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Being unattractive as a man means nature has chosen you to be the loser and this sentence will remain for as long as you live. You only live once and you will not experience the joys in life which attractive boys do, especially when it comes to social development with both genders, romantic and sexual development with girls and cognitive development as a result of life experiences with girls. Girls will not have any social or sexual interest in you. That means there will be no joyful experiences and romantic development with girls. You will not learn how to connect with girls, how to conmunicate with girls, how to feel what girls want from you and how to be a good romantic and sexual partner to girls. You will not experience the blessings of a girls touch, kiss and sexual attention she can give. There will be no intimacy and no joy in sexual pleasures, and therefore no development in how to please women sexually. You will not experience looks of desire in girls' eyes and the immense positive things it does with your ego and self esteem. Therefore there will be an immense gap in all the health benefits that romance and especially sex gives for both your mind and body. Sex has untold benefits for your self esteem, especially when you as a man can give girls orgasms; the ultimate conformation that you are sexually desirable to a (multitude of) woman. Sex is good for your ego and gives you feelings of joy and an incentive to live; knowing you will have sex again with girls gives a good feeling and boosts your confidence. You are attractive to girls and being chosen by girls for sex is a very special and beautiful experience in your only life and most of us can relate to this in being truthful.
Unattractive men suffer deeply because they will not experience these wonderful things, these wonderful experiences with girls. A rotten miserable depression is a very common and likely consequence of the realisation that not a single girl will want you for sex and romance, something that they will give to attractive and sexy boys. Jealousy will be a big thing in your life, with again more psychological and emotional pain giving severe depressions as a consequence. No kissing, no hugging, no holding hands, no looking each other in the eye with desire, no stroking, no teasing, no foreplay, no sex, no afterglow after sex, no falling asleep together and no living together. Instead, there will be just you alone every day desiring these wonderful things, day after day, year after year. And as a bonus, commonly the mean and unpleasant treatment from your attractive pears around you. It is not in principal that you as an unattractive boy/man will always recieve negative and degrading treatment, most often you will just simply be ignored as a ghost. This is because nobody wants to hang out, socialise or be friends with a facially and physically unattractive individual. People want to hang out with attractive individuals, it is part of climbing the social ladder and getting higher up in the dominance pyramid hierarchy. Being attractive gives you significantly more chances to get in touch with other attractive people. Being unattractive makes people walk away from you; you are not a priority and there is no benefit hanging out with such an individual. I remember going in discos and bars in summer holiday resorts only seeing attractive young people being happy and having a good time. Rarely unattractive boys, and when they were present, boy did they pay……The social treatment you get is totally different and downright discriminate as opposed to what attractive people get. And sexual treatment? None whatsoever for the ugly guys. Not a talk nor a single kiss. Kissing too is very different for unattractive men.
One of my neighbours, in his 50′s, never kissed a girl once in in his life, compared to a facially attractive friend of mine who kissed hundreds of girls over the years, not to mention the mountain of women who asked him to go home with them afterwards. Being unattractive will basically prevent you from living and experiencing the joys that romance and sex will give to your mind, soul and body. And for a man, this is painful. So painful that suicides because of this are common and becoming more and more common and prevalent. I too had much difficulty in my teenage years which changed when i got older, for which i am very grateful. During my teenage years in highschool it was very often the case that the ugly boys were rediculed, mocked and emotionally teased by the sexually attractive boys and girls which had better physiques and stronger bodies.
One of my horrible experiences was that i fell in love with a girl and when she found out about this, she deliberately stood in front of me and passionately kissing her boyfriend and touching his crotch whilst they both looked at me at the same time making sure i felt horribly miserable. He said “you will never have this with your ugly face” and she smiled in a very mean way keeping her eyes halfway closed. This is just one example of how ugly guys are reminded of their uglyness and also rubbed in their brain what their quality is as a human being. But things like this happened to other boys too, and worse, like being being beaten up, punched, kicked and emotionally tortured with very mean remarks and comments about their looks.
For me things changed in my 20′s when i started working out a lot and adopting a healthy lifestyle. It helps if you are average or under average. Keep working on yourself. I am not saying it will give you a guarantee to girls and sex, but at least it will bring you to a better version of yourself. I am not a hot guy, but apparantly good enough for romance and sex for which i am very grateful and made me a much happier and confident individual. These things do make life worth living and it is understandable that not having these things, because of your looks, destroys your hopes and dreams for a happy desired life. I predict that prostitution will become an even more booming business in future society with the amount of lonely emotionally broken (young) men rising in the way it does. Todays society is for the biggest part about status, looks and money and the joys in life that these things bring; more status, sexual experience, development and validation, and ascendance in society.
