What was the worst experience/situation you ever had in life?

[Bewusst]

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inb4 muh oneitis ignored my snapchat message

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just move along

 

[Bewusst]

@Titbot

 

[Titbot]

@Titbot

My mom passing away

 

[Deleted member 11748]

I said I wanted to poop in front of my class in 5th grade

 

[Deleted member 7192]

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inb4 muh oneitis ignored my snapchat message

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just move along

Depends, I have one for every aspect of life like girls and shit

The one I can remember most right now is almost drowning when I was 6, after like 15 seconds of flapping my arms around and trying to scream I just accepted it was wraps for me

 

[Bewusst]

My mom passing away

Sorry for your loss. When did she pass?

 

[Titbot]

Sorry for your loss. When did she pass?

Last year around December. Thx man

 

[Bewusst]

Last year around December. Thx man

December 2020 was a crap month. Can't be compared to what you've been through but it turned my life upside down too. Did you live with her?

 

[Gonthar]

The one I can remember most right now is almost drowning when I was 6, after like 15 seconds of flapping my arms around and trying to scream I just accepted it was wraps for me

And what happened after that?

 

[lutte]

Idk, all my life has been bad/mediocre at best
But I suppose when I was sick as a child

 

[Bewusst]

Idk, all my life has been bad/mediocre at best
But I suppose when I was sick as a child

Elab?

 

[Deleted member 10652]

And what happened after that?

He died.

 

[lutte]

Elab?

Pm

 

[Gonthar]

Elab?

That's sad...

 

[Deleted member 6273]

idk i'm pretty nonchalant thinking about past experiences, maybe my dogs dying back to back

 

[Bewusst]

Pm

I only now realized you weren't @Intjcel lol, your pfp is confusing

 

[Growth Plate]

The one I can remember most right now is almost drowning when I was 6, after like 15 seconds of flapping my arms around and trying to scream I just accepted it was wraps for me

black people can't swim

 

[Titbot]

December 2020 was a crap month. Can't be compared to what you've been through but it turned my life upside down too. Did you live with her?

No

 

[Deleted member 7192]

black people can't swim

No

 

[Growth Plate]

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inb4 muh oneitis ignored my snapchat message

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just move along

When Uncle Ben died.

 

[Titbot]

December 2020 was a crap month. Can't be compared to what you've been through but it turned my life upside down too. Did you live with her?

Sorry to hear about the Botox shit

 

[Deleted member 7192]

And what happened after that?

Well I'm still here so I got saved jfl

 

[Deleted member 9670]

I only now realized you weren't @Intjcel lol, your pfp is confusing

He confused me too

 

[Deleted member 12216]

There where a lot. Most brutal one was probably a random woman looking at me with disgust in the train for 10 minutes straight and whenever I looked back she would make puking gestics. She was like 45. I was indeed very ugly at 14-17. That happened during a time where I got rejected and humiliated on a daily basis at school.

Fuck it tho nowadays I mog.

 

[Bewusst]

There where a lot. Most brutal one was probably a random woman looking at me with disgust in the train for 10 minutes straight and whenever I looked back she would make puking gestics. She was like 45. I was indeed very ugly at 14-17. That happened during a time where I got rejected and humiliated on a daily basis at school.

Fuck it tho nowadays I mog.

If that actually was your worst experience, your life seems like paradise to me

 

[Gargantuan]

Probably stuff related to asthma.

I remember one time I had a severe asthma attack whilst I was showering, so I literally had to rush out of the shower and get to room asap to get my inhaler, I legit thought I wasn't gonna make it in time and pass out. Thankfully I just got there in time.

On another instance, I caught a bad flu and I had trouble breathing again because of it, so much so that I had to go to the hospital where they discovered that the oxygen levels in my blood had dropped to 80%, had to stay there for a day.

 

[Bewusst]

Probably stuff related to asthma.

I remember one time I had a severe asthma attack whilst I was showering, so I literally had to rush out of the shower and get to room asap to get my inhaler, I legit thought I wasn't gonna make it in time and pass out. Thankfully I just got there in time.

