What does it really take to keep a foid long term?

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Other than maxing out your looks?

I've been going through reddit posts about foids who "left their boyfriend even though he's done nothing wrong" and I can't quite figure it out.

What is it that makes a foid stay with your ass other than looks?

 

[Adriana Lima]

why even try?

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

why even try?

because trying to slay forever is retarded

 

[Adriana Lima]

because trying to slay forever is retarded

well you can get married after the slaying period but then its till 50% of fail
best odds are becoming Mormon ngl

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

well you can get married after the slaying period but then its till 50% of fail
best odds are becoming Mormon ngl

that's why I made this thread

 

[Adriana Lima]

that's why I made this thread

brb mormonmaxxing

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

brb mormonmaxxing

that would be a larp though

there needs to be a more universal approach

if you get cucked in a ltr/marriage at 40+ it's over for your ass

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Unironically money and personality

 

[Bitch]

Having kids together and money

 

[Adriana Lima]

that would be a larp though

there needs to be a more universal approach

if you get cucked in a ltr/marriage at 40+ it's over for your ass

Yeah so what? most ppl just accept it at that point

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Having kids together and money

then why not reduce the chance of it happening

 

[Adriana Lima]

I hear chaining her down in the basement keeps her around

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

seems like people aren't really thinking all that far ahead even on .org

I guess I'm just doing it because I've been a basement rotter for a while now

 

[Deleted member 5185]

Other than maxing out your looks?

I've been going through reddit posts about foids who "left their boyfriend even though he's done nothing wrong" and I can't quite figure it out.

What is it that makes a foid stay with your ass other than looks?

Be above her SMV at all times. This is the golden rule.

To make this happen, the most important thing is being more attractive than her from a purely physical standpoint. This can be bypassed through social status or monetary wealth, however. Also, through manipulation tactics, you can make her excited and make her believe your SMV is higher than it is. Most guys fuck themselves over by being boring and acting like a cuck, slowly making her believe she can do better.

Just a shortlist of things you need to do:

- Stand your ground, tell her to shut up if she is ever rude to you etc.
- Fuck her hard and rough
- Make her insecure (make her think you might be cheating on her)
- Constantly looksmax
- While doing all this, you also have to be mostly friendly and loving. You just sprinkle her with the manipulation shit

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Be above her SMV at all times. This is the golden rule.

To make this happen, the most important thing is being more attractive than her from a purely physical standpoint. This can be bypassed through social status or monetary wealth, however. Also, through manipulation tactics, you can make her excited and make her believe your SMV is higher than it is. Most guys fuck themselves over by being boring and acting like a cuck, slowly making her believe she can do better.

Just a shortlist of things you need to do:

- Stand your ground, tell her to shut up if she is ever rude to you etc.
- Fuck her hard and rough
- Make her insecure (make her think you might be cheating on her)
- Constantly looksmax
- While doing all this, you also have to be mostly friendly and loving. You just sprinkle her with the manipulation shit

I thought about writing up a rough guide and this would pretty much be it.

Although I disagree with bypassing it with monetary wealth at least. That's a cope. She can still divorcerape you or just cuck you on an psychological level while still being with you on a physical level.

What I would add is always being on some sort of mission and thus not being relationship focused. Being relationship focused is inherently feminine and beta and dries up pussy. So even if you are relationship focused, make it look like you're not.

 

[Deleted member 5185]

I thought about writing up a rough guide and this would pretty much be it.

Although I disagree with bypassing it with monetary wealth at least. That's a cope. She can still divorcerape you or just cuck you on an psychological level while still being with you on a physical level.

What I would add is always being on some sort of mission and thus not being relationship focused. Being relationship focused is inherently feminine and beta and dries up pussy. So even if you are relationship focused, make it look like you're not.

If one only relies on money, I agree - thats a cope. You're gonna get cheated on and divorce raped.

I'm more thinking, imagine two people who are in the ballpark of each others SMV, then you bring money into the equation for the guy. Thats an extremely powerful attractor, and automatically increases status.

I think being "on a mission" i.e., being ambitious is important. This is especially important if your position in life (i.e overall status) isn't very high. For instance, lets say you have someone who is a self made billionare - a woman probably won't require him to be constantly on some sort of mission. However, if you're a broke college student, there's a huge difference between staying a broke college student, and getting an education and going into a lucrative career.

Further, being "relationship focused" inherently puts you below her - to always be above her means you borderline don't care about the relationship, she needs to believe that if she broke up with you, you literally wouldn't care - you would just go on to fuck women hotter than her. If she thinks you'll cry and sit home jacking off, she'll break up with you in a heartbeat - she doesn't respect you.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

If one only relies on money, I agree - thats a cope. You're gonna get cheated on and divorce raped.

I'm more thinking, imagine two people who are in the ballpark of each others SMV, then you bring money into the equation for the guy. Thats an extremely powerful attractor, and automatically increases status.

I think being "on a mission" i.e., being ambitious is important. This is especially important if your position in life (i.e overall status) isn't very high. For instance, lets say you have someone who is a self made billionare - a woman probably won't require him to be constantly on some sort of mission. However, if you're a broke college student, there's a huge difference between staying a broke college student, and getting an education and going into a lucrative career.

Further, being "relationship focused" inherently puts you below her - to always be above her means you borderline don't care about the relationship, she needs to believe that if she broke up with you, you literally wouldn't care - you would just go on to fuck women hotter than her. If she thinks you'll cry and sit home jacking off, she'll break up with you in a heartbeat - she doesn't respect you.

yep

this world is brutal

btw by being on a mission I don't just mean acquiring wealth (although that often goes along with it), could be other things too

 

[Cali Yuga]

you cant

you have no control or leverage over her if shes not retarded

 

[Bewusst]

a basement, some duct tape and chains

 

[Deleted member 5185]

you cant

you have no control or leverage over her if shes not retarded

Just as a thought experiment:

Imagine a fat, disgusting but otherwise standup woman - she gets into an LTR with Chico. Do you think Chico has leverage or control over her?

@ifyouwannabemylover

Yeah I think obviously the biggest mission will generally be career wise - I think depending on your age it becomes more important. For instance, just having a hobby you're focused on will probably be enough early to mid 20s, but when you start approaching your 30s, girls won't be apprieciative of your BJJ or gaming passion anymore jfl

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

you cant

you have no control or leverage over her if shes not retarded

cope

 

[Gonthar]

You have to keep her entertained at all time, so she doesn't have time to get bored. Back when I was in college, I had a girlfriend and we were part of this group of students and we had a lot of fun together going to parties, events, concerts, trips, etc....Every day was like an adventure.
Then college ended, everyone returned from where they came, and suddenly it was just me and my gf, but no more parties, trips, no more fun, things got boring pretty fast and I had no idea what to do and how to get a new group of people to do fun things together. She dumped me after several months...

 

[Enfant terrible]

this might be blue pill take but physical attraction wheres off after awhile.
You need to find someone who is basically your friend
with whom you share the same interest and can do stuff with.
If you only rely one smv it will fail.

 

[Deleted member 5185]

this might be blue pill take but physical attraction wheres off after awhile.
You need to find someone who is basically your friend
with whom you share the same interest and can do stuff with.
If you only rely one smv it will fail.

Honestly high IQ af

I mean, SMV is definitely important - but I totally agree - you can't just rely on SMV or manipulation long term. You need to actually have some meaningful connection.

 

[john2]

JFL at the copers ITT... 'entertain her...have a personality'. When will you cucks realize that foids want a large penis? Make sure you're at least 8 inches long and your dick is the biggest she has ever taken in her life. Make her squirt and orgasm like no other man can ever do.