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copingvolcel
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The thing I realized just recently about being a normie is it doesn't mean you get no women, it just means you don't attract the hot stacies you're probably aiming for. But you probably attract LTB and at best MTB, but if like me, you have high standards, you might just reject them thinking it would be a waste, that you deserve the really hot girls.
And also, over the years I quickly realized that relationships a huge pain to deal with, you have the drama, the risk of being cheated on, the co-dependency, the money spent, the time spent, the overall commitment of having to meet her family regularly, the pressure of getting married, the pressure of having children, the risk of accidentally impregnating her, the risk of her having mental issues she didn't know about or hid from you, and that's just scratching the surface of all the risks you have to deal with.
And in the end, what do you have as a reward for all this stress, hassle and time investment?
A bit of sex once in a while maybe (like a few times per week or every day if you live together maybe), until you get married and have kids and stop having sex for the rest of your life, except maybe once a year if you're lucky. But people don't mind that because the focus of the relationship is always the romance aspect, but I've never cared about that except when I was like 12-13.
And, as men, it's our duty to make the first move of asking women out, and getting them into bed, and then it's their duty to make sure we commit to them, that's how it has gone down for all of time.
But me personally I don't see the point in going through the trouble of asking LTB and MTB out on dates and going through all the sacrifices just for sex with a girl I'm not even that attracted to, and romance that I'm not really interested in. Instead, I generally just jerk off to a HTB or stacy pornstar and that takes care of the issue. If I desperately needed romantic love, I would feel lonely but I don't. I've seen guys in the Nofap community saying that the high standards are a result of watching too much porn, so what they do is they don't jerk off and after like 4 months of abstinence, they get so desperate they end up hooking up with an obese woman, and they quickly regret it afterwards. You would think that post nut clarity only happens in porn but no, and when it happens with a real girl I think it would be much worse.
Some would say I'm coping. Truth is, I see people I know who are in relationships, and I'm glad I'm not them, I'm glad I don't have to deal with all this drama for almost nothing, I'm happy for them but I would never want to be them. However, I am still looksmaxxing, mainly gymmaxxing, because I think it will make me more likely to get to a point where I can easily hookup with HTB and stacies regularly in maybe 1-3 years. That has always been a goal of mine of filling out my frame and slaying, but if my expectations don't become a reality when I do fill out my frame, at least I will have a great physique and that is enough of an achievement for me.
And also, over the years I quickly realized that relationships a huge pain to deal with, you have the drama, the risk of being cheated on, the co-dependency, the money spent, the time spent, the overall commitment of having to meet her family regularly, the pressure of getting married, the pressure of having children, the risk of accidentally impregnating her, the risk of her having mental issues she didn't know about or hid from you, and that's just scratching the surface of all the risks you have to deal with.
And in the end, what do you have as a reward for all this stress, hassle and time investment?
A bit of sex once in a while maybe (like a few times per week or every day if you live together maybe), until you get married and have kids and stop having sex for the rest of your life, except maybe once a year if you're lucky. But people don't mind that because the focus of the relationship is always the romance aspect, but I've never cared about that except when I was like 12-13.
And, as men, it's our duty to make the first move of asking women out, and getting them into bed, and then it's their duty to make sure we commit to them, that's how it has gone down for all of time.
But me personally I don't see the point in going through the trouble of asking LTB and MTB out on dates and going through all the sacrifices just for sex with a girl I'm not even that attracted to, and romance that I'm not really interested in. Instead, I generally just jerk off to a HTB or stacy pornstar and that takes care of the issue. If I desperately needed romantic love, I would feel lonely but I don't. I've seen guys in the Nofap community saying that the high standards are a result of watching too much porn, so what they do is they don't jerk off and after like 4 months of abstinence, they get so desperate they end up hooking up with an obese woman, and they quickly regret it afterwards. You would think that post nut clarity only happens in porn but no, and when it happens with a real girl I think it would be much worse.
Some would say I'm coping. Truth is, I see people I know who are in relationships, and I'm glad I'm not them, I'm glad I don't have to deal with all this drama for almost nothing, I'm happy for them but I would never want to be them. However, I am still looksmaxxing, mainly gymmaxxing, because I think it will make me more likely to get to a point where I can easily hookup with HTB and stacies regularly in maybe 1-3 years. That has always been a goal of mine of filling out my frame and slaying, but if my expectations don't become a reality when I do fill out my frame, at least I will have a great physique and that is enough of an achievement for me.