What you fail to realize about getting a gf

[h111]

You guys say you would be fine if she has a few bodies

When you're laying in bed all alone, or sitting at home lonely on a weekend day, you will begin to think about her past. That's when you will regret ever loving her or dating her. No further explanation needed tbh its just self explanatory

 

[h111]

@greycel @ey88 @Lord Shadow @nathan @grungymallard97

 

[greycel]

You guys say you would be fine if she has a few bodies

When you're laying in bed all alone, or sitting at home lonely on a weekend day, you will begin to think about her past. That's when you will regret ever loving her or dating her. No further explanation needed tbh its just self explanatory

Most guys wouldn’t even benefit from being with a virgin. Most dudes would have a better quality of life with a girl who's been in 1/2 relationships.
The virgin women (after 20) are ultra religious, and won't have the fun vibrant personalities of the women you enjoy talking with

That’s why most are completely fine with this
Yeah sure you’ll have sex with a woman who hasn’t had sex before but the trade off is your relationship will be dry/incompatible and it’ll likely end up nowhere. You’ll begrudgingly put up with somebody you don’t see eye to eye to, just because of a necessity you were told to care for.
It would’ve been an entire waste of time, the equivalent to a long STR

It works for you, but it will be far from a worth trade for most guys.

As “bad” as this sounds, you can manipulate your gf/wife subconsciously to the point that her attachment far exceeds that of an average virgin’s
Just say and do the right things at the right times
Earlier in the relationship the better, more fluid

 

[h111]

Most guys wouldn’t even benefit from being with a virgin. Most dudes would have a better quality of life with a girl who's been in 1/2 relationships.
The virgin women (after 20) are ultra religious, and won't have the fun vibrant personalities of the women you enjoy talking with

That’s why most are completely fine with this
Yeah sure you’ll have sex with a woman who hasn’t had sex before but the trade off is your relationship will be dry/incompatible and it’ll likely end up nowhere. You’ll begrudgingly put up with somebody you don’t see eye to eye to, just because of a necessity you were told to care for.
It would’ve been an entire waste of time, the equivalent to a long STR

It works for you, but it will be far from a worth trade for most guys.

As “bad” as this sounds, you can manipulate your gf/wife subconsciously to the point that her attachment far exceeds that of an average virgin’s
Just say and do the right things at the right times
Earlier in the relationship the better, more fluid

I understand, maybe for other men it is better to have a woman who has some experience. I have a question. What tips can you give me to "manipulate" my gf to make sure she is only attracted to me, fully loyal, committed etc

 

[Cleetus Cornfield]

retard logic expecting a virgin gf when you yourself are not a virgin.

can't complain about MTB only wanting chad when you say shit like this....

practice what you preach

 

[h111]

retard logic expecting a virgin gf when you yourself are not a virgin.

can't complain about MTB only wanting chad when you say shit like this....

practice what you preach

this is true bro, I agree with what you said. if you are virgin, you should want virgin gf. If not, then you shouldn't be saying shit about wanting a virgin gf

 

[greycel]

I understand, maybe for other men it is better to have a woman who has some experience. I have a question. What tips can you give me to "manipulate" my gf to make sure she is only attracted to me, fully loyal, committed etc

It’s a combination of many things and behaviours
It also is case by case, dependent on the foid
You tailor yourself to mold her to what you desire

There’s no one right size. Different goals, different starting points (on both your ends)

From what you told me, she’s already very into you, you don’t need to

Btw “manipulation” has negative connotations.. everything in life is a manipulation to some degree. Pretty much everything you’ve done has been for your self interest. I wouldn’t think “manipulation” to be bad, if what you’re hoping for isn’t negative

 

[Cleetus Cornfield]

What tips can you give me to "manipulate" my gf to make sure she is only attracted to me, fully loyal, committed etc

if you have to manipulate a girl then shes not the one. Why bother doing all that shit when you can find a girl that likes you.

 

[h111]

It’s a combination of many things and behaviours
It also is case by case, dependent on the foid
You tailor yourself to mold her to what you desire

There’s no one right size. Different goals, different starting points (on both your ends)

From what you told me, she’s already very into you, you don’t need to

Btw “manipulation” has negative connotations.. everything in life is a manipulation to some degree. Pretty much everything you’ve done has been for your self interest. I wouldn’t think “manipulation” to be bad, if what you’re hoping for isn’t negative

This sounds really autistic, but I always worry that one day she will go to school and see a guy, and think to herself that he looks better than me. Or, if she finds certain people (online or irl) more attractive than me, and it doesnt matter if she wont cheat. I just don't want her to find other people attractive. I truly love her and don't feel attraction towards other women.

