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I stopped talking to my oneitis for a while and stopped going to partys she was at for about 3 weeks until I saw her yesterday at a party

I didn’t go out my way to find her but she came and said hi to me I said hi hugged her and didn’t stick around for a conversation

Another girl was all over me at the party sitting on my lap, dancing, flirting all that, I get up and go upstairs the host of the party is telling everyone to go back down, my oneitis jokingly says she needs help going down stairs and her freind starts to help her but then I go up and ask if she needs help she says yes and she puts her arm around me and is leaning on me to bring her down stairs and then she says this isn’t gonna work and she’s gonna fall and I say I’ll just pick you up

I pick her up like take her feet off the ground in a cradle type of position and then I take her down stairs

We get down stairs and I ask where she wants to go and she says she needs to find her friend I carry her around the party we can’t find her friend and then I suggest I set her on the couch and we just talk so we talk for a little bit and one of her friends tell us that me and my oneitis we’re on her Christmas list and I agree and then the rest of the party she doesn’t act interested in me.
She tried to drunk drive home that night and I told her it want a good idea and helped her get home and figure out her situation etc

In the morning she texts me thanks for not letting me drunk drive last night
I say of course
And then I say since I carried you downstairs and basically saved your life do I get to take you out now

She says
I meannnnn ur right
And insay
Is that a yes
And then a couple hours go buy and she says u tell me
And then I say
It sounds like a yes to me
I will pick you up tomorrow
And then she just sends me a snap of her smiling
And I left her on opened
What do I do now
 
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too much to read
 
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TL;DR?
 
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too much to read
Lowkey need full story for advice but
Me and oneitis are very flirty and touchy night before
She texts me in the morning
I ask to take her out
She doesn’t give me a yes or a no
I ask is that a yes? ( to her confusing message that is hinting yes)
She says idk you tell me
I say I take it as a yes I will pick you up tomorrow
And she just snaps me smiling doesn’t say okay or anything.
 
Lowkey need full story for advice but
Me and oneitis are very flirty and touchy night before
She texts me in the morning
I ask to take her out
She doesn’t give me a yes or a no
I ask is that a yes? ( to her confusing message that is hinting yes)
She says idk you tell me
I say I take it as a yes I will pick you up tomorrow
And she just snaps me smiling doesn’t say okay or anything.
Is she perhaps mentally retarded
 
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Sigh
 
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I stopped talking to my oneitis for a while and stopped going to partys she was at for about 3 weeks until I saw her yesterday at a party

I didn’t go out my way to find her but she came and said hi to me I said hi hugged her and didn’t stick around for a conversation

Another girl was all over me at the party sitting on my lap, dancing, flirting all that, I get up and go upstairs the host of the party is telling everyone to go back down, my oneitis jokingly says she needs help going down stairs and her freind starts to help her but then I go up and ask if she needs help she says yes and she puts her arm around me and is leaning on me to bring her down stairs and then she says this isn’t gonna work and she’s gonna fall and I say I’ll just pick you up

I pick her up like take her feet off the ground in a cradle type of position and then I take her down stairs

We get down stairs and I ask where she wants to go and she says she needs to find her friend I carry her around the party we can’t find her friend and then I suggest I set her on the couch and we just talk so we talk for a little bit and one of her friends tell us that me and my oneitis we’re on her Christmas list and I agree and then the rest of the party she doesn’t act interested in me.
She tried to drunk drive home that night and I told her it want a good idea and helped her get home and figure out her situation etc

In the morning she texts me thanks for not letting me drunk drive last night
I say of course
And then I say since I carried you downstairs and basically saved your life do I get to take you out now

She says
I meannnnn ur right
And insay
Is that a yes
And then a couple hours go buy and she says u tell me
And then I say
It sounds like a yes to me
I will pick you up tomorrow
And then she just sends me a snap of her smiling
And I left her on opened
What do I do now
Just shoot your shot nga
 
Go for it but if she starts either pulling away or shit testing then id say be neutral or pullback aswell
 
Lowkey need full story for advice but
Me and oneitis are very flirty and touchy night before
She texts me in the morning
I ask to take her out
She doesn’t give me a yes or a no
I ask is that a yes? ( to her confusing message that is hinting yes)
She says idk you tell me
I say I take it as a yes I will pick you up tomorrow
And she just snaps me smiling doesn’t say okay or anything.
Still too much to read
 

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