Update on my date

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Me and my neighbour have been talking for a couple days on instagram and flirting. 2 Days ago she messaged me and told me she was home alone so I went over to her place, we talked for a bit about whatever, her cats and like planning an escape route for if her parents come back home.

Then things took a step, we started making out on her bed and she was on top of me grinding on me. I then took off her shirt and we madeout more as she like kind of rode me, I asked if we could fuck and she said not yet, so I just said alright. Then her dad came home and I hopped over the wall and got back to my place. But lately she's got me super confused, now I'll admit I tend to catch feeling really fast but it's not like I let her know that ofcourse, I just have a subconscious feeling in the back of my head that builds this perfect image of a relationship after a small indication of interest.

But back to the story, we texted a bit that night and then she started getting distant in a way, she cancelled our date that was supposed to take place yesterday because she had to go see family and recently she'd just leave me on read and stuff for hours and jut completely ignore me while viewing my stories and stuff, and honestly it put me in a little bit of a rut, because I know that if I was better looking this situation and, frankly every relationship in my life would be different.
I'm not really sure where to go from here, I just feel super depressed because I thought this girl would've been my girlfriend one day.
 
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Then things took a step, we started making out on her bed and she was on top of me grinding on me. I then took off her shirt and we madeout more as she like kind of rode me, I asked if we could fuck and she said not yet, so I just said alright. Then her dad came home and I hopped over the wall and got back to my place. But lately she's got me super confused, now I'll admit I tend to catch feeling really fast but it's not like I let her know that ofcourse, I just have a subconscious feeling in the back of my head that builds this perfect image of a relationship after a small indication of interest.
Then you woke up.
 
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if i was you i wouldve already hit
 
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why are u letting a chick manipulate u bro. also who tf tryna date a chick who gives up play first link lmfoaoaao
 
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Totally believe u
 
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that sucks, I hate when girls do that shit, just keep trying I guess.

so brutal :feelswah:
 
I lived in the middle of nowhere from 15-18 I moved out to the city abbout a month ago so I'm pretty new and desperate in the terms of dating lol, idk I don't really have control over it.

why are u letting a chick manipulate u bro. also who tf tryna date a chick who gives up play first link lmfoaoaao
 
Either u showed too much interest and she lost the thrill of it

Or

Brutal dick pill
 
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I'm not really sure where to go from here, I just feel super depressed because I thought this girl would've been my girlfriend one day.
just stop reaching out to her unless she does. You probably were too pushy and you didn't realize. Give it some time and she will possibly entertain this neighbour idea in the future. The more you talk to her the worse it will get for you right now.
 
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I lived in the middle of nowhere from 15-18 I moved out to the city abbout a month ago so I'm pretty new and desperate in the terms of dating lol, idk I don't really have control over it.
being desperate makes u look like a fag bro block her on everythin n boss up lmfao
 
For Context:
Me and my neighbour have been talking for a couple days on instagram and flirting. 2 Days ago she messaged me and told me she was home alone so I went over to her place, we talked for a bit about whatever, her cats and like planning an escape route for if her parents come back home.

Then things took a step, we started making out on her bed and she was on top of me grinding on me. I then took off her shirt and we madeout more as she like kind of rode me, I asked if we could fuck and she said not yet, so I just said alright. Then her dad came home and I hopped over the wall and got back to my place. But lately she's got me super confused, now I'll admit I tend to catch feeling really fast but it's not like I let her know that ofcourse, I just have a subconscious feeling in the back of my head that builds this perfect image of a relationship after a small indication of interest.

But back to the story, we texted a bit that night and then she started getting distant in a way, she cancelled our date that was supposed to take place yesterday because she had to go see family and recently she'd just leave me on read and stuff for hours and jut completely ignore me while viewing my stories and stuff, and honestly it put me in a little bit of a rut, because I know that if I was better looking this situation and, frankly every relationship in my life would be different.
I'm not really sure where to go from here, I just feel super depressed because I thought this girl would've been my girlfriend one day.
why would u ask her if u could fuck nigga☠️
 
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And honestly it put me in a little bit of a rut, because I know that if I was better looking this situation and, frankly every relationship in my life would be different.
I'm not really sure where to go from here, I just feel super depressed because I thought this girl would've been my girlfriend one day.
Very much true

This is why you should still double down on looksmaxxing even though its very much possible getting girls as a normie through things like being nt

Cause when the nt normie starts to fall in love with a girl after a hook up the girl will become more distant and the normie will have to hold frame to maintain her interest

If its a goodlooking guy then youll still have her attraction even when you start to actually fall in love with her since the baseline attraction is that high
 
Very much true

This is why you should still double down on looksmaxxing even though its very much possible getting girls as a normie through things like being nt

Cause when the nt normie starts to fall in love with a girl after a hook up the girl will become more distant and the normie will have to hold frame to maintain her interest

If its a goodlooking guy then youll still have her attraction even when you start to actually fall in love with her since the baseline attraction is that high
yeah it sucks, not much I can do about it but gym maxx I suppose
 
Either u showed too much interest and she lost the thrill of it

Or

Brutal dick pill
i have a pretty good dick, i probably showed too much interest
 
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For Context:
Me and my neighbour have been talking for a couple days on instagram and flirting. 2 Days ago she messaged me and told me she was home alone so I went over to her place, we talked for a bit about whatever, her cats and like planning an escape route for if her parents come back home.

Then things took a step, we started making out on her bed and she was on top of me grinding on me. I then took off her shirt and we madeout more as she like kind of rode me, I asked if we could fuck and she said not yet, so I just said alright. Then her dad came home and I hopped over the wall and got back to my place. But lately she's got me super confused, now I'll admit I tend to catch feeling really fast but it's not like I let her know that ofcourse, I just have a subconscious feeling in the back of my head that builds this perfect image of a relationship after a small indication of interest.

But back to the story, we texted a bit that night and then she started getting distant in a way, she cancelled our date that was supposed to take place yesterday because she had to go see family and recently she'd just leave me on read and stuff for hours and jut completely ignore me while viewing my stories and stuff, and honestly it put me in a little bit of a rut, because I know that if I was better looking this situation and, frankly every relationship in my life would be different.
I'm not really sure where to go from here, I just feel super depressed because I thought this girl would've been my girlfriend one day.
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