What can I do about premature ejaculation and how to act about it?

[kantero]

Hi guys, no jokes and trolling please.

So I suffer from premature ejaculation.
I can't pound my gf hard and it's embarrassing for me when she asks me "can you please make it harder for a bit at least". And it's when she is on top. I didn't cum 2 days and I can only make it for maybe 2minutes nonstop or 5 with breaks when she's on top, other poses are instant ejaculation.

1) How should I act about it? Should I be honest that it bothers me (I did it before) or should I just make it as a joke, not give too much attention to it?
2) What can I do with it? Should I fap more often without porn/fap when I want? Should I try to manage anxiousness somehow? Working out before didn't help.
3) How can I be more dominant in bed and outside despite it?
4) Is it turn off, or it's more like something you should achieve but ltr won't dump you or direspect because of it?

I really wanna enjoy penetration more and feel my self more confident, oral is good but it's about role-play, dominance too.

Thank you for your attention.

 

[Deleted member 9989]

Same.

it’s a subhuman genetic trait.

When it’s over, it’s over

 

[Deleted member 9699]

mogs me hard i got ED at 18

 

[lasthope]

Man I really feel you

with my last and only ltr I ejaculatet in 2 mins max
Doggy 10 sec

i just can’t get the feeling away that she left me for that lol
I mean sure oral helps but it’s not the same

edit: thats the biggest black pill for me even when you looksmax and get girls they will leave you since you can’t fuck probably
Can’t cope with this

 

[kantero]

Man I really feel you

with my last and only ltr I ejaculatet in 2 mins max
Doggy 10 sec

i just can’t get the feeling away that she left me for that lol
I mean sure oral helps but it’s not the same

edit: thats the biggest black pill for me even when you looksmax and get girls they will leave you since you can’t fuck probably
Can’t cope with this

Why do you think she left you because of this, I mean maybe it's just insecurity (no blue pill), but it's still a problem yeah.
Did you try anything? Exercises, medication? Are you anxious? Tensed muscles dunno?

I lasted longer when I drink a bit and maybe I masturbated day before too.

You can pm me about your situation.

 

[Deleted member 9989]

with my last and only ltr I ejaculatet in 2 mins max
Doggy 10 sec

i just can’t get the feeling away that she left me for that lol
I mean sure oral helps but it’s not the same

edit: thats the biggest black pill for me even when you looksmax and get girls they will leave you since you can’t fuck probably
Can’t cope with this

Man I really feel you

with my last and only ltr I ejaculatet in 2 mins max
Doggy 10 sec

i just can’t get the feeling away that she left me for that lol
I mean sure oral helps but it’s not the same

edit: thats the biggest black pill for me even when you looksmax and get girls they will leave you since you can’t fuck probably
Can’t cope with this

Yes it’s over

We are damned.

only alcohol and ISRS can works

 

[lasthope]

Why do you think she left you because of this, I mean maybe it's just insecurity (no blue pill), but it's still a problem yeah.
Did you try anything? Exercises, medication? Are you anxious? Tensed muscles dunno?

I lasted longer when I drink a bit and maybe I masturbated day before too.

You can pm me about your situation.

What helped is to fap a lot and be still on cialis so that hardness will not suffer

with my next sex partner if it’s still don’t work I will pop dapoxetine and maybe try numbing spray+cialis

my last gf bluepilled me that it’s not a problem for her but somehow I still think she was unsatisfied

 

[Need2Ascend]

Maybe you have phimosis or frenulum breve, it makes you cum much faster

 

[kantero]

What helped is to fap a lot and be still on cialis so that hardness will not suffer

with my next sex partner if it’s still don’t work I will pop dapoxetine and maybe try numbing spray+cialis

my last gf bluepilled me that it’s not a problem for her but somehow I still think she was unsatisfied

I read that masturbating a lot of years could be harmful because you wire yourself to want result (ejaculation) and quick. It's debatable considering everyone is probably masturbating and cum quick but still.

