What is it that makes an open relationship inherently wrong?

[Deleted member 685]

We've all been led to believe that being a cuckold/having a family while you're in an open relationship with your partner is bad, but what is it exactly that's destructive about it? If they both consent to it and there's no harm done, why is it still inherently considered objectively wrong? Does it impact the child? Does it impact the relationship?

BTW: I'm in no way advocating, in fact I wouldn't wanna be in a open relationship myself since I believe if I truly love my partner for how she is I won't need other people to fill in her duties (sex) etc, and if she isn't enough for me that means that she as a person isn't gonna work out with me anyways. I also believe the risk of jealousy/lack of order etc is too high to start it.

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[Gazzamogga]

nothing

it's just that in 99% of cases the guy is a desperate cuck with no spine

 

[Deleted member 685]

nothing

it's just that in 99% of cases the guy is a desperate cuck with no spine

True, that's why the guy is never the one having sex but the girl is going wild with BBC

 

[Gazzamogga]

True, that's why the guy is never the one having sex but the girl is going wild with BBC

Also usually ends up not working in the vast majority of relationships because of jealousy

 

[Deleted member 6095]

Moral values instilled by religion makes it wrong, but it's basically what hypergamy is today. Top 10% fucking all the rest

 

[Taylorswift]

Dn read, if you aren’t a cuck then inject E or rope.

 

[Blackout.xl]

We've all been led to believe that being a cuckold/having a family while you're in an open relationship with your partner is bad, but what is it exactly that's destructive about it? If they both consent to it and there's no harm done, why is it still inherently considered objectively wrong? Does it impact the child? Does it impact the relationship?

BTW: I'm in no way advocating, in fact I wouldn't wanna be in a open relationship myself since I believe if I truly love my partner for how she is I won't need other people to fill in her duties (sex) etc, and if she isn't enough for me that means that she as a person isn't gonna work out with me anyways. I also believe the risk of jealousy/lack of order etc is too high to start it.

@disillusioned @Blackout.xl @reptiles @turkproducer @BigBiceps @needsolution @Bewusst @SubhumanCurrycel @Vitruvian @Dogs
@john2 @Mr.cope

- Jealousy

- Your partner respects you less because you can’t measure up when compared to men she fucks 24/7

- Your partner will lose the ability to pair bond

- Your partner will have no incentive to pair bond when their sexual and emotional needs can be met by one, or multiple other people that are not you

- Your kids will grow up in the resulting chaotic environment, which will increase their cortisol and hamper their physical and mental development

- Due to hypergamy, the benefit will mostly be in the court of the woman. Unless the man is a legitimate chad, then there’s no reason to not believe that the woman in this scenario will get the bulk of the benefit from emotional / sexual connection with other people

- Inevitable dead bedroom once the female partner can supplement her sexual needs with other men

- Relationship will quickly decay until it collapses, leaving a messy trail of destruction, depression and regret if there’s kids involved.

It is shameful and immoral. There is no good that can come of it. It is bad for any society

 

[Deleted member 9355]

If one looked like prettyboy and other jock chad and both dated the same girl knowingly I wouldn't think bad of it since you can clearly see neither are "lacking". If its some truecel paying the bills while she dates a chad then your mind just thinks the truecel is compensating for his looks because he is ugly and he's just being used for his money.
It would impact children if their school friends know and they'll get bullied other than that it depends on the 3 peoples approach to the situation if its clearly exploiting and the child can see it it would be bad

 

[goat2x]

cuz your girl will fuck 10x times more thanu

 

[goat2x]

@Blackout.xl

 

[Blackout.xl]

@Blackout.xl

What a loser. she’s coming back to him every night with a vagina that is leaking of cum. Imagine being rich betabuxx with status who still manages to fall for the open relationship trap.

 

[Deleted member 275]

What's the point of an open relationship, might aswell break up then. You no more than FwB's at that point.

 

[BigBiceps]

Because womens and mens SMV is not in balance. Average girl can fuck with hot guys every day, but average guy will have to beg from fat landwhales if he wants one night stands.

