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When a women say she want a tall men, a rich men, a men with a big dick or with muscles ( any physical aspect considered attractive),
There's something she unintentionally do:
She associate this positive trait and unconsciously make the men which is in appearance only rich, tall ect facially handsome in her head.
"I want a tall bf"
She means him
Not him
As men we do the same, but at a lower extent : imagine a girl with a beautiful body, you will probably unconsciously make her facially attractive in your head too, while in appearance the only factor is her body.
It also work in the opposite but only in particular cases like this one: women might say they want a men with a big nose, while she unintentionally visualize an attractive men with a big nose.
What's the issue with this?
Women and sometimes men will idealize a single criteria, while it alone wouldn't matter without an attractive face, misleading the other gender.
This is also one major reason why women rarely implement "handsome" in her list of criteria.
I have never seen anyone talk about this here, its a pretty important factor to take in consideration.
There's something she unintentionally do:
She associate this positive trait and unconsciously make the men which is in appearance only rich, tall ect facially handsome in her head.
"I want a tall bf"
She means him
Not him
As men we do the same, but at a lower extent : imagine a girl with a beautiful body, you will probably unconsciously make her facially attractive in your head too, while in appearance the only factor is her body.
It also work in the opposite but only in particular cases like this one: women might say they want a men with a big nose, while she unintentionally visualize an attractive men with a big nose.
What's the issue with this?
Women and sometimes men will idealize a single criteria, while it alone wouldn't matter without an attractive face, misleading the other gender.
This is also one major reason why women rarely implement "handsome" in her list of criteria.
I have never seen anyone talk about this here, its a pretty important factor to take in consideration.
