What’s a good way to get an ex back

[5OuttaTen]

I used to be an active user here but shut down my account after getting into an LTR that ended recently. I’m attached to this girl and want her back tho that’s the problem, but she wants to just be “friends” (we have sex still basically every time we see each other). We dated for a bit post breakup and she then asked what I did when I was on a date with some other girl and I autistically told her that we smashed in my bed, that did not go down well. She then went on saying that she “loves me too much” and can’t do this whole dating thing with me anymore. I’m not sure what to do to make her want to be in a relationship or at least date me again, I know that there’s plenty of fish in the sea etc but I have a bad oneitis with this chick. Should I just be friends and work up from there slowly or what do I do? I’m seeing her again tomorrow for the first time since she freaked out and called off whatever it was we were doing. Idk what to do pls advise me

 

[5OuttaTen]

Not a single word

 

[Deleted member 21182]

Yes because ur just gonna abandon us after u get another fat bitch

 

[5OuttaTen]

Yes because ur just gonna abandon us after u get another fat bitch

Of course I am, I came to this forum to improve my looks, I then improved my looks and got a girl, then left. Now I want that specific one back

 

[Deleted member 21182]

Its beta to insist the same girl dates u again bro, even if u acompolish that shell never see u the same again, as a man when a girl leaves u u gotta make her see ur better off without her even if she comes begging to get u back u accepting just shows to her subconsciously ur a pussy

 

[5OuttaTen]

Its beta to insist the same girl dates u again bro, even if u acompolish that shell never see u the same again, as a man when a girl leaves u u gotta make her see ur better off without her even if she comes begging to get u back u accepting just shows to her subconsciously ur a pussy

I’m seeing a few other girls now also just this is the oneitis

 

[Enfant terrible]

dn a single word
allah ackbar!!!!

 

[Deleted member 21182]

I’m seeing a few other girls now also just this is the oneitis

I wouldn’t go back to her even if she insisted it never ends up well when u go back to a old girl

 

[5OuttaTen]

I wouldn’t go back to her even if she insisted it never ends up well when u go back to a old girl

Idk man, my parents broke up for two years when young and then got back together and have been together since

 

[Deleted member 21182]

Idk man, my parents broke up for two years when young and then got back together and have been together since

Its rare especially nowadays that girls have so many options, ur not from ur parents time don’t think life is still like hat

 

[Deleted member 24186]

Manifest yakhii

 

[5OuttaTen]

Its rare especially nowadays that girls have so many options, ur not from ur parents time don’t think life is still like hat

Yeah good point, I’ll just hang out with her a bit and see what happens but I’ll keep my options open still

 

[cvzvvc]

Don't even bother. The trash is on the curb so leave it there to be picked up by someone else

 

[vinn98]

She sees you as backup which is why she friend-zoned you. If a girl is truly into a guy she wouldn't break up with him unless he did something dumb. When a woman is dating high LMS chad she holds on for dear life, he can even cheat and she'll forgive him.