 

[Deleted member 685]

Also usually ends up not working in the vast majority of relationships because of jealousy

Where does that jealousy derive from though? Like why do we have it as humans?

 

[Blackout.xl]

Where does that jealousy derive from though? Like why do we have it as humans?

Selfish gene

 

[Deleted member 4209]

its worse when it's a woman as the woman will not pair bond with the father of her children as strongly and will possibly not care about the child as much plus it's unnatural due to womens need for sex being lower.

polygyny at least has some evolutionary sense to it , a high value man being shared by multiple women.

 

[Gazzamogga]

Where does that jealousy derive from though? Like why do we have it as humans?

Not smart enough to answer that

 

[Deleted member 4106]

open relationship is an understatement for a guy who fails to satisfy a woman sexually.
In addition to that you will have to share your partner with another man

 

[Deleted member 2506]

Open relationship is only good if the woman is loyal and the guy fucks whoever he wants

a dick in many pussies is infinitely better than a pussy that took many dicks, only person ive ever heard of with this setup is Manuel Ferrara and his wife

 

[lutte]

If two people in a relationship aren't attracted to each other they ought to just end it in order to spare themselves the pain, and they should end it especially if they have children so that they don't need to grow up in a tense household with parents who resent each other. The nuclear family is just a meme anyways

 

[Deleted member 685]

Selfish gene

Why do we have that gene? And what's it called

 

[Blackout.xl]

Why do we have that gene? And what's it called

We have that gene because we evolved to have it. It’s what makes us survive

 

[Pietrosiek]

i want to have foid as buisness partner, i would do porn with her but we wouldnt be in relationship

 

[Deleted member 4209]

i want to have foid as buisness partner, i would do porn with her but we wouldnt be in relationship

pietroporn

 

[sandcelmuttcel]

because you are perceived as weak/beta by society

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Actually there definitely is harm done. Cuckolding is nothing more than psychological self-harm, which happens because of self esteem issues and feelings of inadequacy.

Those guys suffer, it's just that they prefer to process their suffering sexually to make it easier to carry, instead of actually dealing with the root of their suffering.

"Psychologist Roy Baumeister advanced a Self Theory analysis that cuckolding (or specifically, all masochism) was a form of escaping from self-awareness, at times when self-awareness becomes burdensome, such as with perceived inadequacy. According to this theory, the physical or mental pain from masochism brings attention away from the self, which would be desirable in times of "guilt, anxiety, or insecurity", or at other times when self-awareness is unpleasant "

 

[Dogs]

The female 99/100 times have more smv than the male. This is an excuse for the female to have sex with random people, because you're not chad.

 

[disillusioned]

The fact that foids have even started the "open relationship" trend at all is the ultimate proof that women don't give a shit about you at all and that humans are not naturally monogamous. I can't believe that normies haven't yet been redpilled by now.

There is no such thing as an "open relationship". So called open relationships is literally just the foid asking for permission to whore around while still exploiting you for your money. Only sub-human cucks would ever do this.

 

[Aesthetics_III]

If you have an open relationship and your girl gets pregnant, you have a chance of not being the father and are therefore at risk of raising and dedicating resources to a child that’s not your own.

For women, I guess it’s jealousy and stuff

 

[TITUS]

Because you fall in love with the other person or whatever and the relationship ends. It's just not worthed the risk most of the time.

 

[turkproducer]

it’s disgusting if you’re with someone you should only be sleeping with them

 

[Vitruvian]

Jealousy, an average guy cant get laid as much an average girl. Jealousy drives us to work hard, make money, buy expensive things, workout.

Obviously if u both have other partners its fine.
People find comfort in how their parents are, if u parents are degens or not present, u will be too
This luxury is reserved for rich good looking guys, like many things regarding control over multiple women who still worship u

 

[needsolution]

no bond, i guess no healthy man would want his women to be fucked by another males every weekends or smth