::feelswah:
(She said not for long tho:feelsokman:)
Less gooooo that is what happend to me
 
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Mirin
The girl I like is most likely interested in me (said i was a strong smash playing smash or pass with her) and kept getting closer and touchier w me but is already in a relationship:feelswhy::feelswah:
(She said not for long tho:feelsokman:)
So whats her rating?
 
Crazy hope it ends like you bhai:soy:
Mirin tho, hope your relationship lasts long:feelshah:
Hope yours last longer also. And yk what last night i got pushy abt who she likes and she was very shy and gave a couple of tips and at last i said i liked her. So we are offically a couple, but we are deciding to wait to announce it to our classmates. Because they are so nosey and we barely hang out at school. Good luck bhai❤️
 
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Hope yours last longer also. And yk what last night i got pushy abt who she likes and she was very shy and gave a couple of tips and at last i said i liked her. So we are offically a couple, but we are deciding to wait to announce it to our classmates. Because they are so nosey and we barely hang out at school. Good luck bhai❤️
Thx brah
Hope the best for you and your girl:feelsokman:
 
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