On another instance, I caught a bad flu and I had trouble breathing again because of it, so much so that I had to go to the hospital where they discovered that the oxygen levels in my blood had dropped to 80%, had to stay there for a day.

Can relate to not being able to breathe

 

[Deleted member 12216]

If that actually was your worst experience, your life seems like paradise to me

My worst looksbased experience. Won't tell other experiences as this is a looksmaxing forum jfl

 

[Bewusst]

Won't tell other experiences as this is a looksmaxing forum jfl

Graycel moment... This is the offtopic section, we can discuss whatever the hell we want here

 

[volcelfatcel]

Lots of shit experiences but overhearing my mom say they wanted a daughter instead of me, pretty much fits perfectly as I have no pictures of me as a baby and as a kid but my other two brothers have collections and videos. Bit brutal I try to ignore it but that might have been the moment that I became distant from them.

 

[Tusseleif]

Probably when I was a kid and went swimming then I swam under this big floating thing and couldn’t find my way out, don’t want to complain much when others have it much worse

 

[Bewusst]

Lots of shit experiences but overhearing my mom say they wanted a daughter instead of me, pretty much fits perfectly as I have no pictures of me as a baby and as a kid but my other two brothers have collections and videos. Bit brutal I try to ignore it but that might have been the moment that I became distant from them.

My mom used to say this sometimes too

 

[Ocelot]

I don't know actually, nothing comes to mind immediately.
My life has been pretty textbook for all of my 17 years, if something bad happened I probably forgot about it.

I could say it's when I fractured my skull when I was 2 and had surgery without any anaesthesia (was too young apparently), but I don't even remember how that feels. My mom says I was screaming all through though.

 

[Deleted member 11414]

Being alive

 

[Bewusst]

I don't know actually, nothing comes to mind immediately.
My life has been pretty textbook for all of my 17 years, if something bad happened I probably forgot about it.

I could say it's when I fractured my skull when I was 2 and had surgery without any anaesthesia (was too young apparently), but I don't even remember how that feels. My mom says I was screaming all through though.

It's remarkable how much crap I've had to deal with compared to most of you guys. Social outcast for the majority of my life, close to death, diagnosed with an incurable disease, messed up family background, uglier than most, homeless for a while, living in really bad conditions with fucked up people for years etc., to this day almost nothing has been normal or easy in my life. The only time life was somewhat normal for me was when I was 16 years old but this didn't last long

 

[Ocelot]

It's remarkable how much crap I've had to deal with compared to most of you guys. Social outcast for the majority of my life, close to death, diagnosed with an incurable disease, messed up family background, uglier than most, homeless for a while, living in really bad conditions with fucked up people for years etc., to this day almost nothing has been normal or easy in my life. The only time life was somewhat normal for me was when I was 16 years old but this didn't last long

Sad shit tbh, I do consider myself fortunate in some areas.

Most of my concerns are looks-related now.

uglier than most

That's a lie, I've seen your face and from what I remember you're above average.

 

[Rabbi]

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inb4 muh oneitis ignored my snapchat message

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just move along

When I came to the realisation that my hair wasn’t growing back

 

[Deleted member 4430]

It's remarkable how much crap I've had to deal with compared to most of you guys. Social outcast for the majority of my life, close to death, diagnosed with an incurable disease, messed up family background, uglier

than most, homeless for a while, living in really bad conditions with fucked up people for years etc., to this day almost nothing has been normal or easy in my life. The only time life was somewhat normal for me was when I was 16 years old but this didn't last long

why do you think you are some extraordinary exception? Most users here dont talk about their lives.

uglier than most

and yet you still managed to work in something that is by no means the worst and further supports your BDD

 

[eyelidcel]

losing my oneitis. In hindsight I guess I needed it.

 

[Bewusst]

That's a lie, I've seen your face and from what I remember you're above average.

No, unfrauded irl I'm not actually. You've only seen cherry picked pics. My face is extremely unproportional with zero dimorphism

 

[Deleted member 11053]

This tinnitus and tmj i have since January i still can't believe its real, my life really feel unreal its a real nightmare for me.

