What I don't understand about getting cheated on

[Lonenely sigma]

Like, if you get cucked by another dude, and you start screaming at your cheating wife, don't you imply you want her?

Imo, if that happened to me, I'd insult her quickly, keep calm, tell her to fuck off and never talk to me again.

I'd have a problem with the dude instead. He came there and implied he is superior to you. That'd lowkey make me more mad.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Like, all those videos of a guy screaming:

"HOW COULD YOUU??? I LOVED YOU SOO MUCHH??!!"

...seem so cucked to me. Bro, you are literally indirectly simping for her AFTER getting cucked.

 

[vanillaicecream]

You cant avoid being cheated on dude it's just human nature to want to try new meat, so you just have to accept it and embrace it. Ideally you want to watch your gf or wife being fucked too.

 

[Suns9999]

You cant avoid being cheated on dude it's just human nature to want to try new meat, so you just have to accept it and embrace it. Ideally you want to watch your gf or wife being fucked too.

**ideally** ???? do we actively encourage people to be cucks here

 

[Lonenely sigma]

You cant avoid being cheated on dude it's just human nature to want to try new meat, so you just have to accept it and embrace it. Ideally you want to watch your gf or wife being fucked too.

I mean this is satire but like, if you are sub7 dating a looksmatch you are GONNA GET CUCKED eventually. Sub8 theory is legit in this sense

**ideally** ???? do we actively encourage people to be cucks here

He was joking dude. Over for your autism

 

[vanillaicecream]

**ideally** ???? do we actively encourage people to be cucks here

I mean just to stand guard and protect her, you don't want the guy to do anything inappropriate or excessive to her

 

[Suns9999]

He was joking dude. Over for your autism

you to me rn

 

[Suns9999]

I mean just to stand guard and protect her, you don't want the guy to do anything inappropriate or excessive to her

you’re right, i’ll just let her give the new guy head and let him finger her a few times

 

[Lonenely sigma]

View attachment 3417051
you to me rn

Did he say "you are indian"

 

[valentine]

high iq my exact mindset

 

[vanillaicecream]

I mean this is satire but like, if you are sub7 dating a looksmatch you are GONNA GET CUCKED eventually. Sub8 theory is legit in this sense

You'll get cucked either way dude no matter what you look like, imagine being with the same person for years and years, everyone will get bored and tired of it and want to be with someone else. Monogamy is not natural, that's why I'm telling you just fucking embrace it so it hurts less and your girl is happy.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You have to trauma bond her to you so she will fear daring to cheat

 

[vanillaicecream]

you’re right, i’ll just let her give the new guy head and let him finger her a few times

Sounds pretty hot

 

[h111]

You need to make her feel so bad and regretful that she kills herself. Then you sit back with the last laugh chuckling like a sigma

 

[Lonenely sigma]

You have to trauma bond her to you so she will fear daring to cheat ever

You mean, daring to cheat on other men? Why should I care about that lmao.

I'd rather get cheated on by a promiscuous woman than by a woman who was loyal to literally EVERY bf she ever had EXCEPT for me

 

[Lonenely sigma]

You'll get cucked either way dude no matter what you look like, imagine being with the same person for years and years, everyone will get bored and tired of it and want to be with someone else. Monogamy is not natural, that's why I'm telling you just fucking embrace it so it hurts less and your girl is happy.

On the one hand I agree, its kinda weird that chads and stacies who would have 30 partners in the wild only get locked in one marriage, but on the other I think you are coping.

Chads don't get cheated on, or if they do, it happens 100 times less often

 

[vanillaicecream]

Chads don't get cheated on

Why wouldn't they?? There are more Chads out there, you think women won't want to try different chads?

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Why wouldn't they?? There are more Chads out there, you think women won't want to try different chads?

Because men are programmed to spread their seed as far and wide as possible, while women are programmed to find the best partner possible to get his genes

This makes sense when you consider women get pregnant and have to carry a baby for 9 months. Ofc, finding a chad to lock down is more important to them.

Imagine being pregnant for 9 months for your oofy doofy husband to give birth to a recessed incel. No wonder so many women experience postpartum depression

 

[vanillaicecream]

Because men are programmed to spread their seed as far and wide as possible, while women are programmed to find the best partner possible to get his genes

This makes sense when you consider women get pregnant and have to carry a baby for 9 months. Ofc, finding a chad to lock down is more important to them.