Science has proven over and over again that looks matter most in the game of love and sex, because attractiveness equals health and ugliness equals unhealth. I notice that slowly there is more open meanstream discussion about being unattractive, sexlessness and loneliness and the negative consequences in brings for an individuals life. But sadly, there is no solution for this, apart from prostitution. Life is unfair and attractiveness is very unfairly distributed. Life is brutal, that is just the way it is. And most of the joys of life do go to the attractive portion of people, especially romance, sex and all the healthbenefits that come with these things. Appearance matters. And for good reasons. Always was and always will. Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. Beauty has a pattern and the more a face diverges from this pattern, the more unattractive it is. With horrible consequences. Better to have had sexual success and lost it as you get olde, than never having had it at all.
Unattractive men suffer deeply because they will not experience these wonderful things, these wonderful experiences with girls. A rotten miserable depression is a very common and likely consequence of the realisation that not a single girl will want you for sex and romance, something that they will give to attractive and sexy boys. Jealousy will be a big thing in your life, with again more psychological and emotional pain giving severe depressions as a consequence. No kissing, no hugging, no holding hands, no looking each other in the eye with desire, no stroking, no teasing, no foreplay, no sex, no afterglow after sex, no falling asleep together and no living together. Instead, there will be just you alone every day desiring these wonderful things, day after day, year after year. And as a bonus, commonly the mean and unpleasant treatment from your attractive pears around you. It is not in principal that you as an unattractive boy/man will always recieve negative and degrading treatment, most often you will just simply be ignored as a ghost. This is because nobody wants to hang out, socialise or be friends with a facially and physically unattractive individual. People want to hang out with attractive individuals, it is part of climbing the social ladder and getting higher up in the dominance pyramid hierarchy. Being attractive gives you significantly more chances to get in touch with other attractive people. Being unattractive makes people walk away from you; you are not a priority and there is no benefit hanging out with such an individual. I remember going in discos and bars in summer holiday resorts only seeing attractive young people being happy and having a good time. Rarely unattractive boys, and when they were present, boy did they pay……The social treatment you get is totally different and downright discriminate as opposed to what attractive people get. And sexual treatment? None whatsoever for the ugly guys. Not a talk nor a single kiss. Kissing too is very different for unattractive men.
One of my neighbours, in his 50′s, never kissed a girl once in in his life, compared to a facially attractive friend of mine who kissed hundreds of girls over the years, not to mention the mountain of women who asked him to go home with them afterwards. Being unattractive will basically prevent you from living and experiencing the joys that romance and sex will give to your mind, soul and body. And for a man, this is painful. So painful that suicides because of this are common and becoming more and more common and prevalent. I too had much difficulty in my teenage years which changed when i got older, for which i am very grateful. During my teenage years in highschool it was very often the case that the ugly boys were rediculed, mocked and emotionally teased by the sexually attractive boys and girls which had better physiques and stronger bodies.
One of my horrible experiences was that i fell in love with a girl and when she found out about this, she deliberately stood in front of me and passionately kissing her boyfriend and touching his crotch whilst they both looked at me at the same time making sure i felt horribly miserable. He said “you will never have this with your ugly face” and she smiled in a very mean way keeping her eyes halfway closed. This is just one example of how ugly guys are reminded of their uglyness and also rubbed in their brain what their quality is as a human being. But things like this happened to other boys too, and worse, like being being beaten up, punched, kicked and emotionally tortured with very mean remarks and comments about their looks.
For me things changed in my 20′s when i started working out a lot and adopting a healthy lifestyle. It helps if you are average or under average. Keep working on yourself. I am not saying it will give you a guarantee to girls and sex, but at least it will bring you to a better version of yourself. I am not a hot guy, but apparantly good enough for romance and sex for which i am very grateful and made me a much happier and confident individual. These things do make life worth living and it is understandable that not having these things, because of your looks, destroys your hopes and dreams for a happy desired life. I predict that prostitution will become an even more booming business in future society with the amount of lonely emotionally broken (young) men rising in the way it does. Todays society is for the biggest part about status, looks and money and the joys in life that these things bring; more status, sexual experience, development and validation, and ascendance in society.
Science has proven over and over again that looks matter most in the game of love and sex, because attractiveness equals health and ugliness equals unhealth. I notice that slowly there is more open meanstream discussion about being unattractive, sexlessness and loneliness and the negative consequences in brings for an individuals life. But sadly, there is no solution for this, apart from prostitution. Life is unfair and attractiveness is very unfairly distributed. Life is brutal, that is just the way it is. And most of the joys of life do go to the attractive portion of people, especially romance, sex and all the healthbenefits that come with these things. Appearance matters. And for good reasons. Always was and always will. Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. Beauty has a pattern and the more a face diverges from this pattern, the more unattractive it is. With horrible consequences. Better to have had sexual success and lost it as you get olde, than never having had it at all.