 

[Ocelot]

No, unfrauded irl I'm not actually. You've only seen cherry picked pics. My face is extremely unproportional with zero dimorphism

Nah just saw your passport pic when you were 21 rn, unless you were in a car crash you won't look too different from then.

Your only noticeable failos are eyebrows, hairline, and downturned lip commissures. Otherwise you have a decent eye area and bone structure, but covered by fat. You would be above average at a normal body fat level.

Everyone else on that thread said something similar, but you're in some mental state that makes you want to believe you're ugly.

 

[Bewusst]

why do you think you are some extraordinary exception? Most users here dont talk about their lives.

I was referring to what I've read on here so far. Not saying others don't have it bad but I can say with certainty that most people will never experience at least some of the things I did. And no, I'm neither tough nor do I consider myself a special snowflake, I'd much rather just live a normal life as an average 24 yo dude with regular ups and downs

 

[Bewusst]

and yet you still managed to work in something that is by no means the worst and further supports your BDD

Can you elaborate? No idea what you were trying to say

 

[Rabbi]

When I came to the realisation that my hair wasn’t growing back

Don’t react me I’m being serious

 

[Bewusst]

Nah just saw your passport pic when you were 21 rn, unless you were in a car crash you won't look too different from then.

Your only noticeable failos are eyebrows, hairline, and downturned lip commissures. Otherwise you have a decent eye area and bone structure, but covered by fat. You would be above average at a normal body fat level.

Everyone else on that thread said something similar, but you're in some mental state that makes you want to believe you're ugly.

That picture is two years old. I am lean now. Still ugly tho

 

[Deleted member 4014]

Getting falsely accused of rape after I cuddled a girl when we were both drunk at a party. Tried to escalate and she pulled away then I never touched her again, next morning she said I raped her and it got out to the entire school and everyone I knew saw me as a monster and started spreading rumours that I held her down. Went through 4 months of intense depression and depersonalisation and didn't tell anyone what happened for fear of them thinking of me as someone I wasn't. Worst period of my life so far. Taught me a lot about pack mentality and human behaviour tbh, turns out even people you've known for years and think you're good friends with can turn your back on you in an instant if it protects their social status.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Can you elaborate? No idea what you were trying to say

i saw some of your pics and yes you are not a model but you are definitely not below average. All the things you wrote in that post are quite unpleasant in real life and have some weight on the person. if you dont have a deformity, you can't call yourself: uglier than most. So either your BDD follows from the things that happened to you (like long time isolation) or youre just narcy.

There are people on this forum who have legitimate ugly features or are recessed.

 

[volcelfatcel]

My mom used to say this sometimes too

Bit brutal, also made me realize how easy life would be as a girl instead. I have had to work for every ounce of approval for my parents (I think my dad has hugged me twice in the last 10 years) if I was a woman my whole life would be of constant approval from parents and peers but I'm a man so I get none of that, I have no memories but shit ones from my parents early in my life I have no photos to show of me as a kid or any videos like a normal Nt human being, they used to sometimes take me out of the photo frame to take pics of my other 2 brothers.

 

[Bewusst]

i saw some of your pics and yes you are not a model but you are definitely not below average. All the things you wrote in that post are quite unpleasant in real life and have some weight on the person. if you dont have a deformity, you can't call yourself: uglier than most. So either your BDD follows from the things that happened to you (like long time isolation) or youre just narcy.

There are people on this forum who have legitimate ugly features or are recessed.

That's the point. You only saw cherrypicked pics of me, not me irl and unfrauded. Except from the ID picture, I only posted pics where I look at least somewhat okay. However, I am indeed uglier than most people. If you objectively compare my facial proportions irl to others, especially lips, forehead vs chin, bizygomatic/bigonial width and supraorbital complex (harmony in general), you would see a significant difference, at least for my gender. And I would consider my eyebrows and lips ugly features. You can't see how bad they really are in the pics I posted but I have no reason to lie or exaggerate. When I don't jut my jaw out, I do look slightly recessed, despite normal bite, mainly due to my lips, CW rotation and alveolar camouflage. If you don't believe me, that's okay. I don't need to justify myself. You, like most people here, have an inaccurate perception of my looks since you've only seen the pictures I wanted you to see