What to say when you approach women

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Since im a ugly ltn borderline truecel subhuman abomination i only get approached or get IOS a few times a year, so ill have to cold approach 99% of the times on nights out otherwise im completely invisible.

The problem is that my ugly ass, doesn’t know what to say, so i just walk up to a girl and i just straight up ask for their number/snapchat or if they’re single. about half the times i get their numbers/snapchat that don’t lead to anything ofcourse, and if the stars are aligned im a lucky incel that gets to makeout with them maybe 5% of the time.

Yesterday I approached a group of four girls and asked each of them separately for their numbers or if they’re single, they all scanned my faces for 1-2 seconds and immediately told me no with a horrified and disgusted look on their faces.

but the last one told me before rejecting me, that it’s weird asf to immediately ask for her number. If it’s true what she said, what should a ugly guy say to strike up a conversation instead of asking for their number immediately?

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You say nothing. If you are handsome they will ask online about you.
 
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But if you were subhuman you wouldn’t get any approaches or iois
 
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Asking for the number right away is pretty aspie. If you're going to do that, you're better off slipping them your number. I imagine the success rate on that will be low if sub-chad, though. If you're going for numbers, you need to small talk a bit first. The flake rate will still be astronomical, but you will get a lot of numbers just from small talk>number approaches. If you're serious about slaying, though, you shouldn't care about numbers. Instead, small talk and then ask them back to your place. That gives way better results.
 
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Does chatting for a bit then adding work :feelshehe:
 
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- Say hello and refer to something specific you notice about her
- tell her why you approached her
- introduce yourself and start a little small talk

e.g.
"Hey, girl in the [color] dress/shirt/shoes"
"I've seen you from over there and you looked interesting to talk to"
"I'm [name], what brings you here today/what are you up to?"
 
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Give up on whores and just LDAR, especially if you're ugly how you describe.
 
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Give up on whores and just LDAR, especially if you're ugly how you describe.
LDAR isn't an option, the fatties ain't gonna fuck themselves.
Fat Girl Dancing GIF by The Maury Show
 
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Asking for the number right away is pretty aspie. If you're going to do that, you're better off slipping them your number. I imagine the success rate on that will be low if sub-chad, though. If you're going for numbers, you need to small talk a bit first. The flake rate will still be astronomical, but you will get a lot of numbers just from small talk>number approaches. If you're serious about slaying, though, you shouldn't care about numbers. Instead, small talk and then ask them back to your place. That gives way better results.
Nigga they will think hes a creep:lul:
 
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LDAR isn't an option, the fatties ain't gonna fuck themselves.
Fat Girl Dancing GIF by The Maury Show
Nah being a lone rotting loser feels amazing, going out for a hike while meditating about your shit life brings much joy to me.
Never step out of your comfort zone and never defile yourself through bitches and normies
 
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Asking for the number right away is pretty aspie. If you're going to do that, you're better off slipping them your number. I imagine the success rate on that will be low if sub-chad, though. If you're going for numbers, you need to small talk a bit first. The flake rate will still be astronomical, but you will get a lot of numbers just from small talk>number approaches. If you're serious about slaying, though, you shouldn't care about numbers. Instead, small talk and then ask them back to your place. That gives way better results.
I know
But my incel brain can’t make anything up at all, so ill have to straight up ask for their numbers since I can’t do small talk
- Say hello and refer to something specific thing you notice about her
- tell her why you approached her
- introduce yourself and start a little small talk

e.g.
"Hey, girl in the [color] dress/shirt/shoes"
"I've seen you from over there and you looked interesting to talk to"
"I'm [name], what brings you here today/what are you up to?"
Legit
Ive never been able to do that with women, my mind goes completely blank and i can only mutter the words: can i maybe get your number
 
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Nah being a lone rotting loser feels amazing, going out for a hike while meditating about your shit life brings much joy to me.
Never step out of your comfort zone and never defile yourself through bitches and normies
Loser cuck cope mentality
You’ll regret it the rest of your life once you’re not young anymore

