What is the difference between pulling Stacys vs beckys?

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Whenever I approach Beckys/high tier Beckys at bars they are very receptive and flirty. They message me first on the dating apps. When I approach stacys they are colder and less interested. I’m able to get laid easily with high tier beckys but bang Stacy’s in less frequency. I’ve noticed beckys care more about looks while stacys care more about status. Is it possible to “slay” stacys from online dating and cold approaching at bars? Or will your lays always be mostly beckys and HTBs with a Stacy here and there?

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Whenever I approach Beckys/high tier Beckys at bars they are very receptive and flirty. They message me first on the dating apps. When I approach stacys they are colder and less interested. I’m able to get laid easily with high tier beckys but bang Stacy’s in less frequency. I’ve noticed beckys care more about looks while stacys care more about status. Is it possible to “slay” stacys from online dating and cold approaching at bars? Or will your lays always be mostly beckys and HTBs with a Stacy here and there?

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8+ women will want you to be top percentile and in their niche in order to get with them.

Other girls it will be either being top percentile or their niche.
 
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8+ women will want you to be top percentile and in their niche in order to get with them.
What do you mean by in their niche? As in like part of their social circle or sharing hobbies with them? Would they reject a Chad that cold approaches them?
 
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What do you mean by in their niche? As in like part of their social circle or sharing hobbies with them? Would they reject a Chad that cold approaches them?
As in looks niche. Is she into pretty modelesque men, is she into jacked men who are very masucline, is she into emos. It is about how you look as that is the first impression which is what counts.

The rest only matters if LTR.
 
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80% of the women go for top 20% of the men
 
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As in looks niche. Is she into pretty modelesque men, is she into jacked men who are very masucline, is she into emos. It is about how you look as that is the first impression which is what counts.

The rest only matters if LTR.
I am 6’1 tanned roided. I just feel the 8+ are harder to get than Becky’s. Even for chads.
 
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I am 6’1 tanned roided. I just feel the 8+ are harder to get than Becky’s. Even for chads.
Well obviously, they have more choices so they will be more picky only settling for their type.
Wtf you can be top 20% by taking a shower. It’s more like top 5%
The funny thing with that statistic is that 80/20 refers to the fact 80% of men are rated below average by women.

Women only want above average men so for them that skews to around top 4% within one “standard deviation”
 
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Well obviously, they have more choices so they will be more picky only settling for their type.

The funny thing with that statistic is that 80/20 refers to the fact 80% of men are rated below average by women.

Women only want above average men so for them that skews to around top 4% within one “standard deviation”
I agree that’s it’s too 4% or less. Anyone can be top 20% just by not being fat. What are your thoughts on my physique. I am 6’1-6’2. Should I continue to gain more muscle mass?

 
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Nigga, if your slaying like that wth are you doing here? Also brag thread
 
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I don't think the women being Becky or Stacy make a difference. Both have infinite options, just take a look at online dating experiments done with ugly and old women, they always get 99+ matches and some of them are young chads.

In fact, probably the beckies on average have higher ego, since they benefit from positive discrimation (ie: "you are 10 too!" while being a 5/10 at best), while Stacy gets the opposite treatment from most women (ie: "omg you set unrealistic standars for everyone else, you are a narcicist").

I think the Stacies you meet are most likely to be more discerning, higher quality women that want a men not so good looking (no need to compensate for her looks, would settle for someone that passes the looks thresshold, like a HTN) but with very solid income and status (very traditional requirement) compared to the less down to earth body positivity enjoyer average becky.
 
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I don't think the women being Becky or Stacy make a difference. Both have infinite options, just take a look at online dating experiments done with ugly and old women, they always get 99+ matches and some of them are young chads.

In fact, probably the beckies on average have higher ego, since they benefit from positive discrimation (ie: "you are 10 too!" while being a 5/10 at best), while Stacy gets the opposite treatment from most women (ie: "omg you set unrealistic standars for everyone else, you are a narcicist").

