Wearing suits and other more formal wear at 18: doable?

[bishounen0bladee]

Recently watched Pierrot le Fou and Breathless, and have been obsessed with the way Jean Paul Belmondo dresses in both. My oneitis told me after we left the theatre watching pierrot le fou that its "literally so easy to be attractive as a man. you (as in me, not an ambiguous "you") need to get on accutane, get in the gym, and start wearing suits. I can't tell if my newfound inclination is just in hopes of becoming more attractive to her, or I just actually like the suits, but that's besides the point. Is dressing like picrel too tryhard? especially at 18, will i lower my desirability to women?

 

[bishounen0bladee]

another post into the void... even on .org everybody hates me

 

[Mr.Proper]

Depending on face and frame, may look like a tryhard schoolboy.

 

[bishounen0bladee]

Depending on face and frame, may look like a tryhard schoolboy.

this is me, i have slightly better skin now though, and its getting better every day. frame wise im 180cm, very thin, average, maybe slightly narrow, shoulders.

 

[Mr.Proper]

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this is me, i have slightly better skin now though, and its getting better every day. frame wise im 180cm, very thin, average, maybe slightly narrow, shoulders.

Tbh I think it wouldn't look good on you, not with your age and pheno, at least.

 

[GalacticHero]

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this is me, i have slightly better skin now though, and its getting better every day. frame wise im 180cm, very thin, average, maybe slightly narrow, shoulders.

Lol she hinting you to get on accutane

 

[bishounen0bladee]

Lol she hinting you to get on accutane

i have gotten on it and started going to the gym
suits is the third and final thing i hope she loves me now.

 

[Chinlet Ascension]

No, don't wear suits every day.

If you want to wear suits more often, you could maybe pull it off if you
1) go to more formal places (but not necessarily places where everyone is in a suit or dress), like nicer restaurants, clubs, etc.,
2) dress in a less formal suit/outfit*,
3) it fits your "vibe"--you're not a super bubbly friendly guy, more withdrawn, classy and "mysterious".

* Don't wear a "presidential suit"--the classic 2-button, navy/charcoal suit with a solid tie. It looks too business-like. Try suits in different colors and patterns. Sports jackets with a pair of pants of a different color works as well.

You should probably only be wearing custom-made. Almost everything else is too cookie-cutter.

 

[bishounen0bladee]

No, don't wear suits every day.

If you want to wear suits more often, you could maybe pull it off if you
1) go to more formal places (but not necessarily places where everyone is in a suit or dress), like nicer restaurants, clubs, etc.,
2) dress in a less formal suit/outfit*,
3) it fits your "vibe"--you're not a super bubbly friendly guy, more withdrawn, classy and "mysterious".

* Don't wear a "presidential suit"--the classic 2-button, navy/charcoal suit with a solid tie. It looks too business-like. Try suits in different colors and patterns. Sports jackets with a pair of pants of a different color works as well.

You should probably only be wearing custom-made. Almost everything else is too cookie-cutter.

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i understand your point but this sort of stuff is just not to my personal taste. business like, proletarian, that's what i want... its what im pretty sure she wants as well. thank you for the advice though. the thing about suit going with personality is a very good point.

 

[Chinlet Ascension]

business like, proletarian, that's what i want...

Business like and proletarian are two contradictory things but I assume that is just a language issue.

i understand your point but this sort of stuff is just not to my personal taste.

You should wear a business suit to business, and wear a more casual suit casually. that's what they're for.

 

[bishounen0bladee]

Business like and proletarian are two contradictory things but I assume that is just a language issue.


You should wear a business suit to business, and wear a more casual suit casually. that's what they're for.

yes sorry i thought u meant business like as just "pertaining to work". and of course proletarian here i use for working men. thank you for the advice.