That’s not what I meant. Just your own happiness and hobbies should take priority rather than foids and sex
Bruh not whole life, it’s still a part of life. It just shouldn’t be the only thing on ur mind
This, I feel like I'm obsessed because I can't seem to get what others get so naturally. You feel as if you've been relegated to the sidelines, even though you feel like you've done more than most to achieve it. What's more, as my age increases in number the feeling of otherness seeps in ever more slightly. Eventually you fear that either you won't achieve it or what you do end up achieving will be a far lesser version (aka getting your first gf as with a 30yo uggo who's been ran through) The pressure also mounts on you to make up for what you feel you missed out on for so long. At this point, it's no longer enough to get what others are getting. Since you've been forced to wait so long, you feel as if you deserve more than what most get.
I felt similiarly before I lost my virginity. Afterwards it felt like a weight had lifted from my shoulders and I felt more relaxed. You hit the nail on the head regarding feeling a sense of otherness.
Even if I do ascend, I will have to contend with the fact that it took me so long to get there. I see myself chasing more and more to justify why I was so behind. The Valentine's Days and the high school/college formals that I spent single, surely all of that pain and suffering means that I will be wildly successful now to make up for the time lost?
I've been doing that my whole life
Yes, if you do ascend, it did take you a long time to get there, but more importantly is that you did get there at all as opposed to perpetual nothingness for the rest of your life
I see no point in hoarding the extra money I find myself with. Given my circumstances online dating is my only option until half a year from now. I was not willing to wait that long, especially when it had such a mental toll on me that it affected me professionally. I don't want to enter the next stage of my life with the knowledge that I failed my entire life to perform a basic human function.
I mean, if you have a fuck ton of disposable income then you can continue to go crazy with it with minimal risk. You can keep Trying online dating but looksmaxxing and slight, keyword slight, frauding is the way to go I believe. Though considering you’re probably around my age and are on a looksmaxxing forum you’ve probably tried quite a few things. I won’t condescend you by assuming you’ve done jack shit and tell you to shower bro!
I am 21 about to hit 22, my profile already has a bit of frauding (height inflation, subtle filters to fix facial expression) But alas, I cannot overcome the limitation of my ethnicity or my facial structure.
Based on your user i’m assuming you’re south korean. Prettyboy maxxing ain’t working out? Do you have insane facial failos?
I do not have the facial structure to prettyboymax. I look more Chinese than Korean tbh. I have a severely downgrown facial structure, terrible eye shape, and a dorsal humped nose.
Brutal. All I could think of for that look is tiktok hair or something adjacent that covers the forehead. A black hoodie or black wifebeater. And hit up girls who like asian guys
At my age bracket I feel as if people do not want Asian guys, even the Asian women.
Isn’t it the case that younger girls like asian guys (particularly if they kpopmaxx) 18-early 20s too not just teen girls
mentality , mirin .I have not found this to be the case.