Muh muh meditating on a hike because im afraid of the real world and a bottle pissing ldar incel who has given up on life and is too high inhib to step out of his comfort zone

Sounds like a recipe for chronic regret and early suicide
 
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Loser cuck cope mentality
You’ll regret it the rest of your life once you’re not young anymore

Muh muh meditating on a hike because im afraid of the real world and a bottle pissing ldar incel who has given up on life and is too high inhib to step out of his comfort zone

Sounds like a recipe for chronic regret and early suicide
Mogs being a whoremongerer and jester
 
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If you ever get approached by women then you're definitely not below average looking lol. Maybe it's different where you live compared to my country (Sweden), but it's very rare to get approached here, even for good looking guys.

You mention doing it on nights out, exactly where are you approaching them? Is it like at a club/bar or is it on the street?
 
If you ever get approached by women then you're definitely not below average looking lol. Maybe it's different where you live compared to my country (Sweden), but it's very rare to get approached here, even for good looking guys.

You mention doing it on nights out, exactly where are you approaching them? Is it like at a club/bar or is it on the street?
In a club
I go towards them when i see them and ask for their number

Im definitely far and far below average, i got rejected by a 150kg+ ssbbw in her 40s when i approached her on the street.
 
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Ive never been able to do that with women, my mind goes completely blank and i can only mutter the words: can i maybe get your number
Its all practice, I‘m also secretly an introverted sperg.
 
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In a club
I go towards them when i see them and ask for their number

Im definitely far and far below average, i got rejected by a 150kg+ ssbbw in her 40s when i approached her on the street.
Ok yeah, approaching like that in a club is way less likely to work than doing it normally from my experience having gotten laid 6 times from clubbing. By normally I mean just making simple NPC normie small talk for like 5-ish minutes before asking for their snap or number. I wouldn't talk for longer than that though, since it increases the chance of her friends cockblocking you in middle of convo.

Just remember that you can't say anything to a girl to make her wanna fuck you from approaching, it's purely about your looks and not being an autistic weirdo. That's all you can do for getting laid (legally). Just play the numbers game and hope you find a woman who finds your looks sexually attractive, and behave like a normal NT person while pursuing her.

Btw never wait the next day to contact them on snap, trust me I have done it maybe like 15 times and it always ends up in them quickly ignoring you. I got laid once doing that but it worked because she was a non-whore (very low snap score) and likely wasn't that drunk. In general you need to try to bang them on the same night.
 
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Since im a ugly ltn borderline truecel subhuman abomination i only get approached or get IOS a few times a year, so ill have to cold approach 99% of the times on nights out otherwise im completely invisible.

The problem is that my ugly ass, doesn’t know what to say, so i just walk up to a girl and i just straight up ask for their number/snapchat or if they’re single. about half the times i get their numbers/snapchat that don’t lead to anything ofcourse, and if the stars are aligned im a lucky incel that gets to makeout with them maybe 5% of the time.

Yesterday I approached a group of four girls and asked each of them separately for their numbers or if they’re single, they all scanned my faces for 1-2 seconds and immediately told me no with a horrified and disgusted look on their faces.

but the last one told me before rejecting me, that it’s weird asf to immediately ask for her number. If it’s true what she said, what should a ugly guy say to strike up a conversation instead of asking for their number immediately?