Imagine being pregnant for 9 months for your oofy doofy husband to give birth to a recessed incel. No wonder so many women experience postpartum depression

That's their ultimate goal for when they settle down, when they're young and in their prime they just want to fuck as many men as possible trust me

 

[Underdog9494]

Well... We could share her

 

[faustianspirit]

thats why u cheat first

 

[yoshisand]

Like, all those videos of a guy screaming:

"HOW COULD YOUU??? I LOVED YOU SOO MUCHH??!!"

...seem so cucked to me. Bro, you are literally indirectly simping for her AFTER getting cucked.

It's called being attached to your partner.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

It's called being attached to your partner.

And thats cucked imo.

Attached to... what exactly? Her looks? Plenty of other good looking women.

Or are you gonna suggest people date bc of their personalities? Be real. There is no deeper meaning

 

[yoshisand]

And thats cucked imo.

Attached to... what exactly? Her looks? Plenty of other good looking women.

Or are you gonna suggest people date bc of their personalities? Be real. There is no deeper meaning

Well my friend normal people search their whole life for a partner when they find that partner they share there deepest darkest secrets with them. have love filled moments with them, go to the fair with them, go to comedy shows with them, watch movies with them and care for them when they're sick. Treating them like a second self. So when they betray you it's like someone gave you the most mental anguish ever. You scrunch up you start bawling like a baby, your heart tenses up you feel emotional.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

That's their ultimate goal for when they settle down, when they're young and in their prime they just want to fuck as many men as possible trust me

I don't buy it man.

What difference does it make to a woman between reproducing with superior beautiful chad A, or a superior beautiful chad B?

If she is lucky enough to actually lock down a chad, she certainly won't try to risk losing him.

Just answer me from the biological perspective. You just said "trust me bro" and didn't give a single argument

 

[yoshisand]

And thats cucked imo.

Attached to... what exactly? Her looks? Plenty of other good looking women.

Or are you gonna suggest people date bc of their personalities? Be real. There is no deeper meaning

Watch what seed you plant your garden in.

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

If you're blackpilled, you know cuckoldry is inevitable
I would just act cold to her and break up immediately, but internally I would seethe hard at her and the guy

 

[yoshisand]

I don't buy it man.

Whats difference does it make to a woman between reproducing with superior beautiful chad A, or a superior beautiful chad B?

If she is lucky enough to actually lock down a chad, she certainly won't try to risk losing him.

Just answer me from the biological perspective. You just said "trust me bro" and didn't give a single argument

You think in black in white. You really think in all of history chads haven't been cheated on? Stacy's haven't been abused. The problem is your looking for a set answer when there isn't one. That's not how the universe works. It's primal emotions are PRIMAL

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Watch what seed you plant your garden in.

Yeah, exactly, you plant your seed in the garden with the best soil, aka. best genetics.

You don't look for personality in your garden lmao

Well my friend normal people search their whole life for a partner when they find that partner they share there deepest darkest secrets with them. have love filled moments with them, go to the fair with them, go to comedy shows with them, watch movies with them and care for them when they're sick. Treating them like a second self. So when they betray you it's like someone gave you the most mental anguish ever. You scrunch up you start bawling like a baby, your heart tenses up you feel emotional.

Your looks are your personality. Plenty of girls and guys out there with BEAUTIFUL personalities who are gonna die alone bc their looks don't make the cut.

Likewise, plenty of actual psychopaths who get to reproduce simply bc they are good looking.

Thirdly, the moment you start crying to your girl, venting to her, she is gonna see you as genetically weak. She is gonna get an ick. Thats what icks are afterall.

You should act cold, not in a corny way, but you shouldn't be too close to your girl, unless you are 3 points above her leage looks-wise and don't care about losing her

 

[Lonenely sigma]

You think in black in white. You really think in all of history chads haven't been cheated on? Stacy's haven't been abused. The problem is your looking for a set answer when there isn't one. That's not how the universe works. It's primal emotions are PRIMAL

I don't think in black and white, outliers DO exist, but 1) they don't disprove the reality for the remaining 99% of cases and 2) plenty of cherrypicked examples you guys who reject the blackpill give are not even good examples

You will show a looksmatched couple and claim how "omg she is soo beautiful and he is soo ugly, blackpill is fake", not realizing they are both bang on average

 

[HighLtn]

Like, if you get cucked by another dude, and you start screaming at your cheating wife, don't you imply you want her?