I think the Stacies you meet are most likely to be more discerning, higher quality women that want a men not so good looking (no need to compensate for her looks, would settle for someone that passes the looks thresshold, like a HTN) but with very solid income and status (very traditional requirement) compared to the less down to earth body positivity enjoyer average becky.
Yeah I agree. The girls I approach are 23-25 so they are less slutty and more so looking for a well rounded LTR candidate maybe. From my experience Becky’s are easy mode
 
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I don't think the women being Becky or Stacy make a difference. Both have infinite options, just take a look at online dating experiments done with ugly and old women, they always get 99+ matches and some of them are young chads.

In fact, probably the beckies on average have higher ego, since they benefit from positive discrimation (ie: "you are 10 too!" while being a 5/10 at best), while Stacy gets the opposite treatment from most women (ie: "omg you set unrealistic standars for everyone else, you are a narcicist").

I think the Stacies you meet are most likely to be more discerning, higher quality women that want a men not so good looking (no need to compensate for her looks, would settle for someone that passes the looks thresshold, like a HTN) but with very solid income and status (very traditional requirement) compared to the less down to earth body positivity enjoyer average becky.
Do you think being too good looking is a turnoff for Stacy’s? Also what are your thoughts on my physique
 
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I agree that’s it’s too 4% or less. Anyone can be top 20% just by not being fat. What are your thoughts on my physique. I am 6’1-6’2. Should I continue to gain more muscle mass?


Most men still look repulsive regardless of body fat so not much they can do. Your body looks fine, you can do what you want with it essentially.
 
Most men still look repulsive regardless of body fat so not much they can do. Your body looks fine, you can do what you want with it essentially.
Should I bulk or cut?
 
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I know, I meant take your pick. Which do you want to improve more
Ahhh makes sense. Yeah when my physique looks bigger my face looks more bloated and vice versa. I’ve seen better results when Im bigger tho.
 
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Do you think being too good looking is a turnoff for Stacy’s? Also what are your thoughts on my physique

No such a thing as being too good looking. I think the most important thing is to be well rounded and complete, ie: be at least HTN, have solid income and unironically a decent personality. When one of those things fails (HTN but no income or HTN with good income but Looksmax autist personality), IME they start seeing the failos (ie "good looking but not relationship material, will reject because high body count makes me look like a whore") .Very good physique, would benefit from being lower body fat.
 
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No such a thing as being too good looking. I think the most important thing is to be well rounded and complete, ie: be at least HTN, have solid income and unironically a decent personality. When one of those things fails (HTN but no income or HTN with good income but Looksmax autist personality), IME they start seeing the failos (ie "good looking but not relationship material, will reject because high body count makes me look like a whore") .Very good physique, would benefit from being lower body fat.
Completely agree
 
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Larp thread
 
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I'd really love to know how good a man's face needs to be to slay a Stacey while just meeting her in the club for the first time and having zero status

I could slay beckies in clubs because there were some who considered me superior to them in looks which alone is enough to slay them

Lets say I chat to a Stacey and make out with her (meaning I pass her looks threshold) but she doesn't consider me superior to her in looks, that means I cannot slay her that night while not having status to compensate with

I wonder at what male looks level does Stacey feel like the guy is superior to her on looks alone and will fuck him after meeting in the club without needing to see his instagram followers or know if he has a good job or plays sports at a competitive level
 
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I'd really love to know how good a man's face needs to be to slay a Stacey while just meeting her in the club for the first time and having zero status

I could slay beckies in clubs because there were some who considered me superior to them in looks which alone is enough to slay them

Lets say I chat to a Stacey and make out with her (meaning I pass her looks threshold) but she doesn't consider me superior to her in looks, that means I cannot slay her that night while not having status to compensate with

I wonder at what male looks level does Stacey feel like the guy is superior to her on looks alone and will fuck him after meeting in the club without needing to see his instagram followers or know if he has a good job or plays sports at a competitive level
It’s not just about face. Height and physique matter more in clubs.
 
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I'd really love to know how good a man's face needs to be to slay a Stacey while just meeting her in the club for the first time and having zero status

I could slay beckies in clubs because there were some who considered me superior to them in looks which alone is enough to slay them

Lets say I chat to a Stacey and make out with her (meaning I pass her looks threshold) but she doesn't consider me superior to her in looks, that means I cannot slay her that night while not having status to compensate with

I wonder at what male looks level does Stacey feel like the guy is superior to her on looks alone and will fuck him after meeting in the club without needing to see his instagram followers or know if he has a good job or plays sports at a competitive level
I have NEVER slayed a girl I just met in a club.