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If that's the first thing you say it is weird nigga

Get their names first ffs :lul:

But of course,

if chad then she wouldn't say that to you

she couldnt. As she'd already have a mouthful of your cock and be on her knees
 
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Ok yeah, approaching like that in a club is way less likely to work than doing it normally from my experience having gotten laid 6 times from clubbing. By normally I mean just making simple NPC normie small talk for like 5-ish minutes before asking for their snap or number. I wouldn't talk for longer than that though, since it increases the chance of her friends cockblocking you in middle of convo.
Yeah i get it bro, but what do you say when you approach them? And what should you talk about further?
Just remember that you can't say anything to a girl to make her wanna fuck you from approaching, it's purely about your looks and not being an autistic weirdo. That's all you can do for getting laid (legally). Just play the numbers game and hope you find a woman who finds your looks sexually attractive, and behave like a normal NT person while pursuing her.
Legit
Btw never wait the next day to contact them on snap, trust me I have done it maybe like 15 times and it always ends up in them quickly ignoring you. I got laid once doing that but it worked because she was a non-whore (very low snap score) and likely wasn't that drunk. In general you need to try to bang them on the same night.
I always text them within 10 min of getting their number to know if they’re interested or if they only gave their number/snap because of getting rid of a subhuman approaching them.

I know, texting them the day after is pointless and goes nowhere
 
Since im a ugly ltn borderline truecel subhuman abomination i only get approached or get IOS a few times a year, so ill have to cold approach 99% of the times on nights out otherwise im completely invisible.

The problem is that my ugly ass, doesn’t know what to say, so i just walk up to a girl and i just straight up ask for their number/snapchat or if they’re single. about half the times i get their numbers/snapchat that don’t lead to anything ofcourse, and if the stars are aligned im a lucky incel that gets to makeout with them maybe 5% of the time.

Yesterday I approached a group of four girls and asked each of them separately for their numbers or if they’re single, they all scanned my faces for 1-2 seconds and immediately told me no with a horrified and disgusted look on their faces.

but the last one told me before rejecting me, that it’s weird asf to immediately ask for her number. If it’s true what she said, what should a ugly guy say to strike up a conversation instead of asking for their number immediately?

@6ft4
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You really did this man
Approaching as a LTN and asking right away her number
 
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Since im a ugly ltn borderline truecel subhuman abomination i only get approached or get IOS a few times a year, so ill have to cold approach 99% of the times on nights out otherwise im completely invisible.

The problem is that my ugly ass, doesn’t know what to say, so i just walk up to a girl and i just straight up ask for their number/snapchat or if they’re single. about half the times i get their numbers/snapchat that don’t lead to anything ofcourse, and if the stars are aligned im a lucky incel that gets to makeout with them maybe 5% of the time.

Yesterday I approached a group of four girls and asked each of them separately for their numbers or if they’re single, they all scanned my faces for 1-2 seconds and immediately told me no with a horrified and disgusted look on their faces.

but the last one told me before rejecting me, that it’s weird asf to immediately ask for her number. If it’s true what she said, what should a ugly guy say to strike up a conversation instead of asking for their number immediately?

@6ft4
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@vinn98
My pickup line in the club is walking up to a girl and saying "I think every girl in this club is ugly except you". They usually laugh and then the convo can flow from there.
 
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You really did this man
Approaching as a LTN and asking right away her number
I’ve done this legit over 50+ times so far
I dunno what to say so that’s the only thing i can come up with.

So far only 3 girls have told me it was weird and asked me wtf i was doing, 2 off them gave me their number afterwards, but after it happening again yesterday I strarted thinking i should approach in a different way, since the face the girl made was horrific, like i was some cockroach she wanted to stomp on

Also i refuse to LDAR as a ugly male
 
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My pickup line in the club is walking up to a girl and saying "I think every girl in this club is ugly except you". They usually laugh and then the convo can flow from there.
You know what your talking about as a serial spam approacher.
 
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In a club
I go towards them when i see them and ask for their number

Im definitely far and far below average, i got rejected by a 150kg+ ssbbw in her 40s when i approached her on the street.
bbws have high standards too
 
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My pickup line in the club is walking up to a girl and saying "I think every girl in this club is ugly except you". They usually laugh and then the convo can flow from there.
not even as autistic as one might think at first glance. I can see this working, but only if her female friends, which she's probably there with, don't hear you.

otherwise her fat and ugly friends will light you up.
 
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be chadlite+ and u will not have to worry about this
 

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