Imo, if that happened to me, I'd insult her quickly, keep calm, tell her to fuck off and never talk to me again.

I'd have a problem with the dude instead. He came there and implied he is superior to you. That'd lowkey make me more mad.

Kill her instead

 

[yoshisand]

Yeah, exactly, you plant your seed in the garden with the best soil, aka. best genetics.

You don't look for personality in your garden lmao


Your looks are your personality. Plenty of girls and guys out there with BEAUTIFUL personalities who are gonna die alone bc their looks don't make the cut.

Likewise, plenty of actual psychopaths who get to reproduce simply bc they are good looking.

Thirdly, the moment you start crying to your girl, venting to her, she is gonna see you as genetically weak. She is gonna get an ick. Thats what icks are afterall.

You should act cold, not in a corny way, but you shouldn't be too close to your girl, unless you are 3 points above her leage looks-wise and don't care about losing her

1. If your thinking about basic perspective. then yeah sure your kid will get treated better based off of there looks. But then what? They have to grow up with a mother you chose. there have been multiple instances of chads killing themselves or trying to kill themselves over horrible mental health Vasily stepanov and haruma miura . So yeah mental health and personality does matter it matters a shit ton.
2. Yeah this is true but guess what. There are tons of subhumans with beautiful personalities that do get picked I've seen 3-4/10s get gfs obviously you know the 3-4s girls get picked obviously yeah the better flowers do get picked. Everybody wants the prettiest flower. But your telling me you haven't seen one subhuman guy in your whole life in a relationship. At all?
3. The Universe isn't Fair, your operating off of this fairness perspective. Like psychopaths who are handsome reproduce as if that hasn't been that way since the dawn of man you really think back in the 1400s women weren't rejecting subhumans and still calling them ugly? You really think kings weren't putting psychopaths in high positions everything is chance my friend. It's the way the universe wants it to be.
4. 'The moment you start crying to your girl' stop you don't know what another human is going to do. the women who are worth anything wouldn't do that to you. The women who are like that are psychopaths, narcissists who only think about themselves. Someone you shouldn't be considering a long term relationship with. You think about it like that, however I think about it like this. The universe GOD himself just showed you what lies under her mask a demon. Your too scared to fail, too afraid to fall, to afraid to try again to afraid to hand over control to the universe.
5. You should act in a normal way with your personality. Your thinking of this a logical step process. Are you too afraid of being hurt?

 

[longjohnmong]

Imo, if that happened to me, I'd insult her quickly, keep calm, tell her to fuck off and never talk to me again.

sure, bro

 

[yoshisand]

I don't think in black and white, outliers DO exist, but 1) they don't disprove the reality for the remaining 99% of cases and 2) plenty of cherrypicked examples you guys who reject the blackpill give are not even good examples

You will show a looksmatched couple and claim how "omg she is soo beautiful and he is soo ugly, blackpill is fake", not realizing they are both bang on average

Life is not 99% or 1% it's infinity there is no set anything. 2. If I told you sean I pry got stood up on prom how would you feel. someone who looks like Batman got stood up on prom. Life is a whole bunch of outliers, life is random stop trying to make sense of it and you will be happy.
2. You are in too much of other peoples business. You do realize that a woman worth valuing wouldn't leave him after seeing those comments g. You sound like one of those women in the comments section saying that there isn't a man worth valuing

 

[chudlite]

View attachment 3417051
you to me rn

yuo fookin eediot

 

[chudlite]

also i think a foid cheating is multi faceted however a foid that desires to cheat will always cheat even if its chad, this makes up 50-60% of it

 

[yoshisand]

I don't think in black and white, outliers DO exist, but 1) they don't disprove the reality for the remaining 99% of cases and 2) plenty of cherrypicked examples you guys who reject the blackpill give are not even good examples

You will show a looksmatched couple and claim how "omg she is soo beautiful and he is soo ugly, blackpill is fake", not realizing they are both bang on average

 

[Lonenely sigma]

1. If your thinking about basic perspective. then yeah sure your kid will get treated better based off of there looks. But then what? They have to grow up with a mother you chose. there have been multiple instances of chads killing themselves or trying to kill themselves over horrible mental health Vasily stepanov and haruma miura . So yeah mental health and personality does matter it matters a shit ton.

