What I realized after escaping inceldom

[N8verBegan]

it’s been awhile since I have been active here. I was busy with work. I wanted to share what I realized after escaping inceldom at 19.

When I was in high school, I was a very insecure kid. I looksmaxxed the shit out of myself, NTmaxxed and I was able to get a gf in college. The relationship only lasted 4 months btw. I’m doing gap year now.

You would think having a gf will cure everything. I mean it’s fantastic knowing that there is someone who really loves you, and the sex is obviously good, but I still suffered from occasional insecurity about my looks and I still suffered from depression.

what I really realized is that insecurity, depression, and loneliness is not something to be “cured”. You need to learn to live with it and even embrace it. I started going to therapy and it helped me tremendously in realizing that I don’t have to be perfect to be accepted or loved by people, and that I do not have to be liked by every single person I meet.

I still believe that blackpill is THE truth, women seek to upgrade their genes, just as men do. I am not going to lie and say that a short LTN would be able to get a loving gf. But I know that many MTNs like myself suffer from feeling of loneliness and depression. Looksmax to the fullest, Get a gf if you can and want to, but also learn to improve your mental health and embrace occasional sadness.

 

[forevergymcelling]

I cured mine and became the king of England

 

[Deleted member 31971]

 

[Deleted member 81737]

what if im already a volcel and need to escape mentalceldome

then what would you reccomend

im already going to see a therapist soon but im scared in too deep into the rabbithole

 

[ivan karamazov]

what if im already a volcel and need to escape mentalceldome

then what would you reccomend

im already going to see a therapist soon but im scared in too deep into the rabbithole

you ll be back to mentalceldome when you realize its almost impossible to meet a compatible girl to have a relationship

 

[Deleted member 81737]

you ll be back to mentalceldome when you realize its almost impossible to meet a compatible girl to have a relationship

is it really this brutal? i am only 16

how easy would it be for me (or hard) to find a compatible partner

my only pre reqs are: asian, skinny, and around mtb

 

[N8verBegan]

is it really this brutal? i am only 16

how easy would it be for me (or hard) to find a compatible partner

my only pre reqs are: asian, skinny, and around mtb

I was never a mentalcel since im pretty low inhib, but I’d just start talking to random people. Most people would reciprocate since your an MTN. If that doesn’t work hop on GABA or Phenibut.

Being MTN as an asian means you are top 20% of asian males. Talk to asians first and transition to whites

 

[ivan karamazov]

is it really this brutal? i am only 16

how easy would it be for me (or hard) to find a compatible partner

my only pre reqs are: asian, skinny, and around mtb

it isnt brutal it can happen or not there is nothing you can do except increasing your chances by meeting new girls if you can tolerate the constant disappoinment and get desensitized but chances of finding the one is indeed very low

 

[Deleted member 81737]

I was never a mentalcel since im pretty low inhib, but I’d just start talking to random people. Most people would reciprocate since your an MTN. If that doesn’t work hop on GABA or Phenibut.

Being MTN as an asian means you are top 20% of asian males. Talk to asians first and transition to whites

im facially htn but i say im mtn because of my height (5'6/5'7)

also i will never date whites

only gooks

 

[Deleted member 81737]

it isnt brutal it can happen or not there is nothing you can do except increasing your chances by meeting new girls if you can tolerate the constant disappoinment and get desensitized but chances of finding the one is indeed very low

got it bhai

my mom might have given me the best advice

she just said enjoy your life until you meet a girl

 

[N8verBegan]

got it bhai

my mom might have given me the best advice

she just said enjoy your life until you meet a girl

tbh you prolly have best shot in finding a gf in high school since you are short. In college girls care more about height than face, so I would at least try a little

 

[CreepyJewel1]

I am 21 and can you tell easily if you are real sub5 deal, nothing but nothing will help you. I was at 6'2 already in 8th grade and HS I was the school clown the person everyone knew but also everyone pushed me away from their circle.

I always did wonder why I couldnt make any friends not even foids(some foids in my class that I never spoke literally insulted me lol) then one of my classmates laughed and said something like "did you come out of intermarriage?" Yeah, that was the point I realized no matter how social, funny or nice person you are, you can't delete the image of yourself from people minds. Most of us do not choose to be one, BRUTAL!

 

[N8verBegan]

I am 21 and can you tell easily if you are real sub5 deal, nothing but nothing will help you. I was at 6'2 already in 8th grade and HS I was the school clown the person everyone knew but also everyone pushed me away from their circle.

I always did wonder why I couldnt make any friends not even foids(some foids in my class that I never spoke literally insulted me lol) then one of my classmates laughed and said something like "did you come out of intermarriage?" Yeah, that was the point I realized no matter how social, funny or nice person you are, you can't delete the image of yourself from people minds. Most of us do not choose to be one, BRUTAL!

Yep, thats the ultimate blackpill

 

[ivan karamazov]

Yep, thats the ultimate blackpill

chances are still close to zero regardless of your height

 

[Clown Show]

>Escaped inceldom
>Stopped reading right there

 

[wollet2]

is that you

 

[wollet2]

>Escaped inceldom
>Stopped reading right there

niggers acting like 'inceldom' is some uncurable cancer. relax inceldom doesnt exist just lower ur standards

 

[BoredPrince]

what I really realized is that insecurity, depression, and loneliness is not something to be “cured”. You need to learn to live with it and even embrace it. I started going to therapy and it helped me tremendously in realizing that I don’t have to be perfect to be accepted or loved by people, and that I do not have to be liked by every single person I meet.

How do you suggest we "live with it"?

Depression ultimately leads to suicide so I don't think living with it is the smartest choice


What more did you want/expect after getting a gf if it didn't help your mental state?

 

[Pikabro]

I am 21 and can you tell easily if you are real sub5 deal, nothing but nothing will help you. I was at 6'2 already in 8th grade and HS I was the school clown the person everyone knew but also everyone pushed me away from their circle.

I always did wonder why I couldnt make any friends not even foids(some foids in my class that I never spoke literally insulted me lol) then one of my classmates laughed and said something like "did you come out of intermarriage?" Yeah, that was the point I realized no matter how social, funny or nice person you are, you can't delete the image of yourself from people minds. Most of us do not choose to be one, BRUTAL!

Brutal

 

[austrianautist]

I am 21 and can you tell easily if you are real sub5 deal, nothing but nothing will help you. I was at 6'2 already in 8th grade and HS I was the school clown the person everyone knew but also everyone pushed me away from their circle.

I always did wonder why I couldnt make any friends not even foids(some foids in my class that I never spoke literally insulted me lol) then one of my classmates laughed and said something like "did you come out of intermarriage?" Yeah, that was the point I realized no matter how social, funny or nice person you are, you can't delete the image of yourself from people minds. Most of us do not choose to be one, BRUTAL!

damn bro