was it even worth it

[medialcanthus]

little update from last post (HTN BTW)

this is so free i hate myself

bro im literally so NT around everyone i talk to and its not like im afraid to talk to girls or am not NT but with this girl im so ND and high inhib sometimes, i know that if i just put in the least bit of effort i could bag her so easily💔😢 but instead i have eye sex with her in the halls like...

looksmax.org

had school today and theres this day for like a charity where we have to work a job for free or whatever blah blah blah we got all the information
so as i was in the hall i saw her and asked her if she was going. She said she's not and we talked a little further until she actually offered to help me out at getting a job at the gym she works at (she barely shows up though because some weirdo works there jfl). i was about to get her IG but my teacher pulled up

So i waited an hour for her after my classes were done and we talked and exchanged ig. afterwards i DMed her and sent her my info for the man who runs the gym so i can actually permanently work there. From there it kind of got drier and she seemed super different from how she always is at school. I tried to make the convo not dead so i talked about how she lowkey should reconsider not partaking in the charity day since id lowkey be lonely (L bait jfl). She asked me ''why not just ask your other friends''

i know i left her on sent for an hour and she insta responded back but i suck at text messages and i hate that it mightve went a lot better tbh
its not close to over but i dont wanna be a friend, besides i think she cba to respond rn, literally 44 mins delivered rn

IRL is so easy, this is why being super NT matters online, i literally follower and status mog her to oblivion, yet i'm the one so stuck on making it work with this MTB

as well as that while i was waiting for her, some girls i know passed by and literally glazed the living fuck out of me. When they passed i heard one of them say ''i don't know how i picked Victor over him. i mean look at him''. And when they went up the stairs the same girl said '''He's literally Brazilian did you know?? He has a great smile and even a six pack''. yet i deep down couldnt give a single shit about the ego boost.

another thing i was literally shaking because of the wait without noticing it, i looked her straight in the eyes and spoke like i always do yet she noticed and asked me

shes so much harder to get to online
im so fucking empty brahs, please help me

 

[medialcanthus]

@eon @Bryce @BigBallsLarry @nestivv @sub3forfemcels

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[medialcanthus]

@luca_. @natelma0 @59H390

 

[medialcanthus]

@laworg @dex0bp

 

[luca_.]

I honestly think talking to women online is way way wayyy easier

 

[luca_.]

I honestly think talking to women online is way way wayyy easier

Also if a girl starts to lose interest thats the point of no return there is no getting her back

 

[BigBallsLarry]

44 mins delivered is not bad. don't overthink it.

you can still turn it around for the better. I myself think online is easier than IRL, might be because i am ND.

 

[User28823]

whatever it takes ah post

 

[ybuyhgui]

''why not just ask your other friends''

never began

 

[luca_.]

44 mins delivered is not bad. don't overthink it.

you can still turn it around for the better. I myself think online is easier than IRL, might be because i am ND.

If he were Chad he would leave her on delivered for 44minutes

 

[ybuyhgui]

44 mins delivered is not bad. don't overthink it.

you can still turn it around for the better. I myself think online is easier than IRL, might be because i am ND.

nigga if she really liked him there would be no confusion whatsoever. This is something you learn with experience, op is being strung along by a foid

 

[luca_.]

never began

Unfortunately true

 

[medialcanthus]

I honestly think talking to women online is way way wayyy easier

depends on the woman bro, most girls i talk to are so fucking easy to talk to online i dont even need to think about what i say

but shes super different from most girls, which is why theres the allure

in real life all i have to do is use the smile halo to get what i want with a girl 99% of the time, even with her, it was a conversation starter
but theres just something different, shes different and i cant tell if shes not interested or wants to be chased

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Also if a girl starts to lose interest thats the point of no return there is no getting her back

agree with this.

had a situation like that with my ex, i already knew she started losing interest around 2-3 months before the actual breakup. but i started coping and just did everything to gain it back no matter my dignity. little did i know she made up her mind the day she started losing interest.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

nigga if she really liked him there would be no confusion whatsoever. This is something you learn with experience, op is being strung along by a foid

i wouldn't know, i am hangover and way too tired to actually comprehend what op typed out.

 

[dex0bp]

@laworg @dex0bp

your so in there, fucking up here and there on text messages doesn’t really matter if you’ve already gotten this far irl, and she’s probably also not that good at texting so don’t stress it because girls don’t care about your social skills online believe me I used to send a girl I was talking to dexter edits daily and we got in a relationship like shortly after your in there and keep updating

 

[luca_.]

depends on the woman bro, most girls i talk to are so fucking easy to talk to online i dont even need to think about what i say

but shes super different from most girls, which is why theres the allure

in real life all i have to do is use the smile halo to get what i want with a girl 99% of the time, even with her, it was a conversation starter
but theres just something different, shes different and i cant tell if shes not interested or wants to be chased

She’s different because you think she’s different. You have a hard time creating fun conversations online because there is a filter in your mind thats not letting you speak what you want to. So you try to play it safe thinking that if you upset her it’s over

 

[medialcanthus]

If he were Chad he would leave her on delivered for 44minutes

never began

i left her on delivered for almost 2 hours and she still insta replied. but i agree HTN is not enough with some foids

im not being strung along, at least i wont let myself be. So i guess ill find out and it is what it is if you're correct

 

[luca_.]

agree with this.

had a situation like that with my ex, i already knew she started losing interest around 2-3 months before the actual breakup. but i started coping and just did everything to gain it back no matter my dignity. little did i know she made up her mind the day she started losing interest.

