Went to my first Halloween party last night

[BigBoy]

It was pretty fun, but I was too afraid to talk to the hoes I just stayed with my friends the entire time. My Chadpreet friend got approached by a mtb gook and they made out. All in all I need to go to college to experience parties like this man. It was so fun. I’ll slay hot girls in college after I’m done looksmaxxing. First party I’ve been to that wasn’t pregaming and going to a club or something.

 

[htbslayeer]

You won’t slay shit “after I’m done looksmaxxing” damn over for you

 

[Luca_.]

Next year you’ll be the chadpreet friend

 

[CheifCessation]

Should’ve atleast went for one.

Good that you didn’t though (The last place I’d try to get a gf is at a Halloween party)

 

[BigBoy]

You won’t slay shit “after I’m done looksmaxxing” damn over for you

Stfu bitchass nigga

Next year you’ll be the chadpreet friend

*chang

Should’ve atleast went for one.

Good that you didn’t though (The last place I’d try to get a gf is at a Halloween party)

I shoulda tbh they were tryna make me go for one. One of my friends gfs even tried to wingman for me but I was too scared

 

[CheifCessation]

Stfu bitchass nigga

*chang

I shoulda tbh they were tryna make me go for one. One of my friends gfs even tried to wingman for me but I was too scared

Next time go for one.

Before long you’ll look back and regret it.

Worst case you get turned down and never see her again

 

[BigBoy]

Next time go for one.

Before long you’ll look back and regret it.

Worst case you get turned down and never see her again

Good advice man

 

[4ever]

Go to college bro. Legit 1-2 years of basic self improvement and looksmaxing stuff are more than enough to have a good experience at a party.

 

[BigBoy]

Go to college bro. Legit 1-2 years of basic self improvement and looksmaxing stuff are more than enough to have a good experience at a party.

Yea bro I’m going very soon.

 

[Looks over NT]

No slays at a party. Absolutely brutal

 

[BigBoy]

No slays at a party. Absolutely brutal

At man, it’s a good first step. I usually just rot at home.

 

[Looks over NT]

At man, it’s a good first step. I usually just rot at home.

What else is there to do there tho

 

[BigBoy]

What else is there to do there tho

Go out have fun, things normies do. Over for us incels.

 

[Alexanderr]

We guys really look at women like deities or something, makes no sense that we (as a collective) seem to afraid to approach them even if its just to talk. I've got 3 sisters, the thought some guys would be genuinely too afraid to walk up to them is cage worthy.

 

[DBDR]

We guys really look at women like deities or something, makes no sense that we (as a collective) seem to afraid to approach them even if its just to talk. I've got 3 sisters, the thought some guys would be genuinely too afraid to walk up to them is cage worthy.

I'm not afraid of hoes nigga.

 

[BigBoy]

We guys really look at women like deities or something, makes no sense that we (as a collective) seem to afraid to approach them even if its just to talk. I've got 3 sisters, the thought some guys would be genuinely too afraid to walk up to them is cage worthy.

Jfl do you have the same problem where you’re too afraid to approach girls? I would think since you have so many sisters you’re used to talking to girls and wouldn’t have this issue.

I'm not afraid of hoes nigga.

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i am nigga

 

[Alexanderr]

Jfl do you have the same problem where you’re too afraid to approach girls? I would think since you have so many sisters you’re used to talking to girls and wouldn’t have this issue.

I don't really (anymore). Just hours earlier today I was talking with some cute coworker at Museum I volunteer at. No problem holding conversation or even joking together.

My problem isn't really iniating contact, it's iniating contact with intention to escalate. So actually making the first move towards her hand or something, or a joke with some sexual innuendo. So, in that sense, we're all the same. You're afraid of the risk of approaching, I'm afraid of the risk of escalating.

Also, having sisters doesn't help, really. The way you look at other women is entirely different than the way you look at your sisters. Consciously you know they're the same gender, but subconsciously they might as well be guys.

 

[BigBoy]

I don't really (anymore). Just hours earlier today I was talking with some cute coworker at Museum I volunteer at. No problem holding conversation or even joking together.

My problem isn't really iniating contact, it's iniating contact with intention to escalate. So actually making the first move towards her hand or something, or a joke with some sexual innuendo. So, in that sense, we're all the same. You're afraid of the risk of approaching, I'm afraid of the risk of escalating.

Also, having sisters doesn't help, really. The way you look at other women is entirely different than the way you look at your sisters. Consciously you know they're the same gender, but subconsciously they might as well be guys.

Ig but most guys ik with sisters seem to have less issues in at least being able to talk to women. Whether it be starting a conversation or continuing it.

 

[Looks over NT]

Go out have fun, things normies do. Over for us incels.

Talking and dancing at parties doesnt interest me

 

[Alexanderr]

Ig but most guys ik with sisters seem to have less issues in at least being able to talk to women. Whether it be starting a conversation or continuing it.

Maybe, I don't know mate to be honest. I don't go to parties much, because I don't drink. Mostly a matter of principle, I value my health and alcohol is terrible for it. More than that, just feels kinda pathetic to need to inundate yourself to be able to actually make a move.

But here's my piece of advice, I don't know much, so take what I say with a grain of salt. Seems to me you've got approach anxiety, could be for various reasons, but whatever it is, you won't think your way to a solution. Best way to change your behavior is through action.

It's a gradient. Start small, maybe next time you're in public (or at a party) try asking someone for the time, or try striking up small-talk with a cashier next time you go shopping. Slowly but surely you'll come to realize the actual interaction isn't the difficult part - the hard part is making up your mind to just do it.

But here's the beautiful thing: every single time you do it, you literally rewire your brain. Neurologically speaking, you're strengthening the neural pathways that make approaching people feel more natural. If your failure point is initiating contact, then focus on that, but start small. It all counts.

Now I've gotta take my own advice, the only way to become natural at escalation, is to just do it. So I'll probably try starting with more risque jokes or casual touches (maybe hands sliding past each other) next time I'm in conversation with someone I can see myself ending up with. It's the only way we make it out the hole, son. It's the only way.

 

[BigBoy]

Maybe, I don't know mate to be honest. I don't go to parties much, because I don't drink. Mostly a matter of principle, I value my health and alcohol is terrible for it. More than that, just feels kinda pathetic to need to inundate yourself to be able to actually make a move.

But here's my piece of advice, I don't know much, so take what I say with a grain of salt. Seems to me you've got approach anxiety, could be for various reasons, but whatever it is, you won't think your way to a solution. Best way to change your behavior is through action.

It's a gradient. Start small, maybe next time you're in public (or at a party) try asking someone for the time, or try striking up small-talk with a cashier next time you go shopping. Slowly but surely you'll come to realize the actual interaction isn't the difficult part - the hard part is making up your mind to just do it.

But here's the beautiful thing: every single time you do it, you literally rewire your brain. Neurologically speaking, you're strengthening the neural pathways that make approaching people feel more natural. If your failure point is initiating contact, then focus on that, but start small. It all counts.

Now I've gotta take my own advice, the only way to become natural at escalation, is to just do it. So I'll probably try starting with more risque jokes or casual touches (maybe hands sliding past each other) next time I'm in conversation with someone I can see myself ending up with. It's the only way we make it out the hole, son. It's the only way.

Thanks for the advice man, I’ll definitely try this out to fight my approach anxiety.

 

[asdvek]

(The last place I’d try to get a gf is at a Halloween party

Yeah I mean get a gf at a Halloween party tho

Just for a Fleshlight to fuck daily

Like no love just pussy