How can I make sure that she doesn't feel attracted towards other men? Because wouldn't it be easily possible for her to just keep those thoughts in her head, and lie to me? I'm not trying to manipulate her to trick her or anything, I just want her to be as loyal as I am

 

[greycel]

if you have to manipulate a girl then shes not the one. Why bother doing all that shit when you can find a girl that likes you.

Btw “manipulation” has negative connotations.. everything in life is a manipulation to some degree. Pretty much everything you’ve done has been for your self interest. I wouldn’t think “manipulation” to be bad, if what you’re hoping for isn’t negative

 

[h111]

if you have to manipulate a girl then shes not the one. Why bother doing all that shit when you can find a girl that likes you.

No, she already likes me and I never manipulated her. I don't like calling it manipulation so I put quotes around it, im just looking for ways to keep her loyal even in the future

 

[Cleetus Cornfield]

No, she already likes me and I never manipulated her. I don't like calling it manipulation so I put quotes around it, im just looking for ways to keep her loyal even in the future

be a good boyfriend, make her feel happy and add something to her life. Don't get fat or descend in your looks. Make money.

 

[greycel]

This sounds really autistic, but I always worry that one day she will go to school and see a guy, and think to herself that he looks better than me. Or, if she finds certain people (online or irl) more attractive than me, and it doesnt matter if she wont cheat. I just don't want her to find other people attractive. I truly love her and don't feel attraction towards other women.

How can I make sure that she doesn't feel attracted towards other men? Because wouldn't it be easily possible for her to just keep those thoughts in her head, and lie to me? I'm not trying to manipulate her to trick her or anything, I just want her to be as loyal as I am

She likely already has

She has already seen a guy who she’s knows is more attractive than you. Both in real life and on social media
The difference is she’s not attracted to him

We conflate the idea of being attractive and being attracted to way too much. For women it’s more emotional
It’s easier for men to get attracted to what is attractive, we are more visually attuned
You might think, but women go for Chads.. that’s because they can go for them, they choose to
It’s less of a priority though

Also, the more important factor than gender being she’s in a relationship with you. She’s bonded to you. You’re the one she’s attracted to

 

[h111]

She likely already has

She has already seen a guy who she’s knows is more attractive than you. Both in real life and on social media
The difference is she’s not attracted to him

We conflate the idea of being attractive and being attracted to way too much. For women it’s more emotional
It’s easier for men to get attracted to what is attractive, we are more visually attuned
You might think, but women go for Chads.. that’s because they can go for them, they choose to
It’s less of a priority though

Also, the more important factor than gender being she’s in a relationship with you. She’s bonded to you. You’re the one she’s attracted to

What is the difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to someone?
Does this mean she would have sexual thoughts about this person/fantasizing, or would it be more like her being aware that he is conventionally more attractive than me, but she doesn't feel attraction

 

[greycel]

What is the difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to someone?
Does this mean she would have sexual thoughts about this person/fantasizing, or would it be more like her being aware that he is conventionally more attractive than me, but she doesn't feel attraction

The latter
She recognises this person is attractive in the eyes of society, but she is not subjectively attracted to him

 

[h111]

The latter
She recognises this person is attractive in the eyes of society, but she is not subjectively attracted to him

This is lifefuel bro. And are you sure about women being more emotion based? Like they will not see a chad, get blinded by his looks and leave the love of their life for him?

 

[greycel]

This is lifefuel bro. And are you sure about women being more emotion based? Like they will not see a chad, get blinded by his looks and leave the love of their life for him?

Yes of course jfl
This is all an exaggeration that guys used to say here, that got taken out of context when TikTok surge came in to hear “Chad or death”
Similar to the ultra low ratings by Blackgymmax, that only recently started dying out

It’s a male perspective
Something we relate to more because we are guys, so something we can easily get tricked into believing

 

[h111]

Yes of course jfl
This is all an exaggeration that guys used to say here, that got taken out of context when TikTok surge came in to hear “Chad or death”
Similar to the ultra low ratings by Blackgymmax, that only recently started dying out

It’s a male perspective
Something we relate to more because we are guys, so something we can easily get tricked into believing

good to know because i was under the belief that even though she loves me, at any moment she could leave me or cheat on me for a better looking guy

i really dont know why i overthink so much when there are no red flags in my relationship

 

[greycel]

good to know because i was under the belief that even though she loves me, at any moment she could leave me or cheat on me for a better looking guy

i really dont know why i overthink so much when there are no red flags in my relationship

