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you are likely getting AMOGGED by people all the time and you don't even notice it. ways you are getting disrespected/AMOGGED:
1: males holding eye contact with you(power play)
2: not getting included into group convos(obvious, but some people think they just are shy or have nothing to say, NO ITS BECAUSE UR TOO LOW STATUS)
3:not getting approached/befriended by people talking to you(applies to school situations, for ex. if you are sitting in class and you don't get people trying to befriend you, everybody thinks you are too low status/ugly/boring/shitty to talk to)
4 People you come in regular contact with not initiating and asking you to hangout, not getting invited to events etc. once again they think you aren't good enough.
5: people asking you to get something for them(pen, a weight in the gym, etc)
6 People not respecting your time, aka coming late when you are meeting up with them
7 People with turned away body language from you in group conversations(feet pointing in other direction, not towards you), getting pushed out subtly(etc obvious ut yeah)
8:somebody asking you about shit they could find out themselves(again: their time is more valuable than yours)
9 People laughing at something you do or say that wasnt intended as a joke(laughing AT you)
10 People calling you stupid/dumb/something negative as a joke, its masked as a 'fun joke' but they are trying to make you look bad/impact your subconscious
11people telling you you look tired
12 people telling you you look high
just ask yourself in a social situation, imagine you were this guy:
![[Image: GTY_jason_momoa_sk_140616_16x9_992.jpg]](/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fa.abcnews.com%2Fimages%2FEntertainment%2FGTY_jason_momoa_sk_140616_16x9_992.jpg&hash=6817280178fccaa720e22f9469514c33 "[Image: GTY_jason_momoa_sk_140616_16x9_992.jpg]")
would people say you look tired?
would you get ignored?
would you not be getting invited to social events?
would people listen to what you have to say?
would people call you stupid?
13: people saying your hair is messy(your hair is shit)
14 people telling you you need to get a haircut(your hair is shit and you are too stupid to know you need a haircut)
15 people not believing something you said: e.g. you say you fucked a girl last week. people don't believe you? they are disrespecting you and think you are too shit/ugly/stupid to get laid
16:if you are speaking with 2 other people, and you are standing towards eachother. if their feet are pointed at eachother but not at you they dislike you/dont respect you/dont want to hear what you have to say
17: if somebody invites you somewhere but doesnt follow up. e.g. yo bro you should come to the party ill text you. later: no text = you are not important/lol fuck that guy nvm
18.if you ask a question in class and people are still talking(they would listen if it was jason momoa/ a good looking male asking the question wouldnt they?)
19.if people are forming groups of some kind and you dont get invited into one(sports, assignments, work etc)
20.backhanded compliments. for ex. you are losing your hair and you did a coverup. some guy telling you your hair looks better when you kinda comb it over the thinning parts
21.fake compliment. for ex. you are balding and got a buzz. some guy saying loudly that ' that new hair makes you look much better bro' to draw attention to your shitty balding (when females are near only though) (context)
22. invisible backhand. some guy telling you about those cool parties he went to this week where tons of people from your uni/work/ w/e went to. it looks like its just a story but he is really trying to rub in that you didnt go/get invited
23 ppl talking behind your back(goes without saying) but let it be known people do it WAY MORE than you think
the LEADING CAUSE of getting disrespected by others as a male is because you aren't masculine enough
uglyness isnt a huge problem if you are truly masculine, at least not in a social sense.
things that include not being masculine:
1:manlet
2:babyface/neoten
3:small frame
4:gay traits, voice, hands, high eyebrows etc.
5:bad style
6:being too metrosexual(too much hair styling, fashionable clothes etc)
7:bad reputation ex. for not getting laid
if you are any of these you are guaranteed getting disrespected way more then you think irl, in subtle ways but also overt
its time you become aware on this
1: males holding eye contact with you(power play)
2: not getting included into group convos(obvious, but some people think they just are shy or have nothing to say, NO ITS BECAUSE UR TOO LOW STATUS)
3:not getting approached/befriended by people talking to you(applies to school situations, for ex. if you are sitting in class and you don't get people trying to befriend you, everybody thinks you are too low status/ugly/boring/shitty to talk to)
4 People you come in regular contact with not initiating and asking you to hangout, not getting invited to events etc. once again they think you aren't good enough.
5: people asking you to get something for them(pen, a weight in the gym, etc)
6 People not respecting your time, aka coming late when you are meeting up with them
7 People with turned away body language from you in group conversations(feet pointing in other direction, not towards you), getting pushed out subtly(etc obvious ut yeah)
8:somebody asking you about shit they could find out themselves(again: their time is more valuable than yours)
9 People laughing at something you do or say that wasnt intended as a joke(laughing AT you)
10 People calling you stupid/dumb/something negative as a joke, its masked as a 'fun joke' but they are trying to make you look bad/impact your subconscious
11people telling you you look tired
12 people telling you you look high
just ask yourself in a social situation, imagine you were this guy:
would people say you look tired?
would you get ignored?
would you not be getting invited to social events?
would people listen to what you have to say?
would people call you stupid?
13: people saying your hair is messy(your hair is shit)
14 people telling you you need to get a haircut(your hair is shit and you are too stupid to know you need a haircut)
15 people not believing something you said: e.g. you say you fucked a girl last week. people don't believe you? they are disrespecting you and think you are too shit/ugly/stupid to get laid
16:if you are speaking with 2 other people, and you are standing towards eachother. if their feet are pointed at eachother but not at you they dislike you/dont respect you/dont want to hear what you have to say
17: if somebody invites you somewhere but doesnt follow up. e.g. yo bro you should come to the party ill text you. later: no text = you are not important/lol fuck that guy nvm
18.if you ask a question in class and people are still talking(they would listen if it was jason momoa/ a good looking male asking the question wouldnt they?)
19.if people are forming groups of some kind and you dont get invited into one(sports, assignments, work etc)
20.backhanded compliments. for ex. you are losing your hair and you did a coverup. some guy telling you your hair looks better when you kinda comb it over the thinning parts
21.fake compliment. for ex. you are balding and got a buzz. some guy saying loudly that ' that new hair makes you look much better bro' to draw attention to your shitty balding (when females are near only though) (context)
22. invisible backhand. some guy telling you about those cool parties he went to this week where tons of people from your uni/work/ w/e went to. it looks like its just a story but he is really trying to rub in that you didnt go/get invited
23 ppl talking behind your back(goes without saying) but let it be known people do it WAY MORE than you think
the LEADING CAUSE of getting disrespected by others as a male is because you aren't masculine enough
uglyness isnt a huge problem if you are truly masculine, at least not in a social sense.
things that include not being masculine:
1:manlet
2:babyface/neoten
3:small frame
4:gay traits, voice, hands, high eyebrows etc.
5:bad style
6:being too metrosexual(too much hair styling, fashionable clothes etc)
7:bad reputation ex. for not getting laid
if you are any of these you are guaranteed getting disrespected way more then you think irl, in subtle ways but also overt
its time you become aware on this
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