Well, both of my parents are good people, they love me and everything, but if I had a chance to pick, I wouldn't pick them being my parents. Thats just the harsh truth. I'd rather have parents with better genes

2. Yeah this is true but guess what. There are tons of subhumans with beautiful personalities that do get picked I've seen 3-4/10s get gfs obviously you know the 3-4s girls get picked obviously yeah the better flowers do get picked. Everybody wants the prettiest flower. But your telling me you haven't seen one subhuman guy in your whole life in a relationship. At all?

1) outliers exist, they don't deny the reality

2) you simply overrate women, so that a 4/10 blonde girl becomes a stacy, and a 4/10 dude a subhuman

3)plenty??? Thats a stretch to put it politely.

4) there are other factors, like height, race etc

5) women settle down in their 30s after realizing they can't get chad to commit, so they end up with average guys (or "subhumans" as you call them)

3. The Universe isn't Fair,

A whole different topic, but since it isn't fair, I reject to believe in god. Even if he existed I would reject to worship him.

Telling me to "just accept it" is, ironically, psychopathic. You guys aren't the good guys here. You imply I am depressed for no reason; you imply I am to be blamed for my situation.

4. The women who are like that are psychopaths, narcissists who only think about themselves. Someone you shouldn't be considering a long term relationship with.

ALL people are like this, on a subconscious level. The fact a woman tells you "I wouldn't leave you if you started balding" does not matter.

What women say does not matter. I don't care what they have to say, I care about what they demonstrate.

All women say looks don't matter, does it disprove lookism?

You think about it like that, however I think about it like this. The universe GOD himself just showed you what lies under her mask a demon. Your too scared to fail, too afraid to fall, to afraid to try again to afraid to hand over control to the universe.

Again, 2 copes in 2 sentences. Religious coping isn't for me, so please don't.

And I am not scared. I simply don't want to be hurt any more. I've been hurt enough by women, and I tried many times

5. You should act in a normal way with your personality. Your thinking of this a logical step process. Are you too afraid of being hurt?

Just be confident brooooo! Just be a good persoooon!

 

[Lonenely sigma]

You do realize that a woman worth valuing wouldn't leave him after seeing those comments g. You sound like one of those women in the comments section saying that there isn't a man worth valuing

Muh a woman worth valuing. Its human nature bro. We are all identical on the core level.

Just fucking lol at thinking that a "soo good 23 year old christian girl" wouldn't want to get fucked by a chad. Its human desire to reproduce, no amount of praying, reading the bible can change human nature man.

Thats the brutal part of it. We are all just machines, just programs. There is no deeper meaning, there is no unicorn. We are all the same

 

[looksmaxxed]

i don't get the point of being so bluepilled that you expect loyalty from a foid. i will chain my foid onto a bolt in the kitchen.

 

[vanillaicecream]

I don't buy it man.

What difference does it make to a woman between reproducing with superior beautiful chad A, or a superior beautiful chad B?

If she is lucky enough to actually lock down a chad, she certainly won't try to risk losing him.

Just answer me from the biological perspective. You just said "trust me bro" and didn't give a single argument

The argument is simply that humans are not satisfied with repetitive routines and things, they always want to try new stuff. Even if you like a pizza flavor do you always order that flavor or do you want to try new ones? It's no different with sexual partners. Novelty is key to fulfilling people's desires.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

The argument is simply that humans are not satisfied with repetitive routines and things, they always want to try new stuff. Even if you like a pizza flavor do you always order that flavor or do you want to try new ones? It's no different with sexual partners. Novelty is key to fulfilling people's desires.

We agree on there being 0 deeper meaning to relationships, we just don't agree on whether people have smt programmed in their brains that makes them cheat.

As I said, I doubt women would cheat on chads. Ofc it does happen but on average I really don't think its gonna to most chads, ESPECIALLY if the dude is above his girls league, which is the case now given the hypergamy.

Regardless, to each his own.

 

[yoshisand]

Well, both of my parents are good people, they love me and everything, but if I had a chance to pick, I wouldn't pick them being my parents. Thats just the harsh truth. I'd rather have parents with better genes

1) outliers exist, they don't deny the reality

2) you simply overrate women, so that a 4/10 blonde girl becomes a stacy, and a 4/10 dude a subhuman

3)plenty??? Thats a stretch to put it politely.

