What is the max difference in PSL between bf and gf where the relationship can still work out?

[basedblackpiller]

As in Stacy with HTN is 2 PSL difference, can there still be real attraction there?

 

[greycel]

1. PSL =/= Appeal: the term in context is appeal
2. Subjective Appeal vs Appeal relative to society:
Women and guys have types. A guy might only have appeal that has equivalent rarity of LTN (PSL), but he can attract a girl who has equivalent rarity of Stacy (PSL), if he is her type.
Appeal relative to society is a correlation, it’s essentially an average of everybody’s personal attraction to everybody else. But exceptions exist. Right now, there’s a GigaStacy out there who would think you are attractive for her. In which case she’d date you.

 

[basedblackpiller]

1. PSL =/= Appeal: the term in context is appeal
2. Subjective Appeal vs Appeal relative to society:
Women and guys have types. A guy might only have appeal that has equivalent rarity of LTN (PSL), but he can attract a girl who has equivalent rarity of Stacy (PSL), if he is her type.
Appeal relative to society is a correlation, it’s essentially an average of everybody’s personal attraction to everybody else. But exceptions exist. Right now, there’s a GigaStacy out there who would think you are attractive for her. In which case she’d date you.

So let’s say out in public you see a girl who is objectively facially a stacy with a guy who is objectively a subhuman. Just based on that, you can’t predict whether or not there is genuine attraction in the relationship? I mean a Stacy can maybe let a subhuman hit one time because of many reasons but to maintain a relationship with attraction is much harder

 

[greycel]

So let’s say out in public you see a girl who is objectively facially a stacy with a guy who is objectively a subhuman. Just based on that, you can’t predict whether or not there is genuine attraction in the relationship? I mean a Stacy can maybe let a subhuman hit one time because of many reasons but to maintain a relationship with attraction is much harder

Exactly, the subhuman can be exactly her type
According to everybody else in society, the subhuman scores low for appeal on average. So when they see him with her, they project either what they assume society thinks of him on average, or what they personally think of him (which will follow society’s likely).
But she’s in the extreme end for him (in terms of rarity), for girls who find him appealing

Subjective types >> “objective” types

The only people who value the other way, will get with somebody for social validation. Equivalent to guys who get a trophy wife for example, or modern day women who’ll go for a Chad that they might not be entirely into, just because other people are

 

[basedblackpiller]

Exactly, the subhuman can be exactly her type
According to everybody else in society, the subhuman scores low for appeal on average. So when they see him with her, they project either what they assume society thinks of him on average, or what they personally think of him (which will follow society’s likely).
But she’s in the extreme end for him (in terms of rarity), for girls who find him appealing

Subjective types >> “objective” types

The only people who value the other way, will get with somebody for social validation. Equivalent to guys who get a trophy wife for example, or modern day women who’ll go for a Chad that they might not be entirely into, just because other people are

What if there is no initial attraction between the guy and the girl? For example they are just around each other a lot because of circumstance like social circle or work and decide to date, and the girl didn’t initially have any inherent physical attraction to the guy. Just thought he was average or slightly below average looking and she is a Stacy. Without that initial attraction can the guy ever experience the same attraction that a chad would have? Or no matter how much time is spent in the relationship, without inherent physical attraction it’s not possible to have the same feelings

 

[greycel]

What if there is no initial attraction between the guy and the girl? For example they are just around each other a lot because of circumstance like social circle or work and decide to date, and the girl didn’t initially have any inherent physical attraction to the guy. Just thought he was average or slightly below average looking and she is a Stacy. Without that initial attraction can the guy ever experience the same attraction that a chad would have? Or no matter how much time is spent in the relationship, without inherent physical attraction it’s not possible to have the same feelings

You mean can she love the guy to the level she loves a Chad?
Yes.
It’s just the value in her eyes is not limited to the guy’s looks. It actually is a deeper form of love than just physical
Physical should only ever be for the entry
If the girl only likes you (or largely likes you), because of your appearance, It just feels empty.
It’s the same as a girl liking you for your money, just your looks have more permanence. But ultimately, it’s just your carcass at the end of the day
She doesn’t like the real you, just the you on display. You get into an accident and looks suddenly go, how long do you think she’s sticking around? You’ll find out very quickly you wasted your entire life, because she never loved the real you

A Chad has the risk of running into these types of superficial women. A guy like you are describing would not. She truly loves the dude