You should take a break from the forum man
Don’t let it get in the way with your relationship

That’s your future right there, not this place

 

[h111]

You should take a break from the forum man
Don’t let it get in the way with your relationship

That’s your future right there, not this place

fuck man, all the faceandlms, rehabroom, dbdr ive watched the past 2 years has had such a bad impact on me
alongside .org of course

i dont even have any friends anymore

my gf used to be sad bc i hung out with my friends too often
now i dont ever leave the house unless its for school

i think i told you but i barely ever see my gf, her parents are insanely strict so all we can do is text and maybe try to see each other once every couple weeks

im gonna take a break from this forum, the negatives are way too much

good night bro im going to sleep
thanks for the information, i really didnt know

 

[h111]

fuck man, all the faceandlms, rehabroom, dbdr ive watched the past 2 years has had such a bad impact on me
alongside .org of course

i dont even have any friends anymore

my gf used to be sad bc i hung out with my friends too often
now i dont ever leave the house unless its for school

i think i told you but i barely ever see my gf, her parents are insanely strict so all we can do is text and maybe try to see each other once every couple weeks

im gonna take a break from this forum, the negatives are way too much

good night bro im going to sleep
thanks for the information, i really didnt know

i mean i tell myself that im on .org because i lost all my friends, but honestly they both contribute to each other, and thats why my social life has gone exponentially down recently. now its at 0

 

[greycel]

fuck man, all the faceandlms, rehabroom, dbdr ive watched the past 2 years has had such a bad impact on me
alongside .org of course

i dont even have any friends anymore

my gf used to be sad bc i hung out with my friends too often
now i dont ever leave the house unless its for school

i think i told you but i barely ever see my gf, her parents are insanely strict so all we can do is text and maybe try to see each other once every couple weeks

im gonna take a break from this forum, the negatives are way too much

good night bro im going to sleep
thanks for the information, i really didnt know

Oh yeah and Merry Christmas!

 

[h111]

You should take a break from the forum man
Don’t let it get in the way with your relationship

That’s your future right there, not this place

as ive been making my own decisions, which involve me choosing my morals over being percieved as cool, it alienates me more from people my age

all my old friends are out partying, smoking, drinking, while i rot all day

im at least glad i didnt easily get influenced by them because i want to keep my strong sense of traditional values

 

[h111]

Oh yeah and Merry Christmas!

merry christmas to you too bro

 

[greycel]

i mean i tell myself that im on .org because i lost all my friends, but honestly they both contribute to each other, and thats why my social life has gone exponentially down recently. now its at 0

Your life will find equilibrium again, don’t sweat it

 

[Lord Shadow]

Bodies don't really mean anything unless she was a whore imo, for me it's all about if she has a good career she's working towards, mindset, iq personality etc it's almost impossible to find a virgin nowadays especially now that im in college but if she has those qualities above she'll be fine. Though the girl I'm talking to rn is a virgin with all of the above so Ig I'll just have to pray it works out

 

[thereallegend]

Most guys wouldn’t even benefit from being with a virgin. Most dudes would have a better quality of life with a girl who's been in 1/2 relationships.
The virgin women (after 20) are ultra religious, and won't have the fun vibrant personalities of the women you enjoy talking with

That’s why most are completely fine with this
Yeah sure you’ll have sex with a woman who hasn’t had sex before but the trade off is your relationship will be dry/incompatible and it’ll likely end up nowhere. You’ll begrudgingly put up with somebody you don’t see eye to eye to, just because of a necessity you were told to care for.
It would’ve been an entire waste of time, the equivalent to a long STR

It works for you, but it will be far from a worth trade for most guys.

As “bad” as this sounds, you can manipulate your gf/wife subconsciously to the point that her attachment far exceeds that of an average virgin’s
Just say and do the right things at the right times
Earlier in the relationship the better, more fluid

What a load of shit.

 

[thereallegend]

Bodies don't really mean anything unless she was a whore imo, for me it's all about if she has a good career she's working towards, mindset, iq personality etc it's almost impossible to find a virgin nowadays especially now that im in college but if she has those qualities above she'll be fine. Though the girl I'm talking to rn is a virgin with all of the above so Ig I'll just have to pray it works out

Fucking liberal brainwashing kys

 

[Lord Shadow]

Fucking liberal brainwashing kys

"Raw Carnivore"

 

[thereallegend]

"Raw Carnivore"

You literally care about a woman's career

 

[IBlameEveryoneElse]

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[Bitchwhipper2]

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