whats next with this girl? (forum slayers GTFIH)

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met her a couple days ago, spent the whole day with her because she is a friend to my friends and we were out to an event.
she kinda cute and for the first time I could actually say I enjoyed talking to a foid, she didnt seem shallow which is what I liked.

we had our moments, we played fight for a bit and I picked her up when she was trying to see something and talked seriously here and there.

now what, she is back to her hometown, I am back to mine. she said she'll visit us soon but honestly dont know if she means it. I got her instagram and replied to one of the stories she uploaded of the day, I was trying to have a conversation and shit but we chatted for like 5 mins and she ended up liking my final message when she could've easily let the convo ongoing (suifuel).

next day my friend was like this girl is always flirty with dudes she meets and she is quite extroverted which is true from what I've seen.

should I just let it go or what now niggas
 
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met her a couple days ago, spent the whole day with her because she is a friend to my friends and we were out to an event.
she kinda cute and for the first time I could actually say I enjoyed talking to a foid, she didnt seem shallow which is what I liked.

we had our moments, we played fight for a bit and I picked her up when she was trying to see something and talked seriously here and there.

now what, she is back to her hometown, I am back to mine. she said she'll visit us soon but honestly dont know if she means it. I got her instagram and replied to one of the stories she uploaded of the day, I was trying to have a conversation and shit but we chatted for like 5 mins and she ended up liking my final message when she could've easily let the convo ongoing (suifuel).

next day my friend was like this girl is always flirty with dudes she meets and she is quite extroverted which is true from what I've seen.

should I just let it go or what now niggas
Nothing. Your incel
 
Girls want to have fun, she had it when she was out of her hometown with you. she had a good personality bc she's probably used up and good with words. But there is another side to the story even if it's a foid we are talking about, she could just be uncomfortable texting over phone etc. Hit her back up in few days and if a convo ensues and ends the same way there is your answer.
 
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If she's back in her hometown and you won't be seeing her in person then just forget about her. Focus on yourself and your life there is not much you can (or should) do to try and pursue a woman who is not in your immediate vicinity. If anything, since she follows you on social media, you can post cool things there that she will transiently see and this will keepthe lead "warm" so to speak, but anything more is a bad idea. Trying to make something happen with a girl you don't have access to is unnatractive. you do not want to be the guy texting her phone from another city while she's getting dicked down by the chad who lives next door. You do not want to be fawning over a woman you just met and can't fuck anytime soon. both those things put her in the position of higher value than you, and feeling you place her on a pedestal is anti her hyergamous instinct for sexual attraction and will only lower your value in her eyes and thus her sexual attraction for you.

literally just do what Chad would do, move on, focus on yourself, post cool shit on instagram and if you are doing this well, she will hit you up next time she's available to hang out.

Do not under any circumstances try and actively keep this woman interested. That's what most guys would do because most guys are sex starved and lose all self control and dignity at the mere opportunity for a morsel of pussy.
 
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If she's back in her hometown and you won't be seeing her in person then just forget about her. Focus on yourself and your life there is not much you can (or should) do to try and pursue a woman who is not in your immediate vicinity. If anything, since she follows you on social media, you can post cool things there that she will transiently see and this will keepthe lead "warm" so to speak, but anything more is a bad idea. Trying to make something happen with a girl you don't have access to is unnatractive. you do not want to be the guy texting her phone from another city while she's getting dicked down by the chad who lives next door. You do not want to be fawning over a woman you just met and can't fuck anytime soon. both those things put her in the position of higher value than you, and feeling you place her on a pedestal is anti her hyergamous instinct for sexual attraction and will only lower your value in her eyes and thus her sexual attraction for you.

literally just do what Chad would do, move on, focus on yourself, post cool shit on instagram and if you are doing this well, she will hit you up next time she's available to hang out.

Do not under any circumstances try and actively keep this woman interested. That's what most guys would do because most guys are sex starved and lose all self control and dignity at the mere opportunity for a morsel of pussy.
wise words man. thank you
 
met her a couple days ago, spent the whole day with her because she is a friend to my friends and we were out to an event.
she kinda cute and for the first time I could actually say I enjoyed talking to a foid, she didnt seem shallow which is what I liked.

we had our moments, we played fight for a bit and I picked her up when she was trying to see something and talked seriously here and there.

now what, she is back to her hometown, I am back to mine. she said she'll visit us soon but honestly dont know if she means it. I got her instagram and replied to one of the stories she uploaded of the day, I was trying to have a conversation and shit but we chatted for like 5 mins and she ended up liking my final message when she could've easily let the convo ongoing (suifuel).

next day my friend was like this girl is always flirty with dudes she meets and she is quite extroverted which is true from what I've seen.

should I just let it go or what now niggas
let it go
 
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It’s kinda cute to see you guys overanalyze this shit to the point of posting on a forum as if there was a huge dilemma to solve. As if we could magically tell whether a foid likes you or not based on a few details of her behaviour. It’s fine though, once you get more experience, you will realize shit like this does not mean anything. The only thing that matters is whether she complies with what you ask her to do, whether it’s meeting up, kissing or following you to the bed and letting you undress her.
What she says does not matter much. I’ve had girls literally tell me I’m every girl’s dream guy, I make her go crazy etc, I’ve even had a girl off snap tell me everyday that she loves me and call me every night before going to sleep just so she could hear my voice and fall asleep, but yet they wouldn’t meet up with me. I’ve had girls that acted like they don’t give a shit but whom I slayed afterwards. You will never know for sure in advance, sometimes you just have to put yourself on the line
 
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It’s kinda cute to see you guys overanalyze this shit to the point of posting on a forum as if there was a huge dilemma to solve. As if we could magically tell whether a foid likes you or not based on a few details of her behaviour. It’s fine though, once you get more experience, you will realize shit like this does not mean anything. The only thing that matters is whether she complies with what you ask her to do, whether it’s meeting up, kissing or following you to the bed and letting you undress her.
What she says does not matter much.
its literally not that deep homie, I am not drowning in pus no shit I dont have experience and I need to ask rotters here
I’ve had girls literally tell me I’m every girl’s dream guy, I make her go crazy etc, I’ve even had a girl off snap tell me everyday that she loves me and call me every night before going to sleep just so she could hear my voice and fall asleep
tales
but yet they wouldn’t meet up with me. I’ve had girls that acted like they don’t give a shit but whom I slayed afterwards. You will never know for sure in advance, sometimes you just have to put yourself on the line
true
 
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met her a couple days ago, spent the whole day with her because she is a friend to my friends and we were out to an event.
she kinda cute and for the first time I could actually say I enjoyed talking to a foid, she didnt seem shallow which is what I liked.

we had our moments, we played fight for a bit and I picked her up when she was trying to see something and talked seriously here and there.

now what, she is back to her hometown, I am back to mine. she said she'll visit us soon but honestly dont know if she means it. I got her instagram and replied to one of the stories she uploaded of the day, I was trying to have a conversation and shit but we chatted for like 5 mins and she ended up liking my final message when she could've easily let the convo ongoing (suifuel).

next day my friend was like this girl is always flirty with dudes she meets and she is quite extroverted which is true from what I've seen.

should I just let it go or what now niggas
Invite her to ur place and drugmax
 

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