4) there are other factors, like height, race etc

5) women settle down in their 30s after realizing they can't get chad to commit, so they end up with average guys (or "subhumans" as you call them)

A whole different topic, but since it isn't fair, I reject to believe in god. Even if he existed I would reject to worship him.

Telling me to "just accept it" is, ironically, psychopathic. You guys aren't the good guys here. You imply I am depressed for no reason; you imply I am to be blamed for my situation.


ALL people are like this, on a subconscious level. The fact a woman tells you "I wouldn't leave you if you started balding" does not matter.

What women say does not matter. I don't care what they have to say, I care about what they demonstrate.

All women say looks don't matter, does it disprove lookism?

Again, 2 copes in 2 sentences. Religious coping isn't for me, so please don't.

And I am not scared. I simply don't want to be hurt any more. I've been hurt enough by women, and I tried many times

Just be confident brooooo! Just be a good persoooon!

1. The reality you can't predict anything that's why there is outliers.
2. I don't overate bro. YOU. DON'T. KNOW. ME.
3. Plenty is plenty. It still existed right so your 'facts' mean nothing since it existed?
4. Factors, numbers. it's like I'm talking to a sad man who's clutching on to his belief system, instead of just letting go.
5.So fucking what? you aren't them. who says your life will be like there's. let those men live their choices out. THEY ARE HAPPY WHERE THEY ARE AT.
6.Whether or not you believe in God doesn't matter your being immature.
7. You need to accept it so you can MOVE ON. and GIVE UP. Your like a sad hermit too afraid of anything. If you play sports you will get hurt move on. If you read books sometimes you will get a paper cut MOVE ON. your too scared of what's in front of you. that you don't live in the now.
8. Do you know all people? It is quite literally impossible for you to know all people. so how do you know that all people are like this.
9. 'i would leave you if you were to start balding' your queue to leave. You get so emotional like, Oh my Gosh MY DISNEY PRINCESS SAID THIS TO ME . It's your fault for her having that much power over you.
10. I'm sorry but that is actually incorrect what women say does matter. because your trying to attract them. Are you not?
11. I can show you multiple tiktoks/youtubes of women saying looks do matter so once again your very obvious flawed arguments mean nothing. YOU. DON'T. KNOW. ANYONE. 100%.
12. This isn't a cope this can change your way of thinking and living this isn't a religion.
13. That's just they way life goes bro. I hate to tell you this because your obviously looking for a big giant essay on how to never get hurt by a women. If you play football with the most perfect dribbling style you will still be tackled. So what was the perfect anything. And guess what you'll still get hurt using that bs method. Aswell
I'm not telling you to be confident I'm telling you to let go.

 

[yoshisand]

Muh a woman worth valuing. Its human nature bro. We are all identical on the core level.

Just fucking lol at thinking that a "soo good 23 year old christian girl" wouldn't want to get fucked by a chad. Its human desire to reproduce, no amount of praying, reading the bible can change human nature man.

Thats the brutal part of it. We are all just machines, just programs. There is no deeper meaning, there is no unicorn. We are all the same

Every single thing in your life was random. every event every possibility that you had was random. flip a coin 2000 times the core remains the same but the outcomes are different.
2.why are you so worried about people who don't matter to your life to your way of being. Why are you so mad about imaginary scenarios and random events. Human nature reacts to its environment and what the universe has given it everything in life is random everything stop trying to make sense of it.
3. The unicorn is yourself and how you perceived things.

 

[yoshisand]

The argument is simply that humans are not satisfied with repetitive routines and things, they always want to try new stuff. Even if you like a pizza flavor do you always order that flavor or do you want to try new ones? It's no different with sexual partners. Novelty is key to fulfilling people's desires.

No the argument is life is random so there is no SET WAY of doing something just let go and let the universe be random and be open on how you view things there is a positive lessons to learn in negative times. And negative lessons to learn in positive times. Just move on to what life throws at you

 

[yoshisand]

i don't get the point of being so bluepilled that you expect loyalty from a foid. i will chain my foid onto a bolt in the kitchen.

You can't expect loyalty from anyone but yourself just let life be life