Yeah, my gf said it's ok like I shouldn't be anxious about it, but also told me that she liked when it was longer and asks me to be harder.

 

[kantero]

Maybe you have phimosis or frenulum breve, it makes you cum much faster

Oh shit, my frenulum is actually pretty strained. And I cum not from blowjob but from penetration so it might be physical. How can I check for sure?

 

[Need2Ascend]

Oh shit, my frenulum is actually pretty strained. And I cum not from blowjob but from penetration so it might be physical. How can I check for sure?

Does your foreskin retract smoothly? If not you have to stretch it

 

[Deleted member 12344]

bro nothing can help so much tbh

 

[Deleted member 12002]

mogs me hard i got ED at 18

Either too much porn, too anxious, or you're a fat diabetic.

All of it's manageable if you're only 18.

 

[lasthope]

Maybe you have phimosis or frenulum breve, it makes you cum much faster

Wait I have a slight phimosis

maybe I should stretch it too

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Hi guys, no jokes and trolling please.

So I suffer from premature ejaculation.
I can't pound my gf hard and it's embarrassing for me when she asks me "can you please make it harder for a bit at least". And it's when she is on top. I didn't cum 2 days and I can only make it for maybe 2minutes nonstop or 5 with breaks when she's on top, other poses are instant ejaculation.

1) How should I act about it? Should I be honest that it bothers me (I did it before) or should I just make it as a joke, not give too much attention to it?
2) What can I do with it? Should I fap more often without porn/fap when I want? Should I try to manage anxiousness somehow? Working out before didn't help.
3) How can I be more dominant in bed and outside despite it?
4) Is it turn off, or it's more like something you should achieve but ltr won't dump you or direspect because of it?

I really wanna enjoy penetration more and feel my self more confident, oral is good but it's about role-play, dominance too.

Thank you for your attention.

She might leave you for it, and she might not. Different strokes for different folks.

You just probably gotta get more practice in. Don't let upset you, and don't apologize for it. Don't act ashamed and make excuses either. If she's gonna leave you for it being ashamed about it will only quicken her resolve.

 

[Germania]

just fap a few hours before and you can bang the whole night

 

[Deleted member 9699]

Either too much porn, too anxious, or you're a fat diabetic.

All of it's manageable if you're only 18.

I'm a coomer
After my gf left me I've been coping hard with porn JFL

 

[kantero]

She might leave you for it, and she might not. Different strokes for different folks.

You just probably gotta get more practice in. Don't let upset you, and don't apologize for it. Don't act ashamed and make excuses either. If she's gonna leave you for it being ashamed about it will only quicken her resolve.

You're right, problems should be solved but if someone dumps you for it than its for good.

just fap a few hours before and you can bang the whole night

I lose some satisfaction and sometimes can't get as hard.

Does your foreskin retract smoothly? If not you have to stretch it

I had surgery for phimosis in childhood so I guess it's not it. I can't understand about retract, I guess it's ok but maybe I have short frenulum dunno.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I lose some satisfaction and sometimes can't get as hard.

That sucks. Looks like you're stuck between a rock and a soft place, lol.

Don't worry. You'll be alright as time goes on, whatever happens.

 

[NormieKilla]

When you fap (ideally without using porn), learn how to control yourself. Relax and breath deeply. Don't put the focus on ejaculation but rather on how to manage the sexual tension. In the long run, this habit will significantly send signals to your brain and you'll be able to have sex normally.

 

[kantero]

When you fap (ideally without using porn), learn how to control yourself. Relax and breath deeply. Don't put the focus on ejaculation but rather on how to manage the sexual tension. In the long run, this habit will significantly send signals to your brain and you'll be able to have sex normally.

Should I fap this way when I don't want to fap though?

 

[Dainslief]

Too tight pelvic muscles, stretch your pelvic muscles.