What is your purpose?

[one job away]

I realised I'm here cuz I lack a purpose.
I don't enjoy what I do. I only do it cuz i have to do something. I devolved a oneitis to fill that void. Made her my purpose. That lack of purpose alongside other mental issues makes me rot, even more depressed and waste my time on forums like this. It's a nice time waste to not think about that I have nothing I strive for. I will hit on my oneitis once I get the chance but I know now that's not the issue. The issue is that I live a life which I don't want and I don't know what I want.

So I'm asking you. What do you guys want? What's your purpose?

 

[Deleted member 11748]

I dont need a purpose; I just exist.

 

[Deleted member 10524]

No one has ever figured out that question, people who think they have worship made up religions or are in a cult

The best answer you’ll probably get is to just reproduce

 

[Bitch]

No one truly knows their purpose, that's just how humans are. Our mindset is constantly changing as we are getting older and gain more knowledge and experience in life, so are our goals.

 

[one job away]

No one has ever figured out that question, people who think they have worship made up religions or are in a cult

Then how do ppl tackle everyday life? I can’t do shit without starting to imagine a life with her. Everything I do is a drag. I don’t have a goal to achieve. I don’t do it for me. I do it for some weird fantasy.

 

[one job away]

No one truly knows their purpose, that's just how humans are. Our mindset is constantly changing as we are getting older and gain more knowledge and experience in life, so are our goals.

My goal would be to have her in my life to make her happy. What cucked mindset is that???? I am studying to have money but why? I don’t enjoy going on holidays for myself. I don’t enjoy going on holidays with friends. I don’t enjoy looksmaxing to make myself better looking for myself I don’t enjoy anything. I want to look better for her. Want to go on amazing holidays with her. I want to go shopping and provide for her. Someone get me out of that cucked mindset. I need to do shit FOR ME FFS but I don’t know how

 

[Yliaster]

 

[one job away]

Exactly

 

[Bitch]

My goal would be to have her in my life to make her happy. What cucked mindset is that???? I am studying to have money but why? I don’t enjoy going on holidays for myself. I don’t enjoy going on holidays with friends. I don’t enjoy looksmaxing to make myself better looking for myself I don’t enjoy anything. I want to look better for her. Want to go on amazing holidays with her. I want to go shopping and provide for her. Someone get me out of that cucked mindset. I need to do shit FOR ME FFS but I don’t know how

I get you man, it's hard to not get attached to a woman unless you're some chad that women constantly throw themselves at, then you don't really care about one woman

 

[Deleted member 12827]

No one has purpose, we are just a consciousness rotting in a flesh vessel until we die. The media controls the sheep, and humans are kept in 9-5 bondage. There is nothing to really do in this life.

 

[zikzog]

My goal would be to have her in my life to make her happy. What cucked mindset is that???? I am studying to have money but why? I don’t enjoy going on holidays for myself. I don’t enjoy going on holidays with friends. I don’t enjoy looksmaxing to make myself better looking for myself I don’t enjoy anything. I want to look better for her. Want to go on amazing holidays with her. I want to go shopping and provide for her. Someone get me out of that cucked mindset. I need to do shit FOR ME FFS but I don’t know how

You do it cause you realise it will benefit you in the long run, it isn't easy but you can get out of the mindset. You haven't looked deep enough into the blackpill to be fully aware of a woman's nature. You still put a halo on her head, everyone's guilty of it, they like to see the best of someone they adore even if the red flags they produce are numerous. You project an image of perfection onto her without seeing her flaws. Once you truly know the nature of people and how we function. You'll be sad that love doesn't exist but you'll be happy that you can stop chasing dreams and start living.

 

[one job away]

You do it cause you realise it will benefit you in the long run, it isn't easy but you can get out of the mindset. You haven't looked deep enough into the blackpill to be fully aware of a woman's nature. You still put a halo on her head, everyone's guilty of it, they like to see the best of someone they adore even if the red flags they produce are numerous. You project an image of perfection onto her without seeing her flaws. Once you truly know the nature of people and how we function. You'll be sad that love doesn't exist but you'll be happy that you can stop chasing dreams and start living.

What means living for you? I have the options to fuck mediocre woman. I’m not an incel. I don’t enjoy it. I couldn’t even fuck hotties rn. I can’t get out of the oneitis mindset. Rn All I do is either drug myself to numb my mind or rot and waste my time on this forum. I force myself to educate myself in my job field to be better at it but I have no passion for it. I don’t see the point and I don’t see a reward. It’s hard to do anything without a reward. My reward is making my fantasy oneitis happy

 

[one job away]

You do it cause you realise it will benefit you in the long run, it isn't easy but you can get out of the mindset. You haven't looked deep enough into the blackpill to be fully aware of a woman's nature. You still put a halo on her head, everyone's guilty of it, they like to see the best of someone they adore even if the red flags they produce are numerous. You project an image of perfection onto her without seeing her flaws. Once you truly know the nature of people and how we function. You'll be sad that love doesn't exist but you'll be happy that you can stop chasing dreams and start living.

I don’t even put a halo above her. I don’t think she I perfect. I know she isn’t the most beatiful person. I just don’t enjoy anything without her. At least in my head. You are telling me to realize she isn’t perfect and enjoy my life. But I don’t enjoy my life. I enjoy her company.

that’s how I truly think. Then I watched a video saying that EXACTLY that means I lack purpose. And I do. I don’t have a goal and making her life good was my made up goal. I know I have to shift my mindset but I don’t enjoy things on my own. You see the difference ? I don’t say she is perfect. I say I don’t enjoy anything without her company

 

[one job away]

You do it cause you realise it will benefit you in the long run, it isn't easy but you can get out of the mindset. You haven't looked deep enough into the blackpill to be fully aware of a woman's nature. You still put a halo on her head, everyone's guilty of it, they like to see the best of someone they adore even if the red flags they produce are numerous. You project an image of perfection onto her without seeing her flaws. Once you truly know the nature of people and how we function. You'll be sad that love doesn't exist but you'll be happy that you can stop chasing dreams and start living.

Nono you are right.

If I imagine I would be a topmodel and she would go for me cuz of my looks I wouldn't value her as much... you are right.

However now I'm left with that empty void again of having no goal. No enjoyment. Nothing that I want to do.

 

[Deleted member 13226]

I used to be a super nationalist i was so into it i was planning a terror attack on one of my neighbour countries. Now i am just a le inkler, hanging out in inkler discords, having a group belonging is super important for me tbh, i go insane otherwise

 

[zikzog]

Nono you are right.

If I imagine I would be a topmodel and she would go for me cuz of my looks I wouldn't value her as much... you are right.

However now I'm left with that empty void again of having no goal. No enjoyment. Nothing that I want to do.

Different things work differently for people. Tbh I think purpose only applies to select people. Quite a lot of people do work and enjoy life by coping in their down time (Netflix porn games). So there isn't anything wrong with doing that. But if you think you are the kind of person who needs a purpose then just try new things out.

Tbh it sounds like you got some major depression, so really solving that would be a great start. Sticking as best you can to a schedule little by little, eating better, exercise etc. I personally wouldn't take medication but therapy and stuff can help. I'm not a mental health expert but there is a disorder of some sort so go to a therapist and ask for help.

 

[Deleted member 32669]

Then how do ppl tackle everyday life? I can’t do shit without starting to imagine a life with her. Everything I do is a drag. I don’t have a goal to achieve. I don’t do it for me. I do it for some weird fantasy.

this. that attitude got me to hong kong from middle east. I went there to meet this 'chinese - british' girl.