I probably could but id have to lower my standards so much it wouldnt be worth it

I did come desperartely close to doing so one night in slovakia tho
 
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I have NEVER slayed a girl I just met in a club.

I probably could but id have to lower my standards so much it wouldnt be worth it

I did come desperartely close to doing so one night in slovakia tho
All my lays are from cold approach at bars or tinder
 
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All my lays are from cold approach at bars or tinder
I have 32 slays from online
2 from uni social cirlce
1 from on holiday in croatia (but i didnt meet her in the club met her beforehand)
 
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I have 32 slays from online
2 from uni social cirlce
1 from on holiday in croatia (but i didnt meet her in the club met her beforehand)
Nice dude what’s your overall laycount and how old are you?
 
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Whenever I approach Beckys/high tier Beckys at bars they are very receptive and flirty. They message me first on the dating apps. When I approach stacys they are colder and less interested. I’m able to get laid easily with high tier beckys but bang Stacy’s in less frequency. I’ve noticed beckys care more about looks while stacys care more about status. Is it possible to “slay” stacys from online dating and cold approaching at bars? Or will your lays always be mostly beckys and HTBs with a Stacy here and there?

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it's all about mogging brother, nothing matters more than being a girls best option, she focuses in on that and develops a crush on them, make sure to become this and she will make it easy for you to get her
 
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I have 32 slays from online
2 from uni social cirlce
1 from on holiday in croatia (but i didnt meet her in the club met her beforehand)
Nice dude what’s your overall laycount and how old are you? I’m banging about 3-4 girls per month rn.
 
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I wonder at what male looks level does Stacey feel like the guy is superior to her on looks alone and will fuck him after meeting in the club without needing to see his instagram followers or know if he has a good job or plays sports at a competitive level

Stacy is 6 PSL, so 7 PSL but not uncanny looking gigachad, like Rodrigo Guirao or Jon Kortajarena.
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Stacy is 6 PSL, so 7 PSL but not uncanny looking gigachad, like Rodrigo Guirao or Jon Kortajarena.
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It’s not just about face. Height and physique matter just at much if not more. Average RTT guy mogs those guys in terms of SMV.
 
It’s not just about face. Height and physique matter just at much if not more. Average RTT guy mogs those guys in terms of SMV.

Hieght and physique obviously matter, but women go nuts when they see a face on that level because it is incredibly rare.
Just look at this. Rodrigo went to promote a series he was working on, but the appeareance was staged as "this is my rental boyfriend", look at the reaction from the women on the green dress when she sees him for the first time, literally can't believe he exists. No need to understand spanish to know that she is her sex slave if he wants to.
 
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Hieght and physique obviously matter, but women go nuts when they see a face on that level because it is incredibly rare.
Just look at this. Rodrigo went to promote a series he was working on, but the appeareance was staged as "this is my rental boyfriend", look at the reaction from the women on the green dress when she sees him for the first time, literally can't believe he exists. No need to understand spanish to know that she is her sex slave if he wants to.

Yeah I agree with you. However most guys are average looking facially and it’s very rare to see guys like that at bars and clubs. So the easiest way to stand out is with height and physique.
 
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Yeah I agree with you. However most guys are average looking facially and it’s very rare to see guys like that at bars and clubs. So the easiest way to stand out is with height and physique.

Agree with you. On average is much more common to see big jacked guys slaying in clubs, a face like that is incredibly rare but is a legit cheat code in life.
 
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In bars its hard to get Stacy. But elsewhere if you are HTN its easy. like libary you see a stacy go out to her. joke and show intelligence
 
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In bars its hard to get Stacy. But elsewhere if you are HTN its easy. like libary you see a stacy go out to her. joke and show intelligence
Why is it harder at bars? This is what I have noticed too. The Stacy’s are always in groups of their friends and when I go talk to them it’s hard because I have to engage the whole group etc and there’s cockblocking. Should I start approaching them during the day tkme?
 
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