Whats the best way to level up your social skills

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I be cold approaching people at work, but the conversations are usually short and meaningless. Its so frustrating when i wanna talk to someone for a long time but i dont know what to ask them or i dont know what to talk about. Especially in front of the htbs, i freeze up and give one word answers. Anybody got any tips. Oh yea also i be smoking weed watching porn and doomscrolling blackpill all day dont know if that affects it
 
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I be cold approaching people at work, but the conversations are usually short and meaningless. Its so frustrating when i wanna talk to someone for a long time but i dont know what to ask them or i dont know what to talk about. Especially in front of the htbs, i freeze up and give one word answers. Anybody got any tips. Oh yea also i be smoking weed watching porn and doomscrolling blackpill all day dont know if that affects it
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Ur right thank u
np Minecraftheart
 
I be cold approaching people at work, but the conversations are usually short and meaningless. Its so frustrating when i wanna talk to someone for a long time but i dont know what to ask them or i dont know what to talk about. Especially in front of the htbs, i freeze up and give one word answers. Anybody got any tips. Oh yea also i be smoking weed watching porn and doomscrolling blackpill all day dont know if that affects it
Well, it's all about looks/status/money - like if you're ugly/short/ethnic/etc. people probably won't want to socialize with you, same if you're low status/poor, like if you're you're just a janitor at work, people will likely ignore you, but if you are the boss people will chat with you.
So, just improve your looks/status/money and people will be more friendly towards you, human relations are transactional, as long as you have something to offer, others will want to interact with you.
 
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be good looking
 
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Level up your looks and everything else should fall into place
 
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Level up your looks and everything else should fall into place

This, normies will be doing the real life equivalent of hammering the “end conversation” button if they think you have negative social proof (stemming from ugly looks).

Conversely, they will carry the conversations if you are GL.
 
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Well, it's all about looks/status/money - like if you're ugly/short/ethnic/etc. people probably won't want to socialize with you, same if you're low status/poor, like if you're you're just a janitor at work, people will likely ignore you, but if you are the boss people will chat with you.
So, just improve your looks/status/money and people will be more friendly towards you, human relations are transactional, as long as you have something to offer, others will want to interact with you.
W, do u think im chilling if im 5’11 no shoes, mtn, lifeguard, lean v taper but more on the skinnier side
 
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This, normies will be doing the real life equivalent of hammering the “end conversation” button if they think you have negative social proof (stemming from ugly looks).

Conversely, they will carry the conversations if you are GL.
Wha is negative social proof
 
Ive seen gl people fail in social situations because theyre too antisocial to talk to people. For example this rpb at my school always sits by himself at lunch, always walking in the halls by himself, never really makes eye contact, yet so many girls thirst over him. Its like eight months into the school year and still he has no friends
 
W, do u think im chilling if im 5’11 no shoes, mtn, lifeguard, lean v taper but more on the skinnier side
Lifeguard? Like in Baywatch? Well, life should be very easy for you, all those guys were always surrounded by hot girls, you must be doing something wrong...
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get a job that forces you to speak with people and go out to social events
 
Lifeguard? Like in Baywatch? Well, life should be very easy for you, all those guys were always surrounded by hot girls, you must be doing something wrong...
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I gotta lock in
 
This, normies will be doing the real life equivalent of hammering the “end conversation” button if they think you have negative social proof (stemming from ugly looks).

well put
 

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