What would you do if your sibling got bullied?

[CalmFrog]

My younger brother (10) used to get bullied by a group of kids all of the time, not that harmless or verbal bullying the actual hardcore stuff, like getting held down and kicked or verbally assaulted (sexually) with words I as a university student have never used before, we moved him to a new school now.

But he now uses said words all the time with other kids at his new school, and has a huge tendency to lie about it, I know what iam supposed to do, but fuck I can't fathom how stressful it will be to actually remedy and address this behavior

I used to get bullied as a child but never to this degree, the problem is I can't tell if he's lying about the things that happened to him or not

 

[Incelforeever]

run away

 

[MixedMAscendingToCL]

be high T and beat tf out these bullies

 

[CalmFrog]

run away

be high T and beat tf out these bullies

I talked with my younger brother heart to heart and explained everything to him, it got to the point where his eyes teared up LMAO

I would like to thank both of you for your indirect help, I wouldn't have done it as soon as I did if it weren't for the run away comment

 

[Incelforeever]

I talked with my younger brother heart to heart and explained everything to him, it got to the point where his eyes teared up LMAO

I would like to thank both of you for your indirect help, I wouldn't have done it as soon as I did if it weren't for the run away comment

Glad I could be of help

 

[Grievous]

be high T and beat tf out these bullies

yes beating up 10 year olds is High T

 

[CalmFrog]

yes beating up 10 year olds is High T

be high T and beat tf out these bullies

I held myself back so many times lmao, one time I was legit about to punch the black kid that was the cause for many of my brothers problems

and Iam not a small man myself, I'am kind of short but I'am wide and have big forearms too, If I got to that kid I would've probably been serving time atm

 

[Deleted member 335020]

My younger brother (10) used to get bullied by a group of kids all of the time, not that harmless or verbal bullying the actual hardcore stuff, like getting held down and kicked or verbally assaulted (sexually) with words I as a university student have never used before, we moved him to a new school now.

But he now uses said words all the time with other kids at his new school, and has a huge tendency to lie about it, I know what iam supposed to do, but fuck I can't fathom how stressful it will be to actually remedy and address this behavior

I used to get bullied as a child but never to this degree, the problem is I can't tell if he's lying about the things that happened to him or not

so what r u gonna do jfl

 

[copemaxxing123]

Go kill them with your hands

 

[CalmFrog]

so what r u gonna do jfl

I Tried to teach him the idea of good and bad and the difference between being a good person and a bad person into my 10 year old brothers smooth brain, while also telling him that what he did wasn't wrong and it doesn't define him, its what he does from this point on that counts

I also taught him the difference between normal cussing and absolute unexcusable cussing, told him its ok and normal to cuss but the latter has no excuse, it took me 10 minutes to get that idea through his head

also I made sure that he understood that he's lost our collective trust and were all disappointed in his actions, but we dont hate him nor think of him differently, we are trying and we want to believe him and stand by his side without a single question asked, but hell have to work hard to Gain it back

I talked to him in a way where I simplified the ideas and gave examples from my own childhood, but I didnt baby talk him, I made sure that he understood what I was saying and not just memorizing it,
I felt my cortusual spike with each topic lmao, there were cameras at the school he held a shoe tie next to someone's neck and it legit looked like he was about to strangle him


he understood it, iam sure of it.

 

[MixedMAscendingToCL]

yes beating up 10 year olds is High T

steroids level of T

 

[ICXCLuvr]

My younger brother (10) used to get bullied by a group of kids all of the time, not that harmless or verbal bullying the actual hardcore stuff, like getting held down and kicked or verbally assaulted (sexually) with words I as a university student have never used before, we moved him to a new school now.

But he now uses said words all the time with other kids at his new school, and has a huge tendency to lie about it, I know what iam supposed to do, but fuck I can't fathom how stressful it will be to actually remedy and address this behavior

I used to get bullied as a child but never to this degree, the problem is I can't tell if he's lying about the things that happened to him or not

Go to the school to confront the little bully

 

[CloudyCuck]

Unfortunately there is no simple answer. If he doesnt have a crowd of his own i would suggest still fighting back but running when they group up. You could also fuck a few of them up or talk to their parents