What level is this rejection at?

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Well, I went to a Christian retreat at the beginning of this month, and there a girl commented about me with her friends. Then a friend advised me to follow her on Instagram, we arranged a meeting, and during that same day, we hooked up. Before the meeting ended, she invited me for the next week. However, our second meeting was postponed because she had some unforeseen circumstances, but she already rescheduled it for the next Sunday, which also had another unforeseen event. From there, she seemed to have become very sad, and I was confused and unsure. Our last interaction was this past Monday, when she liked a song I posted on Instagram. The thing is, we don't talk much through messages, usually just before meetings happen, and most of the time, I’m the one who starts the conversation. Also, she takes quite a long time to reply. I want to know if there’s a way out in these cases. A friend advised me to stop and give her space, and that’s what I’m doing. If she comes back, it’s because she has genuine interest. Do you think this is a good way out?
 
bro i dont think users are srs gonna read this lol
 
Read it all.
You sound autistic, what is your goal with her?
 
Well, I went to a Christian retreat at the beginning of this month, and there a girl commented about me with her friends. Then a friend advised me to follow her on Instagram, we arranged a meeting, and during that same day, we hooked up. Before the meeting ended, she invited me for the next week. However, our second meeting was postponed because she had some unforeseen circumstances, but she already rescheduled it for the next Sunday, which also had another unforeseen event. From there, she seemed to have become very sad, and I was confused and unsure. Our last interaction was this past Monday, when she liked a song I posted on Instagram. The thing is, we don't talk much through messages, usually just before meetings happen, and most of the time, I’m the one who starts the conversation. Also, she takes quite a long time to reply. I want to know if there’s a way out in these cases. A friend advised me to stop and give her space, and that’s what I’m doing. If she comes back, it’s because she has genuine interest. Do you think this is a good way out?
Read it all.
You sound autistic, what is your goal with her?
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Well, I went to a Christian retreat at the beginning of this month, and there a girl commented about me with her friends. Then a friend advised me to follow her on Instagram, we arranged a meeting, and during that same day, we hooked up. Before the meeting ended, she invited me for the next week. However, our second meeting was postponed because she had some unforeseen circumstances, but she already rescheduled it for the next Sunday, which also had another unforeseen event. From there, she seemed to have become very sad, and I was confused and unsure. Our last interaction was this past Monday, when she liked a song I posted on Instagram. The thing is, we don't talk much through messages, usually just before meetings happen, and most of the time, I’m the one who starts the conversation. Also, she takes quite a long time to reply. I want to know if there’s a way out in these cases. A friend advised me to stop and give her space, and that’s what I’m doing. If she comes back, it’s because she has genuine interest. Do you think this is a good way out?
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