What made you realize you had to lock in?

[heilosirix]

I feel like we all had one cannon event that made us realize we had to lock in and try hard to ascend or at least change. I'm genuinely curious cause mines was the lack of female attention and always living in my friends shadow. An example would be girls would message me not to talk but to ask if my friend is single you know embarrassing that is

 

[klyro]

my only friends were upperclass goth girls

 

[MixedBoyo12]

wasn’t an issue of girls as I wasn’t a trucel when I joined, but definitely just wanted to improve the quality of women I could get and always wanted to ensure I was her number one priority wether it’s just fwb or even potentially some ltr, I’d say I also wanted to never felt like I was beneath anyone unless they purely height mogged me even tho I’m 6 foot and then taller with shoes, but also seeing the horrific hypergamous landscape you basically have no choice

 

[heilosirix]

wasn’t an issue of girls as I wasn’t a trucel when I joined, but definitely just wanted to improve the quality of women I could and always wanted to ensure I was her number one priority wether it’s just fwb or even potentially some ltr

Honestly i fully get that u dont wanna be a backup

 

[MixedBoyo12]

Honestly i fully get that u dont wanna be a backup

It’s funny cus I knew of the bp years ago, my issue was I jsut had bad health markers, didn’t groom well, and just didn’t have enough exposure as I did back in high school, but then that summer i thought I could break out the BP only to get hit down to earth, then i thought “I can just self improve again” only to realize i was wasting time on things that didn’t matter besides LM, and i regret not realizing how I could ascend earlier as I at the time had the funds and time for surgery, but basically a year ago early in the year I had gone on this date and she was all over me on text, but when we met irl I realized she just wanted free coffee and wanted me to jester then that same day after I hit my gymgoy session, Rehab room had popped up in my feed and basically I knew it was time for real change

 

[Clqs]

Lock in bro