What’s the difference between a crush and a oneitis?

[CorinthianLOX]

Title.

 

[IHATEINDIANS]

You can have multiple crushes I think, but only one oneitis. And it's more of an obsession than just attraction

 

[CorinthianLOX]

You can have multiple crushes I think, but only one oneitis

Is oneitis like a girl that you have a crush/interest that you wanna ltr with?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Some pol just say oneitis to mean crush, but it literally means ur “one and only and most beautiful” , i never had oneitis cuz id have crush on 15 girks at once

 

[IHATEINDIANS]

Is oneitis like a girl that you have a crush/interest that you wanna ltr with?

Yeah basically. But it's more of an obsession than just a crush/attraction. You can't find anyone else (or very little other) people attractive and think about her often

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Yeah basically. But it's more of an obsession than just a crush/attraction. You can't find anyone else (or very little other) people attracted and think about her often

This sounds like a mental illness jfl

 

[CorinthianLOX]

I probably had a one itis in 4th grade but when puberty hit and I grew up and only had crushes.

 

[mentally_ill_chad]

Idk but I have neither, I just want a harem

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Idk but I have neither, I just want a harem

Real. High T shit.

 

[pope]

Some pol just say oneitis to mean crush, but it literally means ur “one and only and most beautiful” , i never had oneitis cuz id have crush on 15 girks at once

High t as fuck

 

[unowkn]

You only have a oneitis when youre low T u cocksuckass

 

[ihatereddit]

using the word crush as an adult sounds gay as hell

 

[Toad]

Crushes are kinda like the early stages of oneitis. You reach the oneitis stage once you start obsessing over your crush and pursuing him/her without them reciprocating. Often times the oneitis in question is aware of your obsession but still allows you to orbit them