Yeah as soon as a girl starts losing the slightest bit of interest it’s 99.9% over. No matter how much pussy you lick it’s over

 

[luca_.]

i left her on delivered for almost 2 hours and she still insta replied. but i agree HTN is not enough with some foids

im not being strung along, at least i wont let myself be. So i guess ill find out and it is what it is if you're correct

Why didn’t you say you were htn from the start maybe she’s trying to reply late intentionally so she doesn’t think she’s desperate. Either that or she just doesn’t like you

 

[BigBallsLarry]

how much pussy you lick it’s over

oh man did that hit hard.

 

[ybuyhgui]

im not being strung along, at least i wont let myself be. So i guess ill find out and it is what it is if you're correct

you pretty much offered to see her and she said no. If she liked you she'd have said yes, girls will play eye tag with you and give their ig without being into you man

 

[44z]

I honestly think talking to women online is way way wayyy easier

water tbh

 

[medialcanthus]

She’s different because you think she’s different. You have a hard time creating fun conversations online because there is a filter in your mind thats not letting you speak what you want to. So you try to play it safe thinking that if you upset her it’s over

you might be right, but i meant different as in the girls i talk to always just require 0 effort even if i like them

 

[luca_.]

you might be right, but i meant different as in the girls i talk to always just require 0 effort even if i like them

Main Struggle of being htn. 99.9% of girls want to ride your cock

 

[medialcanthus]

you pretty much offered to see her and she said no. If she liked you she'd have said yes, girls will play eye tag with you and give their ig without being into you man

she didn't say no, i was letting her decide whether to change her mind, because before we even talked about it she already said shes not going because she hates working there

im not coping btw, no reason for me to, and if you're right you will be right, but i'll find out anyway so you dont gotta be dense about it

 

[medialcanthus]

Main Struggle of being htn. 99.9% of girls want to ride your cock

that .1%

 

[ybuyhgui]

she didn't say no, i was letting her decide whether to change her mind, because before we even talked about it she already said shes not going because she hates working there

im not coping btw, no reason for me to, and if you're right you will be right, but i'll find out anyway so you dont gotta be dense about it

we'll see ig but in my experience if a girl likes you she'd drop quite literally everything to see you

 

[medialcanthus]

we'll see ig but in my experience if a girl likes you she'd drop quite literally everything to see you

right, thats how it always goes with girls i talk to ALL THE TIME, they literally come up to me or they throw such an obvious lob that i barely even have to try

i cant say it took me a whole lot with her but i definitely had to start trying a little
besides she rejects like everyone, i know a bunch of guys including the weird ass coworker who all got their asses rejected

hope you're not right but there is nothing but ascension to get a girls interest back, and i think by that point i will be unfazed by MTB's

 

[44z]

that .1%

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[medialcanthus]

44 mins delivered is not bad. don't overthink it.

you can still turn it around for the better. I myself think online is easier than IRL, might be because i am ND.

if it was english it wouldve been easy as well for me

but dutch is such a shit language, the only way i make it easier is with looks which is IRL

 

[BigBallsLarry]

if it was english it wouldve been easy as well for me

but dutch is such a shit language, the only way i make it easier is with looks which is IRL

it's crazy how superior english is to most European languages. can convey emotions and meaning much easier.

 

[medialcanthus]

it's crazy how superior english is to most European languages. can convey emotions and meaning much easier.

it's because of domination in media quantity and quality. Languages like Spanish and English are easy because they are seen as easier going and romantic/more attractive. Speaking dutch to a girl and flirting feels like eating bricks. I dated this wasian girl i only spoke english with and the difference was night and day. I strung her along and she literally couldn't let me go

 

[BigBallsLarry]

it's because of domination in media quantity and quality. Languages like Spanish and English are easy because they are seen as easier going and romantic/more attractive. Speaking dutch to a girl and flirting feels like eating bricks. I dated this wasian girl i only spoke english with and the difference was night and day. I strung her along and she literally couldn't let me go

i would kill myself before trying to flirt in polish

i never try being flirty or talk all sexy in my language yet i still have success with girlfriends for some reason

maybe they think the same about it.

 

[medialcanthus]

i would kill myself before trying to flirt in polish

i never try being flirty or talk all sexy in my language yet i still have success with girlfriends for some reason

maybe they think the same about it.

everything just sounds robotic as fuck and barely ever comes out the way you want it to

sucks, but im moving to switzerland soon, ill be ascended and speaking english in college

 

[eon]

I honestly think talking to women online is way way wayyy easier

Me to brah

 

[Linus1888]

Feel like we’re in pretty similar shoes.
Except I’m an LTN.

