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This is especially for shorter men.
One thing that can offset short height, and can almost make it a feature, not a negative, is a great walk, a great gait.
When I was in uni, people used to say to me "you have a great walk". This chick used to see me walk and comment that "I had a great posture" (we had already made out the first time we met)
This other chadlite slayer said to me "I always assumed you were jacked under your clothes, because you walk like a beast"
I had a great walk, that came entirely from my inner state- from the place internally I was living from. Today, walking a nice trendy strip on a sunny Autumn Monday afternoon, something clicked. I walked like that for the first time in a decade. I have been going well recently, and a few things are falling into place.
Here are the attitudes that came to me, that I remember from that time:
1) Act like you're the most important person walking. Like you're the ONLY person walking.
Sometimes you'll focus on a bigger man that's walking towards you, or a guy whose dangerous. Act like you're in the center of the environment, like you're the most important person walking in the environment. You should WANT to stand out. People should NOTICE your walk. I don't care how tall, good looking or in-shape you are. If you are short, chubby and ugly, you should do it more. Walk like you are the only person that matters in the motherfuckin environment.
2) Be in the flow of being a moving creature.
Don't walk on autopilot. You might be walking somewhere you've walked 100 x before, you may know exactly where to walk, you can just drift off into your mind and your legs will take you there. Don't.
Feel every step, in the body. Bask in your process of walking the earth at this moment, as a living creature. Feel the reality of that. Live it.
You may think this is stupid, but what do you think sex is (I just had sex before this walk today btw). It's enjoying the moment of the bodies, the penetrating, the feeling, the sensations.
Act like it's the first time walking there. Like an actor who has to perform the same walk in a scene, do it for the first time. Honour the joy of walking the earth as a living fucking creature. This is your world to walk all over.
This should apply to eating a nice meal, having a nice sexual experience etc. Be in the physical experience, like it's the first time.
3) Be ready to fight and defend your place on earth at all times.
If you're not ready to defend yourself at all times, then you're a bitch and don't deserve a spot on earth.
It's no shame to get your ass kicked, or even to get killed by another man. It's a greater honour to get killed in battle then to be not willing to fight.
And for anyone who says "you gotta learn how to fight". That's a load of bullshit. Every man with two fists knows how to fight. It's in your DNA to know how to fight. If you really have a reason to, you could fight today. Be in touch with that reason- defending your spot on earth, so you can be free to walk, act and pursue whatever you want. That is the most important reason in the world.
4) Look where the fuck you wanna look, but attach meaning to nothing outside of you.
If there's a hot chick ahead of you and you wanna look at here, look at her. But don't then start analysing 'what does she think of me'. Let it go, it's outside of you, it means nothing. You make your moves, and let the chips outside fall where they may. Don't judge anything outside you.
Look at anything and everything that you want to, but don't let your mind and emotions take you to some stupid space. Just get back to the body, and walk int eh moment. Remember, you're the most important person in any environment
Attach all the meaning to your life experience- to you being in your body, your legs and arms moving, your hips, your chest out, your actions. That's the only thinkg that should mean anything to you. All the chaos outside is irrelevant. Interact with it and enjoy it in the moment, but let it go.
One thing that can offset short height, and can almost make it a feature, not a negative, is a great walk, a great gait.
When I was in uni, people used to say to me "you have a great walk". This chick used to see me walk and comment that "I had a great posture" (we had already made out the first time we met)
This other chadlite slayer said to me "I always assumed you were jacked under your clothes, because you walk like a beast"
I had a great walk, that came entirely from my inner state- from the place internally I was living from. Today, walking a nice trendy strip on a sunny Autumn Monday afternoon, something clicked. I walked like that for the first time in a decade. I have been going well recently, and a few things are falling into place.
Here are the attitudes that came to me, that I remember from that time:
1) Act like you're the most important person walking. Like you're the ONLY person walking.
Sometimes you'll focus on a bigger man that's walking towards you, or a guy whose dangerous. Act like you're in the center of the environment, like you're the most important person walking in the environment. You should WANT to stand out. People should NOTICE your walk. I don't care how tall, good looking or in-shape you are. If you are short, chubby and ugly, you should do it more. Walk like you are the only person that matters in the motherfuckin environment.
2) Be in the flow of being a moving creature.
Don't walk on autopilot. You might be walking somewhere you've walked 100 x before, you may know exactly where to walk, you can just drift off into your mind and your legs will take you there. Don't.
Feel every step, in the body. Bask in your process of walking the earth at this moment, as a living creature. Feel the reality of that. Live it.
You may think this is stupid, but what do you think sex is (I just had sex before this walk today btw). It's enjoying the moment of the bodies, the penetrating, the feeling, the sensations.
Act like it's the first time walking there. Like an actor who has to perform the same walk in a scene, do it for the first time. Honour the joy of walking the earth as a living fucking creature. This is your world to walk all over.
This should apply to eating a nice meal, having a nice sexual experience etc. Be in the physical experience, like it's the first time.
3) Be ready to fight and defend your place on earth at all times.
If you're not ready to defend yourself at all times, then you're a bitch and don't deserve a spot on earth.
It's no shame to get your ass kicked, or even to get killed by another man. It's a greater honour to get killed in battle then to be not willing to fight.
And for anyone who says "you gotta learn how to fight". That's a load of bullshit. Every man with two fists knows how to fight. It's in your DNA to know how to fight. If you really have a reason to, you could fight today. Be in touch with that reason- defending your spot on earth, so you can be free to walk, act and pursue whatever you want. That is the most important reason in the world.
4) Look where the fuck you wanna look, but attach meaning to nothing outside of you.
If there's a hot chick ahead of you and you wanna look at here, look at her. But don't then start analysing 'what does she think of me'. Let it go, it's outside of you, it means nothing. You make your moves, and let the chips outside fall where they may. Don't judge anything outside you.
Look at anything and everything that you want to, but don't let your mind and emotions take you to some stupid space. Just get back to the body, and walk int eh moment. Remember, you're the most important person in any environment
Attach all the meaning to your life experience- to you being in your body, your legs and arms moving, your hips, your chest out, your actions. That's the only thinkg that should mean anything to you. All the chaos outside is irrelevant. Interact with it and enjoy it in the moment, but let it go.