I’m pretty certain that people would deceive me as NT but when it comes to girls, well I mean in still NT but I can’t get a word out.

And when I do I always get rejected so it dosent even matter, life is so pointless atm

 

[sub3forfemcels]

why not just ask your other friends

i just need to know how long youve been trying for her
HTN too jeez, maybe shes just with someone else but likes you enough that u could be her bf

 

[sub3forfemcels]

never began

she couldve picked a million worse ways

 

[medialcanthus]

Feel like we’re in pretty similar shoes.
Except I’m an LTN.

I’m pretty certain that people would deceive me as NT but when it comes to girls, well I mean in still NT but I can’t get a word out.

And when I do I always get rejected so it dosent even matter, life is so pointless atm

the thing is i really dont feel like trying at all with other girls, just doesnt feel the same

and even though im not super NT ive definitely become less ND as i aged, especially with girls i dont like which is the majority of girls
i was going to give another girl a chance of something serious but i dont know now, if she wants me i dont want mixed signals, other girls are severely outdoing her when it comes to me

if this doesn't work i think i will truly have lost faith, but it is what it is

 

[medialcanthus]

i just need to know how long youve been trying for her
HTN too jeez, maybe shes just with someone else but likes you enough that u could be her bf

The thing is i haven't tried at all since today, so i am probably heavily overthinking this, and if i see her at school things will probably just be the same as they were> I hope im just being too sudden and that i need to give it time.

Because it would be strange for a girl to go to the lengths of getting me a spot at her working place and exchanging IG the first day of trying if i was unattractive to her. We barely even know each other

and maybe she really just is talking to someone (not necessarily publically) and thinks im just an attractive backup plan. It's happened before and the girl i was talking about earlier (who glazed the living hell out of me) did the same shit, i just never actually liked her. It's just now at the start of the new school year that shes on my dick heavily, bc she broke up with her LTN.

 

[sub3forfemcels]

The thing is i haven't tried at all since today, so i am probably heavily overthinking this, and if i see her at school things will probably just be the same as they were> I hope im just being too sudden and that i need to give it time.

Because it would be strange for a girl to go to the lengths of getting me a spot at her working place and exchanging IG the first day of trying if i was unattractive to her. We barely even know each other

and maybe she really just is talking to someone (not necessarily publically) and thinks im just an attractive backup plan. It's happened before and the girl i was talking about earlier (who glazed the living hell out of me) did the same shit, i just never actually liked her. It's just now at the start of the new school year that shes on my dick heavily, bc she broke up with her LTN.

Yeah honestly as I said, sounds like cope but I feel like shes just treating you kindly because she knows you could be her bf but shes already heavily interested in someone else, keep trying

 

[medialcanthus]

Yeah honestly as I said, sounds like cope but I feel like shes just treating you kindly because she knows you could be her bf but shes already heavily interested in, keep trying

well im barely even softmaxed at all yet, so this is far from the end of the line. But it does sting a little, just life i guess

 

[laworg]

little update from last post (HTN BTW)

this is so free i hate myself

bro im literally so NT around everyone i talk to and its not like im afraid to talk to girls or am not NT but with this girl im so ND and high inhib sometimes, i know that if i just put in the least bit of effort i could bag her so easily💔😢 but instead i have eye sex with her in the halls like...

looksmax.org

had school today and theres this day for like a charity where we have to work a job for free or whatever blah blah blah we got all the information
so as i was in the hall i saw her and asked her if she was going. She said she's not and we talked a little further until she actually offered to help me out at getting a job at the gym she works at (she barely shows up though because some weirdo works there jfl). i was about to get her IG but my teacher pulled up

So i waited an hour for her after my classes were done and we talked and exchanged ig. afterwards i DMed her and sent her my info for the man who runs the gym so i can actually permanently work there. From there it kind of got drier and she seemed super different from how she always is at school. I tried to make the convo not dead so i talked about how she lowkey should reconsider not partaking in the charity day since id lowkey be lonely (L bait jfl). She asked me ''why not just ask your other friends''

i know i left her on sent for an hour and she insta responded back but i suck at text messages and i hate that it mightve went a lot better tbh
its not close to over but i dont wanna be a friend, besides i think she cba to respond rn, literally 44 mins delivered rn

IRL is so easy, this is why being super NT matters online, i literally follower and status mog her to oblivion, yet i'm the one so stuck on making it work with this MTB

as well as that while i was waiting for her, some girls i know passed by and literally glazed the living fuck out of me. When they passed i heard one of them say ''i don't know how i picked Victor over him. i mean look at him''. And when they went up the stairs the same girl said '''He's literally Brazilian did you know?? He has a great smile and even a six pack''. yet i deep down couldnt give a single shit about the ego boost.

another thing i was literally shaking because of the wait without noticing it, i looked her straight in the eyes and spoke like i always do yet she noticed and asked me

shes so much harder to get to online
im so fucking empty brahs, please help me

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